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REGARDLESS: A hack for any argument in which someone is using manipulation to bypass your boundaries. “Regardless” allows you to always revert back to your stance without engaging in superfluous derailments. In the example I give, it is women’s responsibility to stand up for our single sex safeguarding provisions.... show more

Amy E. Sousa, MA Depth Psychology

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this language tip is essential bc ppl take advantage of our willingness to listen. listening ≠ assent. “yeah i listened…regardless.”

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The whole “TW are not safe in mens room” is such a shit argument. I am a flamboyant gay man and I have never ever had an issue in my entire life in the mens bathroom. The crossdressers will be fine.

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There’s not a big enough 💗 here for you @KnownHeretic!!!!

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Thank you!

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Your hair is coming in lovely!

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Thank you! 🥰

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This in some help for people who are therapist or were therapist on how to stay as calm as they you:). I don’t have a personality disorder, but this shit makes me raging mad. Idk how you’re so calm. Maybe it’s cause you have ur independence license so don’t feel as trapped? Yes I

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Much of my calm is due to practice. Years ago, talking about this would make my hands shake. But at this point I’ve pretty much heard all the arguments, received all the insults, I’ve been literally attacked and mobbed. I feel peace because I feel free to speak the truth. I’m not licensed, I don’t accept insurance, so I’m not beholden to any board for what I can and cannot say. I’ve learned a lot over the years and now I’m more focused on giving others tools and support. I’m much less focused on arguing with cult members about their cult.

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One might suppose it's even better to present evidence, but they're blind to evidence anyway, so making consent the main issue makes sense. No man ever had the necessary consent to enter a single-sex space for the opposite sex. E.g. "But she's a woman who was born in the wrong body" response: Men who call themselves "trans women" continue to exhibit the same criminal offending profile as other men, regardless of whether they have surgery or take cross-sex hormones. Source: TLDR:

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