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During an interview with Jeff Conway, Ksenia Daniela talked about being excited to watch Connor Storrie host SNL next weekend: "Oh my God, I’m so excited for him! I’m so excited! He is such a phenomenal actor. When I met him, I was just like… This guy is going so far in life, like, he is going to be just… I know he is going to put out phenomenal performances. So, I’m so excited for him to be on SNL. I think he is the perfect fit for something like this. You know, he is a very good serious actor but he is also very silly. And I think that is just the perfect vibe for SNL, and I’m so excited and so proud of him. And I can’t wait to see him kill it! I’m going to be watching."

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I’ve been injured since 2017, almost nine long years. Practically all of that time I spent wallowing in self-pity. “Woe to be me,” and all that. I let the pain I was in dictate every single decision I made. I was angry, and I fought with my friends for any and every reason. I’m honestly shocked that they tried as hard as they did to help me. I definitely didn’t deserve it. In the end I lost them, but I still love them and I’ll keep reaching out. The four months after my injury was the angriest I’ve ever been in my life. I would get drunk and stoned, and say the most awful, mean shit to the people that loved me and were just trying to help. The first 3 to 4 years of my injury was the worst. I would get blasted and then I would obstinately resist everyone’s help, just to be a cunt. I wanted people to feel what I felt, even if just for a few minutes. Those minutes turned into a near decade. I’m done feeling sorry for myself. Done. I’m taking back agency of my life. I’m handling every interaction with my insurance company. I’m in coordination with every doctor. I’m cutting back on medication. I’m going back to physical therapy. I’m getting back in shape. I’m eating healthy. And I will be wealthy very soon. There’s no doubt in my mind. At the very least, I’m starting to laugh again. I’m starting to appreciate everyone and everything in my life. And now I don’t simply believe God saved my life that fateful day, I know it. 1 Peter 5:10 (ESV): “And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you.” Remember who you are and don’t forget to have a little fun. God bless you and God bless the USA 😋

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Caller: “I think i’m my 41 year old boyfriend’s retirement, should i run?” Caller: I’m 32, an attorney, and I’ve been dating a 41 year old for three years. We’re talking marriage, but I just discovered he has no retirement or investment accounts. Nothing. George: At 41? Caller: Zero. And it’s making me nervous about our future together. Dave: You’re right to be nervous. This isn’t about being superficial or greedy. How someone handles money tells you a lot about their character and maturity. Caller: That’s what I’m worried about. I’ve been responsible with my finances and I don’t want to subsidize someone who lacks ambition. Dave: That’s a legitimate concern. You two need to understand each other’s financial values before marriage. George: Here’s the key question, does he have legitimate reasons for not saving, like caring for sick family members? Or is it just a lack of planning and discipline? Caller: I don’t think he has legitimate excuses. Dave: Then you have a bigger problem. This isn’t just about money, it’s about whether you two are aligned on life goals and whether you’ll respect each other long term. George: If he’s not planning for retirement at 41, that tells you something about how he approaches adulthood and responsibility. That doesn’t disappear after marriage. Caller: Can people change? Dave: They can, but they have to want to. Before you marry him, have a direct conversation. Find out if he’s willing to get serious about retirement and financial planning. If not, you need to ask yourself if you can be happy with someone who isn’t taking care of his future. Caller: That’s hard to hear. George: It is. But being miserable in a marriage because you’re subsidizing someone’s lack of planning is worse. Dave: Don’t marry someone hoping they’ll change. Marry someone who’s already aligned with you.
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Caller: “I think i’m my 41 year old boyfriend’s retirement, should i run?” Caller: I’m 32, an attorney, and I’ve been dating a 41 year old for three years. We’re talking marriage, but I just discovered he has no retirement or investment accounts. Nothing. George: At 41? Caller: Zero. And it’s making me nervous about our future together. Dave: You’re right to be nervous. This isn’t about being superficial or greedy. How someone handles money tells you a lot about their character and maturity. Caller: That’s what I’m worried about. I’ve been responsible with my finances and I don’t want to subsidize someone who lacks ambition. Dave: That’s a legitimate concern. You two need to understand each other’s financial values before marriage. George: Here’s the key question, does he have legitimate reasons for not saving, like caring for sick family members? Or is it just a lack of planning and discipline? Caller: I don’t think he has legitimate excuses. Dave: Then you have a bigger problem. This isn’t just about money, it’s about whether you two are aligned on life goals and whether you’ll respect each other long term. George: If he’s not planning for retirement at 41, that tells you something about how he approaches adulthood and responsibility. That doesn’t disappear after marriage. Caller: Can people change? Dave: They can, but they have to want to. Before you marry him, have a direct conversation. Find out if he’s willing to get serious about retirement and financial planning. If not, you need to ask yourself if you can be happy with someone who isn’t taking care of his future. Caller: That’s hard to hear. George: It is. But being miserable in a marriage because you’re subsidizing someone’s lack of planning is worse. Dave: Don’t marry someone hoping they’ll change. Marry someone who’s already aligned with you.

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🦊 “you said ‘no labels’ became a journey of discovering yourself rather than defining yourself, i’m curious, was there a turning point where you realized this process wasn’t about proving who choi yeonjun is but about getting to know yourself better?” (in english) while i was preparing for my next album, ‘part 02’…i really had a hard time and…uh…(in korean) how do i put this? hmm 🦊 (in english) and i really tried to like…find who i am, who i want to be and what i want to be for like a year…i don’t know when exactly…when… 🦊 (in korean) the turning point that made me realize it? 🦊 (in english) i’m still finding but…and i realized that i don’t have to be perfect and…okay i’ll just say it in korean 🦊 (in korean) i just…i came to learn that there was no need to be perfect and i think that the process of finding myself is something that will take my entire life for me to do, until the day i die….and i think i realized that like other people, i’m not perfect either 🦊 (in english) please someone translate this for other moas hehe thank you so much 🤍
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🦊 “you said ‘no labels’ became a journey of discovering yourself rather than defining yourself, i’m curious, was there a turning point where you realized this process wasn’t about proving who choi yeonjun is but about getting to know yourself better?” (in english) while i was preparing for my next album, ‘part 02’…i really had a hard time and…uh…(in korean) how do i put this? hmm 🦊 (in english) and i really tried to like…find who i am, who i want to be and what i want to be for like a year…i don’t know when exactly…when… 🦊 (in korean) the turning point that made me realize it? 🦊 (in english) i’m still finding but…and i realized that i don’t have to be perfect and…okay i’ll just say it in korean 🦊 (in korean) i just…i came to learn that there was no need to be perfect and i think that the process of finding myself is something that will take my entire life for me to do, until the day i die….and i think i realized that like other people, i’m not perfect either 🦊 (in english) please someone translate this for other moas hehe thank you so much 🤍

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