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Not being funny. I really have a genuine question. Thoughts ๐ญ โ๏ธ
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Betrayal

Jealousy & Betrayal

We call them snake ass niggas

What youโre describing is often called benefactor resentment or resentment of indebtedness: when someone receives genuine help, the help itself becomes a psychological reminder that they were once vulnerable, dependent, or behind, so instead of feeling gratitude, they begin to resent the person who witnessed that weakness. To protect their pride, they may rewrite the story, minimize what you did, exaggerate your flaws, or even turn you into an enemy because hostility feels easier than admitting, โI needed you once.โ Itโs a nasty little defense mechanism: gratitude requires humility, while resentment lets the ego pretend the debt never existed. Nevertheless, more advanced human beings does not have this kind of sickness

Jealousy

You canโt help everyone

THOSE UR HATERS SWEETIE ๐คท๐คท๐คท๐คท๐คท

People that only wanted to use you in the first place. Them type of people donโt give a guck about you!

Because they donโt need help theyโre on your same level thatโs why they love you down and those are the people you should stick with. Fuck the leeches.

Lol ๐๐๐

This made my day

Jealousy

real talk family and friends are some of our worst enemies but yall gotta remember you can live someone from a distance and forgiveness doesnt mean forget or reconciliation

Ungrateful and not worthy of your energy. But on the flip side, you may just be a vessel to get people to that next level of elevation and unfortunately People are flawed and dont appreciate genuine help,until your no longer there to help.

Itโs because itโs something they canโt do for whatever reason they would never do that for someone else so they do resent you but thatโs their problem

This only happens to me with family. On several occasions.

Extraction and/or exploitation. They are extracting from your energy and resources. They are exploiting your good will. Primarily rooted in a selfish/self-serving nature. - Unfortunately, it's a cold game out here sometimes.๐๐พ๐

There you just said it gratitude thatโs the word for it. They donโt have gratitude and probably some narcissistic jealousy

Thatโs exactly why Ike beat Tinaโฆ ๐

I feel you beautiful

Itโs also called mistaking your kindness for weakness,

Because people have the need to feel that they deserve whatever they have and that they got it on their own. Just make sure everything is mutual. Donโt do something for anyone unless you know theyโre willing to do it for you. And if someone never has it to do for you stop asap

Thatโs called the Social Norm of today. Selfishness Rules the World ๐

Betrayal!!!

BEING USED.

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They called a fuck person truly and a user fuckem

They really jealous of you baby because you really got it going on. Stay positive and stay away from people

Evil, demonic , Lugubrious

Itโs called betrayal, young lady and youโre absolutely beautiful

They say when you keep doing the same thing over and over expecting different results, that's the true definition of INSANITY! LOL

Itโs called being fake from the get-go
