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Q: If one person still hasn’t moved on from their ex, would that affect trust in the relationship moving forward? #WhatIfdeeptalkxLoverrukk #WhatIfdeeptalk #Loverrukk 💖: I think it would. You never know whether something you do might remind them of their ex. And if they still haven’t let go, there’s...

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Question - What do you have to say about other people in your agency posting about your ex-manager? Ohm - I saw it. Question - We’re worried if she did something to you too? Ohm - Are you referring to that incident? Question - In the sense that she used to look after you. Ohm - She took care of me before—but if she wronged me? Question - Was there any situation that happened between you two? Ohm - I can’t confirm if anything happened to me or not. Personally, I don’t know what others would think about her intentions toward me. They may or may not have been good, but it’s all in the past, and I choose to leave it there. I saw the news and the headlines, but I didn’t spend time dwelling on whether she actually did something to me. I would just tell everyone, "It’s fine. It’s in the past." I think she’s already paying the price, and I don’t want to... well, if she did do something to me, I would let it go. If she didn’t, then I’m lucky. It’s all in the past, and I won’t talk about it further. Question - You weren’t even suspicious throughout the whole time? Ohm - I was. There were moments, but I chose not to dig into every detail. I decided to let it go. Question - What about your fans' opinions? Are they disappointed? Ohm -Well, I am sad. Imagine if fans—or if I myself—took the time to make a gift for someone, and it didn’t reach them but got lost along the way. I would definitely feel bad about it, as I put my all into it. I feel sad about the situation. Question - Were you shocked about what happened? Ohm - Yes, I’m really shocked. I never thought this would happen. Question - Did you think it would happen one day? Ohm - [Shakes head] It was right under my nose. Question - So you have to be more careful from now on? Ohm - Yes, I am. I’m already being more cautious. Question - How do you protect yourself? Ohm - By being mindful. I already pay a lot of attention to it, but I’ll be more careful (going forward) with every detail. For example, I try to remember everything when fans hand me a gift, including what it was. It’s not that I’m being possessive, I just keep checking to see if it’s still there. It’s like putting yourself in others’ shoes. If I made something as a gift and it got lost along the way or the person never received it, I would feel sad as the giver. You know what I mean. Question - So you remember? Ohm - Yes, I do. I try to use everything my fans give me. Almost everything around me is from my fans. Question - [Inaudible] Ohm - Everything. Everything they give me. I value it a lot. #ohmpawat #ohmtranslate

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