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Oh I absolutely love this. "The single greatest skill that you can develop is being in a great mood in the absence of things to be in a great mood about." If your happiness constantly requires good news, more money, another achievement, validation, or something external, you’re basically handing...

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Yukon Cornelius13 gün önce

My happiness requires a clean home, food in the fridge, a walk out in nature in the morning, order, discipline & peace in my life, friends & family, the touch of a woman, & the occasional indulgence of peanut butter & chocolate.

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Iz13 gün önce

I noticed people who eat amanita can be happier than usual in adverse circumstances.

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David S Salkeld 😎13 gün önce

This is a Biblical principle.

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Alex 🍊🍊🍊🍊🍦🐄12 gün önce

I figured this out after I thought I had lost everything.. mushrooms helped

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Terry Lightfoot13 gün önce

Namaste 🙏🏼

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Tony WarForged13 gün önce

Being able to create your own internal state is a serious advantage!!

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K.Beauty.Arena🍉13 gün önce

Appreciate you sharing these key highlights with us.

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Colby Lovelady12 gün önce

It’s a biblical truth and admonition. Phil. 4:11-13

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Joyous

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Marzbar🚀13 gün önce

So true!! ♥️♥️♥️

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Vildan YALÇIN13 gün önce

True

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Diana Young12 gün önce

Absolutely 1QQ% true !!!

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Maria Monika12 gün önce

🔥

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Life Span 36013 gün önce

So true. It really comes down to realizing that being happy is a choice. Whenever I'm feeling down, just stopping to focus on what I'm actually grateful for instantly flips my mindset and pulls me into a better mood.

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Sofia n.13 gün önce

Couldn't agree more

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Madelene Dahlström13 gün önce

So true and I am constant working on it.

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Jason Curry 🇺🇸13 gün önce

Of course you would say all the wisdom you want AFTER you got to the finish line where you are today. Successful people make sure they hit all those victories to get to the finish line to start saying those quotes. I myself got to my finish line and now I see why I am saying those same lines because it feels damn good there not over there while getting to the finish line. Stop lying!

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🐿 It seems pretty hard to instantly make yourself feel better when you’re in a bad mood. I also have a lot of days when I’m feeling down, days that are tough, or days when my thoughts are overwhelming. Even on days filled with good things, or during periods when lots of nice things are happening, my mood can still dip sometimes. So don’t think it’s too strange or that something’s wrong with you. When you’re feeling bad, just acknowledge it: “Ah, I’m in a bad mood right now.” There are all kinds of reasons why that can happen. Honestly, sometimes there’s a real reason.. something genuinely upsetting happened to you, or you’re anxious about something. Life is full of those moments. You might feel bad because you feel sorry toward someone, or because you did something wrong, or because something made you really angry. There are so many possible reasons. I think the most important thing when you’re in a bad mood is recognizing it. Like, “I’m in a bad mood because of this specific thing, and it’s making me angry.” But sometimes you realize, “Honestly, this isn’t even something I should be this upset about, yet I am.. and if I lash out at others, it’ll seem weird.” In those moments, being aware of your own state is crucial. You have to tell yourself, “Right now I’m really angry and sensitive. If anyone touches a nerve, I might explode.” You can either carefully avoid people, or give them a heads-up in advance. It feels necessary to do that kind of prep work.. like nicely letting others know, “I’m in a bad mood today, so I think I should be alone,” or “I might end up hurting the people around me without meaning to.” If you have no choice but to meet people, you can say something like, “I had something upsetting happen today, and I don’t want it to affect you. I’m a bit down compared to usual, so I’d appreciate it if you could understand.” Having the courage to communicate that is a really valuable effort. No matter how close someone is to you, or how often you see them every day, emotions turn into attitude in the moment. If a sensitive version of yourself ends up being sharp with someone you care about, or if someone treats you differently than usual for something you didn’t even do, even the kindest and closest people will feel hurt. So when you’re in a bad mood, it’s better to be extra mindful of how you affect those around you. If you can’t make yourself feel better right away, at least try not to hurt the people who are precious to you and close to you. That’s the best way to avoid regret tomorrow or the day after. It’s really difficult, though. It’s genuinely hard, and I still don’t do it well sometimes. But someone asked earlier how to feel better when you’re in a bad mood, so I ended up sharing all this. I still find it difficult myself. That said, being able to apologize properly after some time has passed is also a huge act of courage. Since we’re only human, these situations can happen. When they do, it’s good to talk it out honestly: “I’m sorry about earlier. I was like that because of something, but actually it wasn’t what I thought. I’m sorry.” Of course, if the person involved is the direct reason for your bad mood, then it’s something you should resolve through good conversation.. clearly expressing your feelings. This isn’t about becoming foolish, dumb, or overly naïve. It’s actually about becoming smarter and wiser. That’s what I think.

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Jimmy Carr said something on Chris Williamson’s podcast that’s been rattling around in my head: You can be a billionaire and miserable, or stuck in a boring office job and genuinely content. The difference usually isn’t your circumstances — it’s your disposition. That internal weather system you carry around every day. No matter how connected you are, how great your family is, you’re still alone with your thoughts a lot. So how do you show up? Are you hunting for jokes, wearing rose-tinted glasses, or defaulting to grumpy? Jimmy nailed it: gratitude is the thing that actually moves the dial. If you’re in a bad mood most of the time, you’re not “in a bad mood” — you’re just being an arsehole to the people around you. How you treat the waiter, how you react to a speeding ticket, how you handle the thousand little annoyances life throws — that’s who you really are. In a noisy world full of comparisons and external chaos, your default disposition might be the quietest, most powerful lever you have. Changing the world is hard. Shifting how you see it? Often easier than we admit. For me, putting myself in the hands of God and practicing gratitude for even the smallest things is what resets that grumpy default. The small stuff really is the big stuff. What about you — would you say you mostly move through the world with a sunny disposition, or do you catch yourself defaulting to the negative more than you’d like?

Camus

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