Perspectives…

Means her man provides, supports, and protects her. Problem is when BW hear provide, they start thinking chanel bags and wigs…all materialistic shit

That part… people who think provide is only money then they ask if it’s not money what else are you providing

Right

She’s right…all we need is the man who loves us!!

i wish alot more people can understand this. Where genuine love lives, people thrive because everyone will do what they can/have to make sure it works. A system that really works

The key is nobody wants to put in the hard work it takes to achieve in this life. My parents both had nothing. But they banked one check and lived off the other. Now they have houses and cars I don’t even know about. Different bank accounts in different countries.

We want old school love but don’t want to put the effort that is required to make it work

Exactly!! Unfortunately many didn’t grow up seeing how parents worked together to make it.

Preach to these panhandling strays

Somehow someway she has triggered some people and they will find a way to label her with 'internalized misygony' and 'self hate'. She will be bashed for speaking the truth if it hasn't happened already. Just wait and see

whatever makes anyone sleep at night. Let life's experience teach us what we choose not to learn from observation

I like that. 'Let life's experience teach us what we choose not to learn from observation'.

I think she was just lucky.

the choice and decision of marriage is never luck... NEVER!!!

She from that generation were women chose men based on their character… money didnt matter because everyone was poor

Companionship

this just shows that people want different things out of relationships and marriages but they are not willing to admit it so they pretend

Exactly

@better_men He gave her something most men don’t give to women who love them. Loyalty. So he was blessed for choosing different than the average man.

@better_men Fact

Ma’am unfortunately the type of woman you are is rare to extinct

The difference between her and an average woman is she already came from money so her husband‘s life could not drag her down. She pulled her husband up off the back of HER father. Another man. So either way you wanna cut it a high value man pulled them both up.

Wisdom from a woman who lived. Loved every word she said

Social media makes things seem different than what’s happening in real life. I know a lot of women who are with men who make less than they do & come with kids etc. Not all men are good men like Judge Lynn Toler’s husband was. You can’t be a shitty person AND be a financial burden.

Let’s be honest….every race of woman is like this just black women get the most flak because they’re supposed to “take what they can get”. Anytime any race of woman introduces they have someone the first question is “what do they do for a living”

these women are out there yall just don’t want them lol

This woman the prototype

Lying on Kevin’s name like that smh

Enough said. 🎤 #RealTalk

Even in his death, they hated him so bad because he helped exposes their delusions. Even in the great beyond, you still live on - @kevinsamuel aka godfather.

Modern black women are not like this anymore, and it's a tragedy.

She’s the needle in the haystack… the vast majority of women do not think like her.

Same story here when I met my wife I had 2 children a low paying job and no path ! My wife made more$ than me on paper but she saw something in me that I didn’t see in myself & the love she gave me awoke a Hustling Lion that was inside of me and we have been together 15yrs !

She sounds like a doctor!

We need our elders to teach us

"They seek value and wanted companionship." That's a bar.

First of all K. Samuels the goat. Other than that she spittin ✊

“we are aggregating everybody’s angst” very real statement that must be addressed. not only for black folks but for everybody on the internet….

“When you live by someone else’s standards, you’re failing by your own.” -A Real Smart MFER

No disrespect to judge Toler but no thanks

She’s from the generation that thought a piece of man was better than no man, respectfully

Pushing BW to continue accept less & less from BM while other races of men teach their daughters the opposite will ensure our place as a race of ppl at the bottom. BM will 4ever be behind other men since BW don't outearn men, but will demand equal treatment 2 other races of men.

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