Omg, South Africans need therapy. This started off being funny and started getting dark 🥺

These are the conversations young women should be having. This is what podcasts are for, to share stories and healing not just relationship mgowo and sex. Sometimes these kids just speak nonsense but this snippet shows they have deeper things to chat about. Real stories.

These are conversations that young people need to be having.

There is not a single justifiable reason to physically assault a child. If you assault an adult it's a crime but assaulting a defenseless minor is discipline? Please man

To think of how loving and soft my mom was ❤️ 😍 💖 ❣️. I feel sorry for people that experience their mothers this way.

I have a friend who fighting that his daughter can not be raised by his mom or his grandmother because they are rotten. I help him fighting court order to win a child custody. He won it snd he is raising his child alone.

Oh wow, I'm so touched by this clip I'm gonna go watch , I'm really not alone, our parents really put us and still are putting us thru a lot lot...damn

This conversation went from funny to heavy so fast South Africans really do carry a lot from how we were raised 🥲

There is a certain level of not being able to articulate yourself that is linked to not reading enough. You end up responding to things emotionally bc you don’t have the vocabulary to express yourself. Umdala manje, pick up a book and help improve your vocabulary.

Finally I can tune in to a podcast where the hosts are my age mates.

@ozababe_anita A counterintuitive situation, but I mean we need to also take responsibility for ourselves. I get the damage but it’s also a good thing for a sick person to know whats troubling them cos they are easy to get helped.

My dad used to beat me and it actually set me up to be very angry with men. The minute you display an aggressive attitude, I hit first💔

Mothers damn near hate their daughters, I wonder why

As a girl mom, hearing their stories break my heart, I wonder if I'm doing well to raise my baby😭 I hope one day she doesn't have to heal from me, my teachings and treatment towards her💔

I Just Personally think it's just too much bashing on Parents who Sacrificed so much for their Children to be where they are but Ke Let them express themselves asinamona but these Podcasts 🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃

Yoh. Glad I didn’t have a mom? 🥺

The beauty about it all is that, she knows and understands her situation. Also her mom should not be blamed, nobody teaches parenting, if so your best reference point is at home with your own parents. So this is way deep. However ugirl ena sounds enlightened and will move difrnt.

Let’s go ladies. Vulnerability is key

We love, respect them and agree they sacrificed a lot for us but😭. I am fighting to unlearn shouting and lashing out. He just broke sugar container and I had to fight the demon in me🥵. Ma mom would have gone to an extend of asking me to buy it and would remind me everyday.

Sisi…. THERAPY IS NOT ENOUGH

Ay maan amantombazane asile

This is so sad

Yoooo I can relate

Dark maybe … At least they speaking about it, so yeah there is light at the end of the tunnel.

Lol it’s also very important to understand that our parents are doing this life thing for the first time hey. They are people with emotions as well. They can’t be perfect.!

These conversations show us where the culture of abuse stems from. And this is a poor relationship we have with Power, and how the abuse of it has a trickle down effect. - Men usually inflict Women - Women usually inflict children. - Children usually bully the weak among them.

For the first time ,I relate .

90% of Xhosa women 😪

You know parents can identify when a child is problematic from day 1. You can pick it up from how they cry. And the hate grows from there.

The question is what are you doing about it now beside blaming the other person

Eyo the level of trauma.

Mxm

Being a problem child sometimes makes you feel like your parents were out to get you kanti no it's because you also played a part in it. 1 of my siblings used to say my parents hate them, therefore they got more hiding, reason was because they were always misbehaving.

I like this!

As a father, I will definitely discipline my daughter!! Social media and it's gettho advices sometimes 😒