Please listen. For those who do not understand Yoruba, anyone can help me translate for them. I'm busy in my DMs. Thanks 🙏.

House chores are not your duty as a husband, just as financial obligations are not your wife's. It’s not your role in the house, but you can assist. Modern counselors tell you to join your wife in house chores, and it’s destroying your homes. 1/3

For those that don't understand yoruba! She said the message is for younger men that believe in doing house chores for their wives on a daily basis. She said you can only assist her when necessary but let it be known to her that it's not your responsibility to do that so as not

Young guys should know that house chores like cooking, cleaning, Washing and bathing children is not the duty of a husband as paying bills for the home such as provisions,school fees, all fees in general is not the duty of a wife but both can “assist” with each other duties

This is not a universal teaching.This is only peculiar to black Africa. Survival skills and culinary skills are basic life skills not gender roles. Shared responsibilities is the heart of any LT Successfully relationships. Responsibilities are not 50-50,70-30 or,80-20,it varies

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I am talking to you as a guy who doesn't know House core isn't your work as a man, and Provision isn't your job as a wif You can assist your wife and vice versa The only reason we told our boys is just for him to be able to assist her wife when circumstances occur like preg📌

In football terms, she said it is not the job of the striker to make a goal-line clearance. Once a while the striker might, if the pressure is too much but he must make it clear to the goalkeeper that he’s just assisting and not his duty to make a goal-line clearance.

She said husbands should know that house chores( cooking, cleaning etc) isn't their duty at home but are for the wife just as provision( rent, school fees, feeding, etc) aren't for the wife but for the husband except where she decides to support. Mothers training boys on house

She has said it all

You need to understand in marriage there is a striker and keeper The striker must always score goals The keeper keeps goals from coming in,like evvvil people to chiomas marriage It dosent mean the striker cant keep or keeper can strike,it just means its not your natural role.