One would expect this to be common knowledge and common sense but yeah🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️

Men collectively have been saying this for 30+ years, and it took her 10 years to figure it out. lol.

I don’t know why they are actin like this is rocket science.

The thrill is in the chase but I need to know that you eventually want me to catch you and not running for your life.🤣

She's got one thing wrong. Women should not "signal" that they are interested. Most women do not know what signaling is. They need to come right out and use words and say out loud to the man, "I'm interested." That's how you signal.

Everything she said is gospel but this shouldn't be rocket science. As a man if I show you interest and you are interested just let me know. If you don't show me that you are interested I'm moving on to someone else. It ain't hard to tell. 🤔

Every man who is not consistent is a man who was consistent to a girl in the past and it blew up in his face.

Yeah, that reciprocity shit is timeless. But today the risks—creep label, viral on TikTok, legal bullshit—are dead real. Most men aren’t copping out, we’re protecting ourselves from the environment women refuse to take responsibility for. Culture needs to kill the myth that men are helpless without women. I’m one of the rare bold, super horny guys who still approaches anyway, but I get why others say “fuck this."

Men want to pursue reciprocal energy. If she doesn't want to meet his efforts halfway, she is just looking to have her ego stroked.

She’s on point 👌🏾 Y’all gotta stop posting people’s content without crediting them tho. At least download their TikToks thru TikTok so that her name is added to the video. I’m trying to go to her page & see what the comments are saying, but I have no idea who she is

No Mam....can someone tag her to my response please because.....she doesn't understand how this works... Yes lady! You are correct.....but THAT DOES NOT MATTER! The women ARE NOT going to adhere to your suggestion because we have been saying this for over a decade. Mam....YOU are barking up the wrong tree. If you think that these women will "retreat" from their ego stance where they feel powerful....then you have lost your fucking mind. And it's unfortunate because we 100% agree to the assessment....but the problem has not been address. You think it's ONLY because we are not getting choosing signals? lol No no no no....no....no mam. It is literally dangerous for a Man to even say hello to a woman. And even if the hello is accepted the woman has every right to react however she wants with no consequence. Yes, I did say "right". You think she will receive consequence, but she wont. Why? Because most women are cowards at calling out other women. They prefer to align with them. Men have been calling women out...and during the entire time Men have been called sensitive, beta, incel, aggressive, hurt, broke, pussy, misogynistic, narcissistic, and the best of them all...."weak". So what I'm saying is that the core issue with us approaching women is actually deeper than this surface issue.

They play these games cause they're not really attracted to you so they are hoping you "stimulate" them into liking you. If they really want you they will make it easy and will be direct cause of fear of losing you.

We are adults. why do women have to play games or create hurdles in the first place? it ain’t middle school. I’m looking for a wife, not a girl who don’t know what she want. nobody got time for that. Go play with your kitty don’t play with me. Grow up, some y’all play too much.

10+ years bro. 10+ years of STUDYING psychology of men & she's just now figuring out something that is quite literally just having manners & is normal social behavior like she cracked some ancient code or something These women are BEYOND cooked 😑

When a woman show interest and I mean real interest, a man will definitely pursue 100% but interest has to be consistently in order for the man to take a woman very seriously do not pursue a woman if they can’t do that basic thing

We will pour ourselves into effort into a cup that will hold the water..

This is absolutely true. The only difference is some men will fake it for sex. You can’t forget that sex for a lot of people is a big deal even if it’s not for relationship, but men will pretend like they want a relationship just to get sex.

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10+ years of trying to understand men and she is still working lol She should probably stop and come to a conclusion. I’ve meet an auto tech like her and kept saying give me a chance, I can put in engine in the car. Two weeks later he was promoted to customer

Common sense these days are not common.

Why is all this shit necessary? That’s going on in the world and this is always the fucking topic. Fuck man and woman. Respect yourself in love. Who love you be happy being a fucking alone. I’m so sick of this men think women think shit everybody ain’t shit.

Most women don’t think off common sense most of them feel like the man supposed to do everything, when in reality men love it when a women is excited to go to a place with them “hey baby can we go here I think it’ll be fun “ then the man plan the time and day and pay so simple

It doesn’t take long to figure out men. I got a lot of homegirls and they give you insight. Most women just don’t give af about men’s feelings, what they go thru or just flat out who they are. They put up a front in public and online to not seem like they are who they really are

Men and women in real life know this. Please get off this app, it’s toxic and fake. Women date short dudes, they go 50/50, men wash dishes, men pursue, some women cheat, some men don’t… none of us are any more special than the next person but we all special in our own way. Bless

A lot of women are having issues getting in touch of their feminine power because they utilize their masculine for protection. Protection from strangers, family members, teachers, classmates, work place, supervisors etc etc. They can’t even tell you what being feminine looks like and it’s far from looking cutesy, makeup, hair done. It’s more so doing your inner shadow work of all emotions. Happiness has a shadow side fyi. Once a women has gone through this healing process of letting her guard down and allowing her inner masculine to , not step aside because he has to lead (that’s her protector) she has to allow her feminine side to lead to. I’m sure a lot of you have met a woman who’s has a healthy balance of the two. You’d know quickly she’s on her spiritual journey and actively doing her inner work. Letting men know they need to do their inner work to if they haven’t. Also, a good book to read is Men are from Mars, women are from Venus by Dr. John Gray. Mars is god warrior Ares and Venus is goddess Aphrodite. In gist, this book explains the difference between men and women. How women are more in touch with their feminity so we talk about lot more. We feel a lot more while the warrior god Ares is of few words but how he expresses himself is all there in how he gives to you on a physical level far beyond sexual. You want to come into a relationship with a man or woman as two different people who’s on their own journey and you want to share it together. If you come in another way is if you’re each other’s mother and father, the relationship is doomed.

Usually you are right. But I had a Girl from Madrid who I stayed in touch with for two years. She rarely gave me any feedback. I considered it a challenge. She distrusted all men. After two years and a bad breakup with a violent jealous lier she finally reached out to me. We communicate often now and have become good friends. Have known her almost 4 years now. She tried to get a visa to visit here but trumps sick immigration policies are refusing her any kind of visa. Whatever happens we will be friends for life... I write good poetry and did send her some. Translated into Spanish of course.

lol most women know this shit but they dont give AF. They hear it and see it from men and some womens experiences thats obvious but they dont care. Most women the younger they are like to play games.

It took 10+ years to figure this tf out? I thought she was about to say sum groundbreaking shit like she done cracd the code😂

Women naturally do this for the men they like anyway.

Naturally fr they just don’t like you if they ain’t doing it

Real men not chasing/pursuing a bad investment. Most of these women have nothing to offer but sex and bad attitudes. Only lames are gonna go for that

It doesn't take 10 years of interviewing men to understand "their psychology" Only a woman that doesn't listen would think that.

Valid points made 💯

this girl said no man is going to pursue a woman who doesn’t give him signals. That is a lie women get harassed even after saying no so what are we talking about? Watch the goal post move “that’s not what I’m talking about…” i’m so over these discussions