one sided friendship

your friendship with him was a manifestation of your own desperation for friendship. but to him, you were just a cool guy he hung out with sometimes.

maybe, idk. i haven’t really thought about it

that’s okay 👍🏽

Your friend has ADHD lol. I speak from personal experience

he got tested for ADHD and he doesn’t have it

This was your friends way of trying, and to him your friendship is timeless. Seems you made the rule to wait for him, but now you’re moving the goalpost?

I’ve seen porn with less sexual tension

This video means everything to me, thank you

that’s very sweet of you to say thanks

The great thing about a true friend is that you can go years without talking to them, and when you do next, it’s as if no time went by.

Bro just lost one of his best friends. Dude. Read the room. Your homie was showing complete trust in you for your knowledge- gives you props for it, goes on to pour out his whole year on ya because HE KNEW you would be ass hurt for not texting before. Then he opens up and confides with you for life advice because even he is confused. That’s the real deal: he needed his friend to talk to. Read the room dumbass.

he’s not one of my best friends, he just would never text me to hang out. he also told me in later texts he doesn’t care to keep hanging he just wanted me to explain the movie to him since his wifi was being weird

Then you’re good man. Nothing lost.

I don't talk to friends for months at a time (a year is a bit excessive), but the friendship is still there. I understand people get busy with their own lives and I don't need someone constantly. I get busy with my own stuff.

Adult friendships. There is more space with adults. You can’t drag around everybody all the time. When you get older, you enjoy these kind of relationships when you can pick up where you left off as if there was no time between you, just space. Dude was just trying to connect

You start out by saying “I have this friend”. Just accept your friend for who he is and your friendship for what’s it is and realize that it might not be a deep friendship, but what he does hold of the friendship is dear to him

I’m a female. I literally don’t care if my friends text/call/visit me or not. It doesn’t matter. I think it’s unhealthy to care so much. It’s better to hold on loosely and not take things personal. The people who perform these “tests” care WAY TOO MUCH. It’s unhealthy and cringe.

Bro doesn’t understand that he’s the high IQ with the low IQ friend, and the pet misses the master

Am I low IQ or is this very obviously sarcasm and all the comments are treating it like it's legit

People can have any number of reasons for not texting that don’t mean they dislike you. You could be their best friend but they aren’t the type of person to text first, be it ADHD or anxiety or whatever. If a person is cool when you do stay in touch, don’t play games & ghost them

Dude! Moral of the story here is that no matter how much time passes, your friend is still your friend, even if you don’t work at it. If you feel loss at the end of the year for not talking, you should have talked about it. But the unspoken forgiveness here: love and acceptance.

Bro your hair is fire. What product you use??

texture powder 🤝

Yes- thanks bro

This literally happened to me. I cut him off. People suck

Im that friend your talking about 😅 I should text my friend who I haven't in over a year. But honestly dude, when you get married, have kids, open a business, it really adds up and going out becomes hard due to time constraints and busy life....

my friend isn’t married and doesn’t have kids. his only responsibility is working dodger home games

At the end of the day everyone is busy. Despite this, busy people always find time for the people they truly care about. They only ignore the people they're using. FACTS. He's not your friend, dude. Keep moving forward with your head up. Your tribe is out there somewhere.

Dry up bro Tired of these grown ass men pissing and wining

This FRUITLESS video

give him my number and I'll explain it to him when he texts me

Bro just want to talk about themselves… can you explain the ending?

I’m that friend. doesn’t mean lack of love, care or affection, but I get why people feel disengaged and ignored with the distance. best I can do is try to be more present, only works out 5/50 time I guess. if you dont mind the loss, it’s ok, he’ll survive.

Sometimes people feel they aren’t worthy of hanging out so they won’t ask you to hang out because they think you don’t want to. But they do

As much as that sucks, at least he acknowledged his absence and gave an explanation for it even if it sounded half assed. Many people in a similar situation simply never hear from the person again.

This makes me want to call my BF I have not talked to in about 6 months, We used to be inseparable from like 15-18 until he than went into the Military so we lost some time when he was in basic training but we still wrote each other while he was there & even got to see him graduate Basic at Fort Seal in OK.. He was stationed in Germany but before he left got Married to his GF we went to HS with, Always been the greatest person/friend I know or have & we are still close even sometime now he is in places he can’t tell me but he still will always pick up when I call him & I also do the same, I also got to go stay 2 weeks in Germany with him since he had a place off base to visit & we had a great time but it was back in like 2006, We are now older now I am 43 & he his 42 but we always have that relationship like brothers & know he will be there no matter what just like I would, I miss him & when I last talk to he is on his last 4 year enlistment which ends in September of this year 2026 & told me they were trying to find a place here in Alabama about 8 miles away to be back close to his wife’s family & wants his now 4 kids to be here, Which I am excited & hope to have our close friendship back even though I feel it’s never changed but it will be nice to hang out & talk face to face like we used to… Thanks @sam_thraxx for your post..

It’s a terrible feeling when you’re the friend who always texts first, and then one day you decide to see what will happen if you don’t text them and then suddenly you don’t talk for years. I still miss my best friend but clearly he doesnt fw me anymore so I’ll stay in my lane ig

The way I’d text your fine ass every hour, on the hour. 🥵

i’m pretty sure you pissed off your friend sometime in the past

These stories of real male friendships are priceless. I still have a friend I never call.

Why the fuck did you post this, what a waste of time geez no wonder your a single loser. *Donald trump voice* What a big fat loser, some say the biggest & fattest loser!

It sounds like your friend is severely adhd and without you talking to him, he forgot to reach out. Once he thought about you again, he text bombed you because he realized he fucked up.

I used to be the one who would ALWAYS initiate conversations or plans. Eventually I stoped. After a bit some of my friends started initiating on their own. Those are the ones I spent time on. I didn’t burn the bridge with the others, but I didn’t initiate with them anymore.

That man sounds like he’s crying out for help. You should probably call him and pull up to his house.