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Ordering McDonald’s with a severe neurological stutter! I’ve had a severe stutter since I was 4 years old, and some days are definitely harder than others. I’ve been getting over a cold recently, which has made my speech significantly worse than usual. You’ll notice I say “um” and “like”...

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Caitlyn Cohen

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#SEONGHWA talked about filming challenges with junior idols because he knows that feeling so well and wants to help them in any way he can 😭 ⭐️: these days things are going so well, so I feel good. A lot of people recognize and congratulate me a lot, and... I feel really thankful. I also, in my own way, try to find what I can do and do it. That’s my mindset. So I wondered what I could do, and I just filmed challenges diligently, contacted people here and there and filmed. Even when I felt tired I wanted to help somehow, so I worked hard (like that), I wonder if it helped? If it did even a little, then that’s enough for me. And now, usually… I also had times like that, when I really wanted to film a challenge with a senior I admired. I would do my hair and makeup on my day off, go to the broadcast station and even bring a gift. That one moment would stay as such a good memory for me, and the senior would say a lot of good things to me that it would become a good connection. I thought, “someday, if I can, I want to do that too.” I don’t know if I can help in a big way yet (with popularity), but if it’s something good for those juniors I’ll do everything I can. I know that feeling so well and it's such a precious one, so how could I refuse that?You just have to do it, ofc. And if I’m can remember it I want to do their challenges too, but I’m really slow at learning choreography, even memorizing our own songs takes me a long time. But still, I want to do it sincerely. If I get the chance, I want to practice more and do better, but after doing so many (challenges) I do hit a bit of a limit. So even when resting, I keep watching videos and trying to film better (challenges). Yes. Seniors and juniors both prepare really well, so how could I do it half‑heartedly? I need to help, even if it's just a little. #성화 #ATEEZ #에이티즈

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21,194 Aufrufe • vor 4 Monaten

Bryce Harper says he stopped caring what people think about him for one simple reason: they’re never going to be at his Thanksgiving dinner “I think I just feel like none of those people that are really saying stuff are ever going to be at my Thanksgiving dinner. I’m never going to invite them through my door. My grandma always used to say, opinions are like, you know, everybody’s got one.” “For me, I find success in what people do say about me. If they do say something bad, I’m like, ‘All right, well, I guess we’ll just turn around and tell them to watch what I do.’ I have so much for myself, what I want to do and how I want to do it, that I don’t have time to really think about what somebody else says.” “People are going to say or do whatever they want. That’s why everybody has platforms now. That’s why everybody has social media, podcasts and interviews. But for me, I just don’t care. I never have.” “I’ve been going through this since I was 10 years old, 11 years old. I got booed for the first time when I was like 13 or 14. It’s just something that I’ve always gone through. I only have a couple more years left of doing what I love, and I don’t need people’s opinions to affect the way I feel.” “People really get stuck in people’s opinions. They get so stuck in what other people are saying or how they’re living their life. We only get one. I don’t want to live my life a certain way for somebody else that has no effect on what I’m going to do on a daily basis.”
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Winning isn’t all that and neither is losing. It’s just something that happens. It’s the outcome. What really matters is the effort you put in and the journey you go through. I would say: Take a break if you’ve been stuck in something for too long. That’s actually why I stepped away for a while. I literally retired, and it was the best thing I could have done for myself. Through that retirement, I realized that I’m a bit of a creative person. I have ideas, my own sense of fashion, and I can be a little stubborn about it. So I came back to share all of my art. I love choreography and moving to music. I love to dance, and I do it on my own terms, no one tells me what to do. Even now, I still take breaks. And I think that’s the best way to do it. — Alysa Liu.
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Sierra

63,426 Aufrufe • vor 8 Monaten

Shelly : My mom was the one who introduced this man into my life. At that time, I didn’t know whether he was really a good person or not. But my mom said he was a good person, so I thought, if Mom said he was good, then he must be okay. He was still in contact with my mom, and I knew about it. He also came around to help take care of her. At the same time, through my work, I started to discover myself and realized how happy I was in my relationship with Pundao. I can’t even put into words how happy I am, or all the things I want to do and all the places I want to go with this person. Because both of these people are people I love very much. Honestly, everyone might think I could have handled this situation better, or solved the problem in a better way. But I chose to do what I wanted to do and chose my own path in life. I told him, “This has to end here,” and that I wanted to choose my own path. But I never actually said, “I want to break up with you.” I thought he understood what I meant, but maybe he didn’t. I can’t speak for him. And I think that’s what makes this so painful, because both of them are people I love very much. I love everyone. P’Pai, Pundao, and everyone who is here listening right now. None of you deserved to go through this either. I want to apologize again for what happened. I’m sorry that I couldn’t keep the promise I made to everyone, that I wouldn’t disappoint you. I’m sorry for hurting everyone, and especially for hurting Pundao, who everyone loves. I see all the support and encouragement you’ve been sending me, and I still read some of it. Thank you to everyone who is still here and willing to listen. I’m not asking everyone to understand me. And even if you do understand, you don’t have to understand everything. Thank you, truly. 🤍 #shellybenda * Since she was quite emotional and her words were not always in chronological order as she was crying, I put everything together based on what she said throughout the live. This is my attempt to arrange her words into a clearer timeline while keeping the meaning of what she said.
9:40

Shelly : My mom was the one who introduced this man into my life. At that time, I didn’t know whether he was really a good person or not. But my mom said he was a good person, so I thought, if Mom said he was good, then he must be okay. He was still in contact with my mom, and I knew about it. He also came around to help take care of her. At the same time, through my work, I started to discover myself and realized how happy I was in my relationship with Pundao. I can’t even put into words how happy I am, or all the things I want to do and all the places I want to go with this person. Because both of these people are people I love very much. Honestly, everyone might think I could have handled this situation better, or solved the problem in a better way. But I chose to do what I wanted to do and chose my own path in life. I told him, “This has to end here,” and that I wanted to choose my own path. But I never actually said, “I want to break up with you.” I thought he understood what I meant, but maybe he didn’t. I can’t speak for him. And I think that’s what makes this so painful, because both of them are people I love very much. I love everyone. P’Pai, Pundao, and everyone who is here listening right now. None of you deserved to go through this either. I want to apologize again for what happened. I’m sorry that I couldn’t keep the promise I made to everyone, that I wouldn’t disappoint you. I’m sorry for hurting everyone, and especially for hurting Pundao, who everyone loves. I see all the support and encouragement you’ve been sending me, and I still read some of it. Thank you to everyone who is still here and willing to listen. I’m not asking everyone to understand me. And even if you do understand, you don’t have to understand everything. Thank you, truly. 🤍 #shellybenda * Since she was quite emotional and her words were not always in chronological order as she was crying, I put everything together based on what she said throughout the live. This is my attempt to arrange her words into a clearer timeline while keeping the meaning of what she said.

𝓕𝓸𝓷☂︎₉₁₆

111,884 Aufrufe • vor 1 Monat

Grayson Murray was just 30 years old. He is no longer with us because of mental illness. First let me say that I’m torn up for his friends and family. I’ve been through it more times than I can count, but I’ve also very nearly put my friends and family in the same situation Y’all I’m begging you to get help if you need it. Of course that is, if you can afford it… which is so sad. I do not want to make this political, but I firmly believe that if mental health help was made available for free, it would be a net positive for this country. I truly believe we’d still have some of our friends The cost, however, has nothing to do really with one of the biggest problems surrounding mental health: the stigma Don’t get me wrong… it is better than it used to be. But it is still not where it NEEDS to be, which is completely gone Getting help does not make you weak. As a matter of fact I’d say the opposite is true. I’m stronger today than I’ve ever been, even though I sure have my moments. Those moments are fewer and far between now though, because I finally admitted that I couldn’t do it on my own, and if I was gonna bring a child into this world, I was gonna be the best version of myself I could be. I’m still here in SPITE of the stigma. All the people who say “suck it up, buttercup!” “Be a man!” “Get over it!!” Ironically now that I’ve been to counseling and can more acutely notice the signs, those very same people are the ones who could benefit from therapy the most. That’s not a dig. I hurt for them. Matter of fact a big part of my “journey” (I hate when people use that but look at me go lol) has been trying my best to forgive people who lash out at me. Because more often than not, it’s not me they hate… it’s themselves. How would I know that? Well… I used to be that guy RIP Grayson Murray
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Grayson Murray was just 30 years old. He is no longer with us because of mental illness. First let me say that I’m torn up for his friends and family. I’ve been through it more times than I can count, but I’ve also very nearly put my friends and family in the same situation Y’all I’m begging you to get help if you need it. Of course that is, if you can afford it… which is so sad. I do not want to make this political, but I firmly believe that if mental health help was made available for free, it would be a net positive for this country. I truly believe we’d still have some of our friends The cost, however, has nothing to do really with one of the biggest problems surrounding mental health: the stigma Don’t get me wrong… it is better than it used to be. But it is still not where it NEEDS to be, which is completely gone Getting help does not make you weak. As a matter of fact I’d say the opposite is true. I’m stronger today than I’ve ever been, even though I sure have my moments. Those moments are fewer and far between now though, because I finally admitted that I couldn’t do it on my own, and if I was gonna bring a child into this world, I was gonna be the best version of myself I could be. I’m still here in SPITE of the stigma. All the people who say “suck it up, buttercup!” “Be a man!” “Get over it!!” Ironically now that I’ve been to counseling and can more acutely notice the signs, those very same people are the ones who could benefit from therapy the most. That’s not a dig. I hurt for them. Matter of fact a big part of my “journey” (I hate when people use that but look at me go lol) has been trying my best to forgive people who lash out at me. Because more often than not, it’s not me they hate… it’s themselves. How would I know that? Well… I used to be that guy RIP Grayson Murray

Corey Ryan Forrester - CoreyWritesForYou.com

230,359 Aufrufe • vor 2 Jahren

🦊 i finished wrapping up first my solo recently and as words from people around me started influencing me, it really stressed me out and it really started swaying my identity as a person…i was really burnt out for 3 months 🦊 i used to be someone that told people everything when i was going through a hard time like “i’m going through a tough time right now” but i don’t know when it started, but i couldn’t get myself to tell people around me anymore 👤 i wonder why? was it out of consideration for them? 🦊 that could be why…and i also felt like i needed to learn how to overcome things myself 🦊 i didn’t say anything to anyone and was going through it myself…then i thought about namjoon hyung so i went to him and asked him a lot of questions and one of the things he said to me was that he hopes i face the things that make me uncomfortable 🦊 i had conflicts with soobin and we had awkward phases but i wanted to erase all of these things one by one and i feel like there were also a lot of things that i had been misunderstanding, coming to think of it now…so i went up to soobin first and said “hey, let’s go get a drink”
1:18

🦊 i finished wrapping up first my solo recently and as words from people around me started influencing me, it really stressed me out and it really started swaying my identity as a person…i was really burnt out for 3 months 🦊 i used to be someone that told people everything when i was going through a hard time like “i’m going through a tough time right now” but i don’t know when it started, but i couldn’t get myself to tell people around me anymore 👤 i wonder why? was it out of consideration for them? 🦊 that could be why…and i also felt like i needed to learn how to overcome things myself 🦊 i didn’t say anything to anyone and was going through it myself…then i thought about namjoon hyung so i went to him and asked him a lot of questions and one of the things he said to me was that he hopes i face the things that make me uncomfortable 🦊 i had conflicts with soobin and we had awkward phases but i wanted to erase all of these things one by one and i feel like there were also a lot of things that i had been misunderstanding, coming to think of it now…so i went up to soobin first and said “hey, let’s go get a drink”

💬

1,065,439 Aufrufe • vor 7 Monaten

⭐️: What am I into these days? These days? These days, I kind of just… I think I’m living in a sort of "no‑thoughts" state. I don’t really have emotional ups and downs, just… I'm calm. I kind of, I don’t really know my feelings these days. It’s not like my emotions are going up and down a lot or anything, but then, when I met a friend of mine and we talked I realized I actually have more worries than I thought. But I also wonder if I just didn’t have the space to talk about them. So, on one hand... I don’t know if I have a lot of worries or if I just don’t have thoughts. With work, work is busy too but sometimes I even wonder if I’m actually busy. Because when you do so many schedules… you don’t really feel it. Like, maybe I am really busy but I just can’t feel it. No, It’s not a slump. It’s pretty far from a slump. A slump is when work doesn’t go well and doing things feels hard, but I’m not like that. When I work, it’s fun and exciting, I just don’t really have emotional highs and lows. So I wonder if maybe this is actually a good thing?That’s how it is. I don’t think you need to worry about this, but actually, I did have a lot of worries and concerns… I just didn’t realize I was worrying about them? Yeah. "Maybe it’s because you haven’t had much time to take care of yourself?" No, but I think I’m actually the type who takes care of myself pretty well. Ah, recently I’ve been going to the sauna alone pretty often and I’ve had some time to think while doing that. No, wait thinking about it, even when I go to the sauna I just sit there without thinking. I think I just space out. I wonder if it’s because I’ve gotten used to this work now. "Maybe your brain just wants to rest." That also feels right. No but, compared to before being thoughtless/empty-minded actually seems better, compared to when I had so many thoughts I couldn’t sleep. Now I sleep with my legs stretched out (idiom, it means to sleep comfortably), yes. Maybe it’s because things feel stable, yes. My relationship with the members is really good and I feel a lot of satisfaction with the work I do, and since ATINY always show me support so strongly by my side, somehow I wonder if that’s why I don’t have emotional highs and lows. #SEONGHWA #성화
5:05

⭐️: What am I into these days? These days? These days, I kind of just… I think I’m living in a sort of "no‑thoughts" state. I don’t really have emotional ups and downs, just… I'm calm. I kind of, I don’t really know my feelings these days. It’s not like my emotions are going up and down a lot or anything, but then, when I met a friend of mine and we talked I realized I actually have more worries than I thought. But I also wonder if I just didn’t have the space to talk about them. So, on one hand... I don’t know if I have a lot of worries or if I just don’t have thoughts. With work, work is busy too but sometimes I even wonder if I’m actually busy. Because when you do so many schedules… you don’t really feel it. Like, maybe I am really busy but I just can’t feel it. No, It’s not a slump. It’s pretty far from a slump. A slump is when work doesn’t go well and doing things feels hard, but I’m not like that. When I work, it’s fun and exciting, I just don’t really have emotional highs and lows. So I wonder if maybe this is actually a good thing?That’s how it is. I don’t think you need to worry about this, but actually, I did have a lot of worries and concerns… I just didn’t realize I was worrying about them? Yeah. "Maybe it’s because you haven’t had much time to take care of yourself?" No, but I think I’m actually the type who takes care of myself pretty well. Ah, recently I’ve been going to the sauna alone pretty often and I’ve had some time to think while doing that. No, wait thinking about it, even when I go to the sauna I just sit there without thinking. I think I just space out. I wonder if it’s because I’ve gotten used to this work now. "Maybe your brain just wants to rest." That also feels right. No but, compared to before being thoughtless/empty-minded actually seems better, compared to when I had so many thoughts I couldn’t sleep. Now I sleep with my legs stretched out (idiom, it means to sleep comfortably), yes. Maybe it’s because things feel stable, yes. My relationship with the members is really good and I feel a lot of satisfaction with the work I do, and since ATINY always show me support so strongly by my side, somehow I wonder if that’s why I don’t have emotional highs and lows. #SEONGHWA #성화

Everything Seonghwa

91,617 Aufrufe • vor 7 Monaten

🐱I just want to thank everyone. I want to thank GMMTV, and I especially want to thank p’tha. I don’t really get many opportunities to talk to p’tha, we don’t get to talk that often, but he’s someone who gave me the opportunity to really go for the things I imagined for myself. He gave me the chance to actually bring the things in my imagination to life. Thank you p’tha for being kind to me. Even though I don’t get many chances to talk to you, I want you to know that I respect you very and I love you very much too 🐱and I want to thank everyone at GMMTV who has always taken care of the two of us and supported us, both bts and out front. Thank you p’som, to the stylist team, to everyone who always wants the two of us to come out looking and doing our absolute best. Thank you for everything, really. I don’t know how many times in my life I’ll ever get an opportunity to do sth like this. How many times will I ever have the opportunity to see so many people come together like this or have this many people running around working on something like this. Everyone backstage, there are so many people. Something like this requires so much teamwork. And now that I’ve seen every part of the process, it makes me respect them so much. I really admire how everyone wanted to put this fancon together for the two of us so that we could come out here and perform for everyone. So I want everyone to make some noise for all the executives and all the staff too👏👏👏 🐱I also want to thank our fans. Thank you so much, everyone, whether you’re the rectangular screen team watching us through a screen or you’re here with us in person. I say this all the time, if it weren’t for all of you, I wouldn’t have been able to take all these steps and make it here. Thank you for understanding me for who I am. Thank you for accepting nani for being nani. Thank you for always being a place where I can feel at ease. Thank you for allowing me to truly be myself, thank you for always trying to understand me. I really want to tell you that I love all of you so much. I really do. And if, along the way, I’ve ever done anything wrong or made any mistakes, then I want to apologize to everyone. I want you to know that every one of you means so much to me. You’re such an important driving force for me. You’re the reason I want to create performances, think up new shows and make things like this for all of you to see. That’s really it. If it weren’t for all of you, I probably wouldn’t be standing here😭 🐱and one more thing: thank you so much, Sky. Thank you for everything throughout this entire journey. Even though it feels like everything happened so quickly, 1-2years, it might sound like such a short period of time. But for me, I see sky almost every day. We’ve learned about life together. We’ve learned so many things about each other. We’ve grown together. And I just want to tell Sky that if sometimes nani- *nani cries*😭😭😭 🐶you’ve already done so well, really. You’re really good. Is nani good, everyone😭😭😭 🐱and if I’ve ever done anything that makes you uncomfortable or upset, tell me, okay? I’m sorry😭 🐶no no no nothing like that. You’ve done so well. I mean, I’ve seen you. Maybe I haven’t known you since the day you were born, but even if I’ve only known you for about 2 years, I’ve watched you grow in every aspect. You’re someone who is always trying to learn. Whether it’s work or just how to live life. And I know it isn’t easy. You were living somewhere else, and then you had to come and build a life here in Bangkok. There are so many things you have to adjust to. I went through something similar too. Maybe I came to Bangkok earlier than you did, and maybe I entered the entertainment industry earlier than you did, but that doesn’t mean I’m any better than you. We’re all just learning as we go. And in the end, when we work together as partners, we have to keep learning tgt (1/2)
6:35

🐱I just want to thank everyone. I want to thank GMMTV, and I especially want to thank p’tha. I don’t really get many opportunities to talk to p’tha, we don’t get to talk that often, but he’s someone who gave me the opportunity to really go for the things I imagined for myself. He gave me the chance to actually bring the things in my imagination to life. Thank you p’tha for being kind to me. Even though I don’t get many chances to talk to you, I want you to know that I respect you very and I love you very much too 🐱and I want to thank everyone at GMMTV who has always taken care of the two of us and supported us, both bts and out front. Thank you p’som, to the stylist team, to everyone who always wants the two of us to come out looking and doing our absolute best. Thank you for everything, really. I don’t know how many times in my life I’ll ever get an opportunity to do sth like this. How many times will I ever have the opportunity to see so many people come together like this or have this many people running around working on something like this. Everyone backstage, there are so many people. Something like this requires so much teamwork. And now that I’ve seen every part of the process, it makes me respect them so much. I really admire how everyone wanted to put this fancon together for the two of us so that we could come out here and perform for everyone. So I want everyone to make some noise for all the executives and all the staff too👏👏👏 🐱I also want to thank our fans. Thank you so much, everyone, whether you’re the rectangular screen team watching us through a screen or you’re here with us in person. I say this all the time, if it weren’t for all of you, I wouldn’t have been able to take all these steps and make it here. Thank you for understanding me for who I am. Thank you for accepting nani for being nani. Thank you for always being a place where I can feel at ease. Thank you for allowing me to truly be myself, thank you for always trying to understand me. I really want to tell you that I love all of you so much. I really do. And if, along the way, I’ve ever done anything wrong or made any mistakes, then I want to apologize to everyone. I want you to know that every one of you means so much to me. You’re such an important driving force for me. You’re the reason I want to create performances, think up new shows and make things like this for all of you to see. That’s really it. If it weren’t for all of you, I probably wouldn’t be standing here😭 🐱and one more thing: thank you so much, Sky. Thank you for everything throughout this entire journey. Even though it feels like everything happened so quickly, 1-2years, it might sound like such a short period of time. But for me, I see sky almost every day. We’ve learned about life together. We’ve learned so many things about each other. We’ve grown together. And I just want to tell Sky that if sometimes nani- *nani cries*😭😭😭 🐶you’ve already done so well, really. You’re really good. Is nani good, everyone😭😭😭 🐱and if I’ve ever done anything that makes you uncomfortable or upset, tell me, okay? I’m sorry😭 🐶no no no nothing like that. You’ve done so well. I mean, I’ve seen you. Maybe I haven’t known you since the day you were born, but even if I’ve only known you for about 2 years, I’ve watched you grow in every aspect. You’re someone who is always trying to learn. Whether it’s work or just how to live life. And I know it isn’t easy. You were living somewhere else, and then you had to come and build a life here in Bangkok. There are so many things you have to adjust to. I went through something similar too. Maybe I came to Bangkok earlier than you did, and maybe I entered the entertainment industry earlier than you did, but that doesn’t mean I’m any better than you. We’re all just learning as we go. And in the end, when we work together as partners, we have to keep learning tgt (1/2)

Mikey😢😉🥑 #WUisREAL

45,229 Aufrufe • vor 1 Monat

Madison Keys with some heartbreaking quotes after losing to Qinwen Zheng from 5-0 match point up in the 3rd set at U.S. Open “I feel like I got off to a really good lead and then I just got really scared. I felt like I couldn’t swing. Tennis just feels really hard right now. I feel like that kind of took over.” 💔 “I think my level dropped & she started to play better.” “I just feel like I’ve kind of been struggling for a while now & I feel like I was able to play through it for a bit. I’m sure everyone could kind of see that I was struggling a bit. Inside it’s felt probably even bigger than that. Some weeks are easier than others. This week is obviously one of the harder ones just because you care so much. I’m gonna have to make some sort of changes.” “I think it’s been something that’s been building for a while. I just kind of keep pushing it off and pushing it off because that’s how the tennis world works. It’s just to the point where I actually need to do something about it.”
2:31

Madison Keys with some heartbreaking quotes after losing to Qinwen Zheng from 5-0 match point up in the 3rd set at U.S. Open “I feel like I got off to a really good lead and then I just got really scared. I felt like I couldn’t swing. Tennis just feels really hard right now. I feel like that kind of took over.” 💔 “I think my level dropped & she started to play better.” “I just feel like I’ve kind of been struggling for a while now & I feel like I was able to play through it for a bit. I’m sure everyone could kind of see that I was struggling a bit. Inside it’s felt probably even bigger than that. Some weeks are easier than others. This week is obviously one of the harder ones just because you care so much. I’m gonna have to make some sort of changes.” “I think it’s been something that’s been building for a while. I just kind of keep pushing it off and pushing it off because that’s how the tennis world works. It’s just to the point where I actually need to do something about it.”

The Tennis Letter

500,245 Aufrufe • vor 2 Monaten

This is actually what I wanted to share: I lived in this pit for years, YEARS I tried to clean/keep up with what I could, but anybody who's in a similar situation will understand how impossible it is to clean/counter roommates who actively work against you. If they want to be dirty... it's near impossible to counter it. Living in this environment, especially so long, was incredibly embarrassing and horrific for my mental health. The minute I moved to my new home and finally had a clean place to live in, I instantly felt my self esteem rise inherently. I never even realized how much living in shit made me feel like *I* was shit. I wanted to show and share this experience for those who are in a similar situation. This was a horrible, long term torturous experience for me. Yall have no idea the things I've seen and went through just being in this house. I feel so angry for the years that I had to go through this (because I have nowhere else to go) and how sad it makes me that my own family is living in this way and doesn't want to get better about it. I really tried to help them get better about it but it was clear there was no interest. I will still get sad and depressed about myself... in fact I already have been even in my new beautiful home. A shiny room can't make my internal depression magically go away but... NOT living THERE sure helps. If you have and especially are going through something similar, just know you are not alone in that experience. :(
2:59

This is actually what I wanted to share: I lived in this pit for years, YEARS I tried to clean/keep up with what I could, but anybody who's in a similar situation will understand how impossible it is to clean/counter roommates who actively work against you. If they want to be dirty... it's near impossible to counter it. Living in this environment, especially so long, was incredibly embarrassing and horrific for my mental health. The minute I moved to my new home and finally had a clean place to live in, I instantly felt my self esteem rise inherently. I never even realized how much living in shit made me feel like *I* was shit. I wanted to show and share this experience for those who are in a similar situation. This was a horrible, long term torturous experience for me. Yall have no idea the things I've seen and went through just being in this house. I feel so angry for the years that I had to go through this (because I have nowhere else to go) and how sad it makes me that my own family is living in this way and doesn't want to get better about it. I really tried to help them get better about it but it was clear there was no interest. I will still get sad and depressed about myself... in fact I already have been even in my new beautiful home. A shiny room can't make my internal depression magically go away but... NOT living THERE sure helps. If you have and especially are going through something similar, just know you are not alone in that experience. :(

Cake Chan 🍰💗

138,041 Aufrufe • vor 1 Jahr

I read… A LOT 🙃 I treat books as my little escape, I don’t watch TV, so whenever I get a quiet moment, you’ll usually find me with a book in hand. A little reading rule I swear by! If a book hasn’t hooked you by chapter four, ditch it. Life’s too short and there are too many amazing books out there. You definitely don’t need to be a big reader to enjoy these!! Some are quick, some are cosy, some you’ll think about for weeks. I’ve just whizzed through them because I’m a fast and slightly obsessive… (borderline unwell) reader. I asked @ChatGPTapp to work out how many words I’ve read this month, and I nearly fell off my chair. Maybe I need to get out more 🤣. I’d love to know, have you read any of these? Or is there a book you swear I need to add to my list?
1:59

I read… A LOT 🙃 I treat books as my little escape, I don’t watch TV, so whenever I get a quiet moment, you’ll usually find me with a book in hand. A little reading rule I swear by! If a book hasn’t hooked you by chapter four, ditch it. Life’s too short and there are too many amazing books out there. You definitely don’t need to be a big reader to enjoy these!! Some are quick, some are cosy, some you’ll think about for weeks. I’ve just whizzed through them because I’m a fast and slightly obsessive… (borderline unwell) reader. I asked @ChatGPTapp to work out how many words I’ve read this month, and I nearly fell off my chair. Maybe I need to get out more 🤣. I’d love to know, have you read any of these? Or is there a book you swear I need to add to my list?

Georgia Toffolo

28,883 Aufrufe • vor 9 Monaten

Been a few days since Elon Musk retweeted me and Zack shouted me out on his Twitch stream. Over 35 million people saw it, 100k plus watched live—it helped expose what these kids went through. It’s been a lot to take in. I had a slate to clean. Joined the police to help kids who’d been abused like I was as a kid. Fourteen years until I was medically retired, and it wrecked me seeing and realising the job had turned a blind eye. That’s why I’m still fighting this. That one post did more good than my entire 14 years in the police. I stand by my pinned post. No fame, no ambition—just happy I can sleep a little easier. I’ve cleaned the slate. I know Zack won’t see this and that’s ok, but thank you pal.
2:04

Been a few days since Elon Musk retweeted me and Zack shouted me out on his Twitch stream. Over 35 million people saw it, 100k plus watched live—it helped expose what these kids went through. It’s been a lot to take in. I had a slate to clean. Joined the police to help kids who’d been abused like I was as a kid. Fourteen years until I was medically retired, and it wrecked me seeing and realising the job had turned a blind eye. That’s why I’m still fighting this. That one post did more good than my entire 14 years in the police. I stand by my pinned post. No fame, no ambition—just happy I can sleep a little easier. I’ve cleaned the slate. I know Zack won’t see this and that’s ok, but thank you pal.

WasAcop

31,002 Aufrufe • vor 4 Monaten

I would only blame myself if someone kept taking food off of my plate and eating it. It’s because I didn’t set clear boundaries at all. To be honest I couldn’t even be mad about this because it would be my fault this even happened. But you know very well I’m going to learn my lesson. She obviously is very comfortable doing this, he doesn’t seem to be firm about not letting her do it, the only one he can be mad at is himself. I think he will think twice about continuing to let her get away with it. Years ago, my brother used to do this to me and when I confronted him he laughed but he never stopped doing it, it got old really quick, I was annoyed because it felt like a bullying tactic. It got to the point one day that i had had enough, I made my plate and I dumped a bunch of salt into it knowing he was going to try to eat my food. After one bite he spit it out and he learned his lesson. He never did it again. But he still got mad I did it. Personally I think he was more mad he got caught if anything. I think a simple solution is to double order, that way if someone eats all my food I still have a back up, that could work right? But a part of me feels like that shouldn’t even be necessary. What would you do if someone kept eating off your plate? Would you put your foot down or just stay silent in hopes they don’t do it again. I think I am going to start just smoking more meat on the grill and keeping that up. I always make so much and if people wanna have some I still have plenty.
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I would only blame myself if someone kept taking food off of my plate and eating it. It’s because I didn’t set clear boundaries at all. To be honest I couldn’t even be mad about this because it would be my fault this even happened. But you know very well I’m going to learn my lesson. She obviously is very comfortable doing this, he doesn’t seem to be firm about not letting her do it, the only one he can be mad at is himself. I think he will think twice about continuing to let her get away with it. Years ago, my brother used to do this to me and when I confronted him he laughed but he never stopped doing it, it got old really quick, I was annoyed because it felt like a bullying tactic. It got to the point one day that i had had enough, I made my plate and I dumped a bunch of salt into it knowing he was going to try to eat my food. After one bite he spit it out and he learned his lesson. He never did it again. But he still got mad I did it. Personally I think he was more mad he got caught if anything. I think a simple solution is to double order, that way if someone eats all my food I still have a back up, that could work right? But a part of me feels like that shouldn’t even be necessary. What would you do if someone kept eating off your plate? Would you put your foot down or just stay silent in hopes they don’t do it again. I think I am going to start just smoking more meat on the grill and keeping that up. I always make so much and if people wanna have some I still have plenty.

SonnyBoy🇺🇸

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