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Nothing sparkles quite like a sissy who can't sit still, sissy… every step reminds you exactly what you're wearing 🩷🩷🩷 Would you wear it out? 💎⬇️ #femboy #crossdresser #transgender #transgirl #feminine #sissyhypno #sissygirl #sissycaption

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every game you play expecting your jungler to help is a game you already lost let me explain you're playing a 1v1. that's it. you and the enemy laner. everything else is noise if you NEED a gank to win lane you don't deserve to win lane the best players in the world? they play like they're alone. every game. they assume no help is coming. they ward for themselves. they track jungle themselves. they win lane themselves then when a gank comes it's a bonus. not a rescue you're playing the opposite way you're losing lane and praying for intervention. that's not a strategy. that's a lottery ticket here's what happens when you rely on your jungler: he ganks and you win? you learned nothing. you didn't win lane. he did he doesn't gank and you lose? you tilt. you flame. you blame. you learn nothing again either way you stay hardstuck because your rank isn't built on wins. it's built on skill. and skill comes from solving problems yourself not having someone else solve them for you here's the mindset shift: jungle is rng. sometimes you get camped. sometimes you get ignored. you can't control it what you CAN control is whether you win lane without help make that the standard. not the exception play every lane like your jungler is afk. ward like no one's watching your back. track like your life depends on it. because it does the players who climb aren't the ones who get the most ganks they're the ones who need them the least stop waiting for help become the help Study the Saskio way

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Not 1, not 5, not even 7 but 10 plots of land at once. Sometimes, I wonder what life would have been like if I hadn’t been stubborn enough to combine medicine with trading. What if I had given in to my dad’s pressure when he constantly seized my phone for staying up late at night? Look at him smiling now. Lol. The truth is, you won’t always get support from family, friends or even a spouse. Not because they are bad people but because they don’t see what you see and they don’t believe in what you do. If you are in a situation like this, keep building regardless. Your destination will always prove that the journey was worth it. I hope this inspires every dreamer who is still fighting in silence. To the ones who know what it means to stay up at 3am not because they have insomnia but because something is tugging at their chest to level up, I hope you win! As always, I am rooting for you. Congratulations to me! 🩷

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205,137 views • 10 months ago

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#EnemiesWithBenefits #JanJingjing 🐯: in ep8, where k’wine broke up with lal and chose to be the one to walk away from everyone relationship, sacrificing her own [needs]. was this the right decision? 🩷(C): what if [the book] says it’s right? 🦊: ohhh~ i’ll burn it. lal doesn’t like it 🐯: “most definitely!” 🩷(C): it might have been the best from k’wine’s perspective and at that moment 🐯: you know why? it has to be “most definitely” because k’wine knows that k’korn is very scary. if wine wasn’t the one choosing to step away and break up with lal, lal would definitely get wrecked/destroyed/hurt, get targeted by k’korn… 🦊: lal is hurt now already! 🐯: … in a way that lal could never imagined. because if lal got targeted by k’korn, it would be a different story

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21,887 views • 28 days ago

Jordan Peterson: "If you can't fix your room, you can't fix your life" "Why should you even bother improving yourself? The answer is something like: so you don't suffer anymore stupidly than you have to. And maybe so others don't have to either. It's not some casual self-help doctrine. If you don't organize yourself properly, you'll pay for it. In a big way. And so will the people around you." Peterson continues: "You can say, 'Well, I don't care about that.' But that's actually not true, you do care about it. Because if you're in pain, you will care about it. It's very rare that you can find someone in excruciating pain who would say, 'Well, it would be no better if I was out of this.' Pain brings the idea that it would be better if it didn't exist along with it. It's incontrovertible." On how to start: "Look around for something that bothers you and see if you can fix it. You can do this in a room. Sit in your bedroom and think: 'If I wanted to spend ten minutes making this room better, what would I have to do?' You have to ask yourself that, it's a genuine question. And things will pop out. There's a stack of papers bugging you. Some rubbish behind your computer monitor you haven't attended to for six months. Cables tangled up." He explains why this matters: "If you were coming to see me for psychotherapy, the easiest thing would be to get you to organize your room. You think, is that psychotherapy? It depends on how you conceive the limits of your being. Start where you can start. If something announces itself as in need of repair that you could repair, fix it. Fix a hundred things like that, your life will be a lot different." On fixing what you repeat every day: "People tend to think of their daily routines as trivial. You get up, brush your teeth, have breakfast. Those probably constitute 50% of your life. People think, they're mundane, I don't need to pay attention to them. No, that's exactly wrong. The things you do every day are the most important things you do. Hands down. Just do the arithmetic." On staying within your competence: "Sometimes you don't know how to fix something. Imagine you're walking down the street and there's a guy who's alcoholic and schizophrenic and has been homeless for ten years. That's a problem. It would be good if you could fix it, but you haven't got a clue. You walk around that and go find something you could fix. Just because something announces itself as in need of repair doesn't mean it's you, right then and there, who should repair it. You have to have some humility. You don't walk up to a helicopter that isn't working and just start tinkering away." Peterson shares the key insight: "As soon as you give your mind a genuine aim, it'll reconfigure the world in keeping with that aim. That's actually how you see to begin with. You've all seen the video where you watch basketballs being tossed back and forth, and while you're doing that, a gorilla walks into the middle of the video and you don't see it. If you thought about that experiment for five years, that would be about the right amount of time to spend thinking about it." He explains what it reveals: "What it shows you is that you see what you aim at. If you can get one thing through your head, that would be a good one. You see what you aim at. One inference you might draw from that is: be careful what you aim at. What you aim at determines the way the world manifests itself to you. So if the world is manifesting itself in a very negative way, one thing to ask is: are you aiming at the right thing?"
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Jordan Peterson: "If you can't fix your room, you can't fix your life" "Why should you even bother improving yourself? The answer is something like: so you don't suffer anymore stupidly than you have to. And maybe so others don't have to either. It's not some casual self-help doctrine. If you don't organize yourself properly, you'll pay for it. In a big way. And so will the people around you." Peterson continues: "You can say, 'Well, I don't care about that.' But that's actually not true, you do care about it. Because if you're in pain, you will care about it. It's very rare that you can find someone in excruciating pain who would say, 'Well, it would be no better if I was out of this.' Pain brings the idea that it would be better if it didn't exist along with it. It's incontrovertible." On how to start: "Look around for something that bothers you and see if you can fix it. You can do this in a room. Sit in your bedroom and think: 'If I wanted to spend ten minutes making this room better, what would I have to do?' You have to ask yourself that, it's a genuine question. And things will pop out. There's a stack of papers bugging you. Some rubbish behind your computer monitor you haven't attended to for six months. Cables tangled up." He explains why this matters: "If you were coming to see me for psychotherapy, the easiest thing would be to get you to organize your room. You think, is that psychotherapy? It depends on how you conceive the limits of your being. Start where you can start. If something announces itself as in need of repair that you could repair, fix it. Fix a hundred things like that, your life will be a lot different." On fixing what you repeat every day: "People tend to think of their daily routines as trivial. You get up, brush your teeth, have breakfast. Those probably constitute 50% of your life. People think, they're mundane, I don't need to pay attention to them. No, that's exactly wrong. The things you do every day are the most important things you do. Hands down. Just do the arithmetic." On staying within your competence: "Sometimes you don't know how to fix something. Imagine you're walking down the street and there's a guy who's alcoholic and schizophrenic and has been homeless for ten years. That's a problem. It would be good if you could fix it, but you haven't got a clue. You walk around that and go find something you could fix. Just because something announces itself as in need of repair doesn't mean it's you, right then and there, who should repair it. You have to have some humility. You don't walk up to a helicopter that isn't working and just start tinkering away." Peterson shares the key insight: "As soon as you give your mind a genuine aim, it'll reconfigure the world in keeping with that aim. That's actually how you see to begin with. You've all seen the video where you watch basketballs being tossed back and forth, and while you're doing that, a gorilla walks into the middle of the video and you don't see it. If you thought about that experiment for five years, that would be about the right amount of time to spend thinking about it." He explains what it reveals: "What it shows you is that you see what you aim at. If you can get one thing through your head, that would be a good one. You see what you aim at. One inference you might draw from that is: be careful what you aim at. What you aim at determines the way the world manifests itself to you. So if the world is manifesting itself in a very negative way, one thing to ask is: are you aiming at the right thing?"

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