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Pursuing romance in the workplace or friend groups can backfire spectacularly. If rejected, your advances will be broadcast to EVERYONE, leading to social ostracization and even some ugly intrasexual competition.
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Many such cases where women, especially the most average to below average women do this.

Well that's for sure. Status-signaling is for girls without status.

Worked at a restaurant and it was the news of the town everytime one of the women rejected a guy we worked with. They even share DMs and screenshots. It was pathetic

Women love doing that shit to status-signal, yes.

TLDR = Don't shit where you eat at. Your workplace is to make money and your friend groups is to help you get ahead in life. Having a relationship in either scenarios is as good as mixing water and oil.

As the saying goes: don’t pee in your own pool. Not worth it.

Went to rave & pretty sure I’m already expelled from the group after one night for this reason. Me, 2 girls(cousins), and 1 guy. Was alone w one girl, started flirting and then she danced on me but then the other 2 came back and saw and the one I danced with got off me quick

what if the girl is leaving next month lol

I had a girl leaving TOMORROW. Approached her, with subtlety might I add, and she STILL reported me. Don't do it. Let her leave first.

Exactly right Nothing lowers a man’s status faster than hitting on a girl in his local group 1) She just won a status trophy to brag to all her friends 2) All the dudes will pile up against you

never shit where you eat.

Never understood this type of behavior certain man are playing a losing game 😂😂 never mix work and pleasure

Why would anyone take dating advice from an Asian dude ?

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does this apply to parasocial relationships? hitting on your followers who follow you for something professional? (think dan koe texting da bad bitches who follow him)

Learned that the hard way 😂

@WifiMoneyPlant my texts were leaked during internship days. That hoe was getting married and i still asked her to come over to my apartment. She complained to manager.
