Omoh! Valid point dey wetin this woman talk so oo! 🚶‍♂️

Well You can be a kind person and still: - Say no. - Set boundaries. - Priorities your needs. - Disagree with people. - Protect your time and space….

There's a huge difference between being kind and nice. Be kind not nice else they'll use your head

Facts

Don’t be all sugar, otherwise the world will lick you to the bone 🦴

Na why I dey dagger my emotion on the 31st night. Make I no get feelings again

Oh my goodness look at me ,I have been through a lot trying to make everyone around happy but at the end I cry before going to bed at night I will try to reduce my efforts like before. Thank you sister

Discomfort is not danger. Saying no may feel awkward, but it won’t kill you. Resentment will. Also people respect clarity more than sacrifice. You won’t lose the right people by having limits.🤝

Omo, 2026 I go wicked die 🔥🔥

Be kind, but not nice. Nice people get exploited the most. Being "nice" involves excessive people-pleasing, pandering to emotions, always accommodating wishes, or being overly soft. Kindness means fairness, firmness, leadership, and compassion when earned or necessary. It commands respect and maintains boundaries.

Learnt that the hard way this year. But nothing spoil

I'm nice, only once. My niceness is like a one time free subscription.

The more reason i want to be very wicked from next year........👌

I’m not even nice, I tell people I come in contact with that I am not nice but I’m KIND.

Glover's No More Mr Nice Guy. Great book to read and discover. There's a difference between a good guy and a nice guy - it's boundaries

Everything wey this woman dey talk so just dey enter me ,But I don dey treat the people the way them dey treat me Sha make dem still dey feel am ,Cus ehn U go do good willing or dey kind to people Dem go think say u be Mumu or you too get na why Dem nor know say na D mind u get🤷

Who is teaching you guys NAA... Well a presidential candidate became popular in this country for publicly admitting his source of advise from. Smh!

I learnt you can’t help everyone and can’t be for everyone

Once you become too nice, there's nothing, absolutely nothing you can do abt it, unfortunately. Because you've developed this nice personality over the years, this personality has become you. It's too late to change. This is the reality of some. But e day pain oh.

She speaks directly to me….2026 mood activated

Everything she said is valid

It's better to be wise than to be nice

This 💯

I needed this

Very true

This life no too serious like that. Chilax😆

My story

Hmmm

Valid point...2026 make everyone wear wickedness like clothes

Don't be nice. Nice is not good

That’s me. Been warned many times by won’t listen.

Oh well

@grok analysis what’s in the video

Very correct

Karma

What’s her handle make her follow her