Omoh, to marry oyinbo no easy o 😭🧎🏻‍♂️‍➡️

Name of the show: Love across Borders Link: Love Across Borders - EP 01 - Sarah and Kunle

He doesn’t need permission but courtesy demands that you discuss these things with her and make her understand

To marry anyone no easy, the koko na to understand who you dey marry, understand they are not perfect and be sure you can live with them even with their imperfections.

🚨For those who don’t understand her perspective. 1. She saw her parents worked and maybe still working or retired and leaving on their pension, but her husband’s parents are the opposite. 2. She’s from a place where it’s a crime for city mayors to ask people for money. 3. Her nephews and cousins only get seasonal gifts from her not their school fees. 4. Her siblings are most likely carrying their own weight or else they will look to the government and not her. However, her husband’s siblings are taking from their family wealth — yes, I said family wealth. When you marry, your wealth and debt belongs to the family. She will inherit the husband’s debts if he dies, so why is it a problem if she has a say in how the money is being used. 5. Married couples pay family income tax not individual income tax. This means it’s not his money or her money but their nuclear family’s money. People will understand her if they understand the context and consequences of where this couple live.

She is your wife.. it’s now the families money because once you go broke don’t sniff towards her side because na raw tatashi you go smell 👃

The high demands of Nigerian families is actually too much for an outsider to comprehend. The bills is unending. In an ideal world, he needs to ask his wife’s permission before he can dip into their finances and give it to all and sundry. But Nigerian anyhowness

This one is even nice. The one that was telling the Nigerian man that their 3 year old boy is a girl, he wan run mad🤣🤣

It's not permission you need, it's a buy-in and it's not "my money" as you're no longer a bachelor, its "our money". Know this, know peace.

You just have to agree with your wife if you want peace.

Bro is having wife and kids back home that need his support Leave all this planty talk