Reason #32174 why you avoid single moms...

I notice one thing: she talks about her husband raising her kid for 10 years Yet no mention of having any kids fathered by HIM. She apparently only wanted him to raise HER kid, not create a family with HIM.

The kid is black

Here she is

There’s a part of her that knows she’s wrong, which is why she’s on the internet explaining herself to strangers. She is craving the validation that strangers will give her.

So this dude was like 22 or 23 years old when he puts a ring on a woman who has a one year-old child with another dude? Where’s daddy? I couldn’t listen to the whole thing. She’s annoying. But it seems like Dad is not part of the picture? Big picture here: When this woman was in her early 20s, (she might even be a little older than the soon to be ex-husband?) with a one year-old kid she was probably the most agreeable horny wonderful supporting and amazing girlfriend/wife that she could be. Because what dude wants a girlfriend with a one year-old kid? Fucking nobody. Dating a single mom is tough enough. Dating a single mom with a crying fucking infant.??? this dude deserves a medal. Now that super amazing horny supporting wife no longer exists. …instead She is that bossy never happy demanding unfriendly, and I’m sure never wants to get physical… bitch of a wife. No wonder this dude is running for the hills. Not his kid. He’s still a young man. And this woman will once again go through the transformation of acting like a super friendly, warm, loving, and horny girl to try to bag the next sucker.

You never go for a girl with arms like that. She is way too into herself

100% chance she talks like this to her husband and he’s finally just tired of her and the kid. It’s probably also why the first guy left. Lasted longer than most men would’ve.

This is a typical issue in marriages that create kids. There's supposed to be a relationship hierarchy and man is supposed to come before the children. I'm sure this will be misconstrued, but men aren't supposed to be sidelined once a kid enters the picture. I blame feminism.

Mental illness 101 - woman posts her real, often fabricated personal issues, for the entire world to see. For one reason only - desperate need for attention and validation. This woman has severe mental issues

Here she is again, explaining why her husband is to blame for their problems. Maybe so. I can't imagine making one's struggles in a marriage so public. Once one has torn down a spouse on social media, it's hard to imagine any possibility of repairing the marriage.

33 man is about to get that 23 year old girlfriend without a kid and have the time of his life.

Yeah she lost me when she said that the man is not the father of her child and so that's why she doesn't put him first. Ma'am that is your husband and he has been there for your son you are f****** delusional to even say those things and the fact that you could say it in a video means that s*** like that's probably escaped your mouth before and that man probably doesn't feel respected as the father figure and your son's life after having raised him for majority of his life

She went on like this for almost 5 minutes? I didn’t make it past 30 seconds

In 8 or 9 years, the kid will be an adult, and move out. Then she'll be a cat lady!

She loves her son so much she put his business on the Internet, so now everybody knows he’s not loved by the man he consider his father.

Lady please shut up. I want to divorce you after 2 minutes. Hopefully the ex is running fast and far.

I got to 1:40

Not all single moms are toxic but this one? No, just no…

Hot take: single moms ruined America Fathers raise kids better Moms raise insane crybabies that can't navigate life

Yeah, that is the reality of single moms. Its perfect that these women post these rants because yeah guys, this is what they think!

This should be required viewing for any man looking to settle down with a single Mom. It should also be reassurance to those who just want to tap it for a month and bail. I had a situation where the child had forwarded her Mom’s sexting with me to her ex-husband to cause drama. I never dated a single Mom again.

She puts her kid before her husband and doesn’t let the husband discipline the kid. Evacuate from a scenario like that.

You created a relationship where he was separate from your son. You expected him to be father and husband when you refer to him as “your son” and not “our son”. Responsibility without authority is slavery. You created this resentment by not empowering him.

So because he isn't the biological dad you will not put him first but if he was than you would what's the difference? If he has been raising the kid and the only father he knows then treat as his real dad.

'And MY son is a really good kid.' I wonder why her husband is leaving...

Key word in this whole video “my son” Not our son, my son. Milestones and key moments don’t mean shit if she reminds you everyday it’s her kid

Sorry but am I the only one who agrees with the mother on this one? Why does a 33 year old grown man expect to be number one as a stepfather in a relationship over a woman's own biological son? This woman did the right thing my picking her son over this grown ass man child....

“If it was his kid, I would put my husband first”. Good god. So he’s expected to love and raise the child like it’s his but he doesn’t get sperm donor love and respect in return? Instead he gets second place. Does she even hear herself?

She’s vetting herself out for these single guys.

It's neither the kid's nor the dad's fault. It is this the fault of this woman. When a man and woman get married, they become 'one.' If you aren't putting your spouse FIRST, it is YOU that is generating attitudes IN the kid, and from YOURSELF (lady), that spawn this kind of reaction from your kid AND 'your man.'

She openly admitted, putting her child before her husband because he was not the sperm donor. How could any woman expect a man to be happy with marriage conditions like that? She failed her husband and child.