POV: How fast men become non chalant in relationships. ❤️

So many of you missing the point of this post. Good men/husbands being rejected by their wife repeatedly until they just stop trying. Then the wife makes him the bad guy to her family, friends and other men.

Inside every man is a little child. When you crush that little child in him, it takes time for him to recover. The truth is that most women don’t know that they are doing it. Please ladies, try as much as you can to indulge the little man that is in him. It’s an innocent little part of him. When you encourage that you will get the man that you married.

I don’t think women understand the amount of power they have in relationships. They can make every day beautiful if they want, or absolutely destroy it.

This is staged. No woman would care enough to figure out why her Beta husband is sulking. Or feel bad about it.

Women will continuously reject their man then run to their friends talking about he hasn’t tried anything in weeks, he must be cheating. No he’d just rather go without than be rejected again. Don’t condition someone to not be affectionate then complain when they stop touching you

Enough with the staged “ let me walk around recording everything in my house bullshit “ this crap is so stupid

I get the message, but the adult way to handle this is to sit her down and explain how her reaction made you feel. Sulking is not the way to go.

Nothing kills a dudes sex drive faster than rejection....

Women are fucking up more men then the reverse. After this guy tries to flirts she shuts him down and says he's annoying AND THEN walks around and annoys him while filming. The hypocrisy of these cunts is insufferable.

Imagine showing your women some effection and being told your annoying. His reaction was too give her what she wanted and not be annoying but then she annoys him because he gave her what she asked for. Women are crazy

So if a man is mad and wants space.. he’s being “a baby” and “should talk to her”. But when a women is mad.. it’s always “leave me alone”, “i’m going out”, “don’t talk to me”. Just more female bullshit.

Chiiildish, dry 😿 attractor anyway...

Well, if that’s true, he’s opening the door for another man that’s going to want to hang out with her.

This is a very true situation and women wonder why men withdraw from relationships? Facts!

This is so manipulative. She straight up, rejected him, peeled him off and called him annoying for being affectionate. Now this man is just seeking a break from a person who hurt his feelings and she cannot leave him alone and she’s acting like he’s being mean.🙄

It’s crazy how many people missing the point. She made him feel a way because of her WORD CHOICE. She could have said many things instead of calling him annoying. Then, her knowing she hurt his feelings, she began to follow him and test him. Instead of just apologizing.

I wouldn’t last 2 days with a chick like that. Where are you ? What are you doing? Who are you with? Get the fuck away from me bitch

He's broken and she's super annoying.

I can see both sides here. He felt rejected. 😔 It would be good if her hubby could “read the room” first. It looks like she’s busy trying to get a task done. Let her do that first✅… then maybe notice her completed task, compliment her on getting it done, then offer a gentle touch. Or, maybe a soft kiss behind the neck. 😘 Both are now happy. 😍

This is why you’ve always got to have a wife and a girlfriend bare minimum. Maybe a side chick too, if the GF & wife are prone to acting up and trying to withhold sex. Stop letting women wield sex as a weapon. The only way to prevent that is her knowing you can get it elsewhere.

It's called "Be Adults. Sit down and have a conversation about your feelings." This isn't nonchalant either. It's pouting and being passive aggressive.

This isn't 'nonchalant,' this is passive aggression and really feminine. This dude was likely raised by a single mother. A man would have just kept being annoying until she laughed.

Get a lot of this over in India?

That was not the first time she turned him away ….

I don't see him "losing interest" - I see her battering it out of him. she's the nonchalant one.

yes, as a man, i often point out that men are nonchalant for a reason but to completely change your personality based on that one interaction when she said he's annoying is not reasonable perhaps she was also not in a good mood, something happened, she needed space. we also have to be reasonable.

That's not what that is. That's a man who had been taught his love is a weapon. And now he mirrors her.

We ALL know he didn’t start acting like that after being shut down while attempting to show affection. That response comes from a long period of being made to feel unwanted and unloved by your partner. Sadly, I completely understand. And it’s gross she recorded this, it’s ALL HER

Yeah, so basically us women have to get used to them treating us badly, but once we get a little bit tired (because they don’t help us with anything), they get pissed and become nonchalant.

Stays home all day, lays around all day. She pulls this stunt is like telling him he’s a sucker, and he better not touch other women. Then she eventually wonders why he slowly stops doing things around the house. Why he just does his own things, leaves her behind for activities

She could have said honey stop I’m cleaning, I’m busy right now, give me a moment. The choice of word matters. He shows you appreciation/ affection & in that moment you say he’s being annoying. He could have handled that situation better, no need to get that upset, both wrong.

Tell me you dont know what non chalant means

That’s not being “nonchalant”, that’s being a pussy ass cry baby feeling sorry for himself.

After so many years of that…. A man wont deal with it anymore

Sorry - that guy is a weiner. He can find a happy medium of not harassing her while she’s trying to do something. Being playful sometimes is cool and sometimes you just gotta chill. Doesn’t mean you need to become a passive aggressive biatvh