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Remember these 3 principles 👇🏾 1. Know Thy Audience Who is going to be reading your writing? Who do they answer to? What do they care about? What are their incentives? A college advisor’s job is to filter for people who will make their school’s brand look better (you’re... like a race horse they’re betting on) They wanna see that • You’ll succeed academically (stats/scores) • You’ll make the campus community better (Clubs, ECs, Comm service) • You pass the vibe check/ the profs will wanna talk to you (do your values/mission/goals align with school’s) So that if they have to , it doesn’t make them look bad to their boss 2. Know Thy Angle Again, your application is a sales pitch. The AO will probably remember 1-2 things about you if you’re LUCKY. Therefore, it’s crucial that you get clear on what the 3 core messages or takeaways you want them to leave with, and choose what to include such that they support those three ideas eg. for my MIT application I went in knowing that, if nothing else, I needed the AO’s to know 1. I had that dawg in me/was resourceful and overcome adversity 2. I am self-aware and reflective 3. My goals were beyond MIT/ I’d make something shake with or without them So for point #1 I shared things like my FLI background and dysfunctional family For point #2 I talked about my journaling and meditation habits, and said in my essay that “expecting me to know everything about myself at a 17yo is a ridiculous task” And for point #3 I said something in my essay like “If yall accept me cool, but if not, the mission still stands — I’m fixing my family’s socioeconomic status lest I die trying” (which honestly was so fricking dramatic, but emotionally impactful) 3. Show, Don’t tell The way to communicate the messages from step 2 isn’t with direct words Instead, you pick 2-3 experiences or stories that SHOW those traits, and have them come to those conclusions THEMSELVES, from feeling it emotionally #university #college #stem #admissionsshow more

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🐨 Including on social media, people talk about themselves far too easily as if they’re perfectly ethical, moral, or logical. In reality even my mother doesn’t know me. I also don’t know people who I’ve lived with for 10 yrs, it’s hard for me to say I know Yoongi and Hoseok. Do I really know that person? It’s brutally hard to even know myself. I think it’s dangerous to say “I know that guy and he could be like this..He’s like that.” I came to the conclusion about a year ago that it’s the most dangerous to think that I know everything. If I am convinced of something, I will keep seeing what I want to see. “Oh they’re that.” Then you only see that. And you will interpret all of their words and behavior in that way.

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Brian Urlacher says culture is the reason Steelers can keep veteran leaders longer than other organizations “My deal was the first time I ever became a free agent. They never let me get that far. So they don’t make an offer. My agents, they’re talking a little bit. My agent goes, ‘What do you guys want to do here?’ And the guy says, ‘Well, make an offer. Present something to us, and we’ll go from there.’ So we do that.” “He comes back and says, ‘We’re going to give him…’ and they wait a long time. And this is not just a knock on that guy, but the Bears could’ve said, ‘Hey, look, give him this. Offer him this. We want him here.’ Give him the Kobe deal.” “It wasn’t about the money for me either, man. I was just pissed off with the way they handled it. It was kind of a slap in the face, the way the dude went about it. And the Bears could’ve stepped in and said, ‘Hey, you know…’ You know who does that a lot with their players? The Steelers.” “They keep them one or two years, maybe longer than they should. But they understand what those players mean to their organization, and they keep them. They keep them around.” “Heath Miller played extra years. Troy Polamalu, extra years. Cam Heyward. So they keep these guys because they know what they mean to the Culture. Yeah. The culture of the team.” “And maybe I wasn’t. Maybe they didn’t think I was that. And that’s fine with me. But then they fired Lovie. So I was like, ‘Fuck, do I want to go back there?’ On the deal they offered me, I’m like, ‘I don’t want to play for anyone else but Lovie.’ So I just decided to retire instead.”

Brian Urlacher says culture is the reason Steelers can keep veteran leaders longer than other organizations “My deal was the first time I ever became a free agent. They never let me get that far. So they don’t make an offer. My agents, they’re talking a little bit. My agent goes, ‘What do you guys want to do here?’ And the guy says, ‘Well, make an offer. Present something to us, and we’ll go from there.’ So we do that.” “He comes back and says, ‘We’re going to give him…’ and they wait a long time. And this is not just a knock on that guy, but the Bears could’ve said, ‘Hey, look, give him this. Offer him this. We want him here.’ Give him the Kobe deal.” “It wasn’t about the money for me either, man. I was just pissed off with the way they handled it. It was kind of a slap in the face, the way the dude went about it. And the Bears could’ve stepped in and said, ‘Hey, you know…’ You know who does that a lot with their players? The Steelers.” “They keep them one or two years, maybe longer than they should. But they understand what those players mean to their organization, and they keep them. They keep them around.” “Heath Miller played extra years. Troy Polamalu, extra years. Cam Heyward. So they keep these guys because they know what they mean to the Culture. Yeah. The culture of the team.” “And maybe I wasn’t. Maybe they didn’t think I was that. And that’s fine with me. But then they fired Lovie. So I was like, ‘Fuck, do I want to go back there?’ On the deal they offered me, I’m like, ‘I don’t want to play for anyone else but Lovie.’ So I just decided to retire instead.”

Josh Chambers

120,069 views • 1 month ago

Nick Saban shares what transformational leadership really looks like and the trap most leaders fall into. "If you're in any kind of managerial position, I think you should define your job the same way: Provide the leadership to develop the relationships to help people create and accomplish the opportunities that they have, and help them establish the discipline they need to do it." Then he broke down what leadership actually is: "Leadership is about helping somebody else, affecting somebody else for their benefit. Not for your benefit - for their benefit." "If you're doing it for your benefit, it's manipulation. And people can see right through that." That's the line right there... Leadership serves others. Manipulation serves yourself. "You gotta develop a relationship, because they gotta know you care. Hard to affect people if they don't think you care about them." Then he called out where most leaders spend their time: "How do you spend all your time? If you're a manager, you spend all your time with the people who don't do the right things. I call them energy vampires." "We got 5 guys on our team - they don't go to class, they don't do the right thing in practice, they loaf all the time. Those are the guys I meet with every day. They're energy vampires." So he made a commitment: "I'm gonna meet with 3 guys who didn't do anything wrong every day to see how they're doing. To make sure they know I care about them, their family, and what's happening in their life." "I wanna have a relationship with those people, so that when I need to affect them, I have a chance to do it." "People gotta know you care. If they think you only care about yourself, they're gonna think you're just a manipulator and you're not really going to affect them in a positive way." "You gotta serve other people." The core of servant leadership is wanting to see others at their best. It's not about control, it's about serving others. (🎥 CBT Automotive)

Nick Saban shares what transformational leadership really looks like and the trap most leaders fall into. "If you're in any kind of managerial position, I think you should define your job the same way: Provide the leadership to develop the relationships to help people create and accomplish the opportunities that they have, and help them establish the discipline they need to do it." Then he broke down what leadership actually is: "Leadership is about helping somebody else, affecting somebody else for their benefit. Not for your benefit - for their benefit." "If you're doing it for your benefit, it's manipulation. And people can see right through that." That's the line right there... Leadership serves others. Manipulation serves yourself. "You gotta develop a relationship, because they gotta know you care. Hard to affect people if they don't think you care about them." Then he called out where most leaders spend their time: "How do you spend all your time? If you're a manager, you spend all your time with the people who don't do the right things. I call them energy vampires." "We got 5 guys on our team - they don't go to class, they don't do the right thing in practice, they loaf all the time. Those are the guys I meet with every day. They're energy vampires." So he made a commitment: "I'm gonna meet with 3 guys who didn't do anything wrong every day to see how they're doing. To make sure they know I care about them, their family, and what's happening in their life." "I wanna have a relationship with those people, so that when I need to affect them, I have a chance to do it." "People gotta know you care. If they think you only care about yourself, they're gonna think you're just a manipulator and you're not really going to affect them in a positive way." "You gotta serve other people." The core of servant leadership is wanting to see others at their best. It's not about control, it's about serving others. (🎥 CBT Automotive)

Coach AJ 🎯 Mental Fitness

38,100 views • 8 months ago

“This isn’t a debate about vaccinating your child or not. My 6 year old was vaccinated and hasn’t had issues, hasn’t been a sickly child, & never had any type of reaction. My 2 year old and 6 month old went for their wellness checks last week and both got the vaccinations they were due for. The way my heart broke in that drs office holding my 2 year old down to a table and letting someone stab a needle into his leg 3 times while he held my face and screamed mama to the top of his lungs is something I will never do again. Ever. I decided right then he would never get another vaccine. My 6 month old cried most of the way home then was PITIFUL the rest of the evening. I am his comfort, his only want and need, and even I couldn’t console my baby. It’s a no for me. I’m not as knowledgeable as a lot of my peers or my friends who don’t vaccinate their children, but I know enough to decide that I am comfortable not letting them have anything else injected into their little bodies or have to essentially torture them by holding them down to receive a shot full of God knows what. I say all this to say, if you vaccinate your kids, GREAT! If you don’t, GREAT! I don’t care either way! Again, my oldest is vaccinated. At that time, I thought that was best for him, for us. Six years and 2 more kids later, I no longer think that. And that’s okay. Here’s to doing what you think is best for YOUR child and trusting your mom instincts instead of just going along with it because it’s what your parents did for you, or what the drs tell you, you HAVE to do.” - Kaitlyn Wilson - ✍️

“This isn’t a debate about vaccinating your child or not. My 6 year old was vaccinated and hasn’t had issues, hasn’t been a sickly child, & never had any type of reaction. My 2 year old and 6 month old went for their wellness checks last week and both got the vaccinations they were due for. The way my heart broke in that drs office holding my 2 year old down to a table and letting someone stab a needle into his leg 3 times while he held my face and screamed mama to the top of his lungs is something I will never do again. Ever. I decided right then he would never get another vaccine. My 6 month old cried most of the way home then was PITIFUL the rest of the evening. I am his comfort, his only want and need, and even I couldn’t console my baby. It’s a no for me. I’m not as knowledgeable as a lot of my peers or my friends who don’t vaccinate their children, but I know enough to decide that I am comfortable not letting them have anything else injected into their little bodies or have to essentially torture them by holding them down to receive a shot full of God knows what. I say all this to say, if you vaccinate your kids, GREAT! If you don’t, GREAT! I don’t care either way! Again, my oldest is vaccinated. At that time, I thought that was best for him, for us. Six years and 2 more kids later, I no longer think that. And that’s okay. Here’s to doing what you think is best for YOUR child and trusting your mom instincts instead of just going along with it because it’s what your parents did for you, or what the drs tell you, you HAVE to do.” - Kaitlyn Wilson - ✍️

“Sudden And Unexpected”

29,570 views • 6 months ago

"My name is BRAD or at least, that's what YOU call me. And you think I’m young, that I just got here. But I didn’t just get here. I’ve been here since the dawn of TIME. I hunted mammoths. I wandered from the steppe to the forest, then to the coast. I built your greatest cities and cathedrals from the ground. I built boats and crossed the great oceans. I explored and conquered the whole planet. I haven’t been to the Moon yet, but the guys who did wouldn’t have gotten there without me and my guys. Now I wanna clear some things up, between us-- You think I’m lazy, you think I’m afraid, and you think I don’t care. But you see, I LOVE doing hard things, impossible things, dangerous things. I love building things, I love destroying things. I love getting together with other guys (named Brad) and doing things that would frighten my mother. So I’m NOT lazy, I’m not afraid. I’m actually not afraid to DIE, but I want to die WELL. And it’s not that I don’t care, I care DEEPLY. But it seems like nobody cares about me. Seems like YOU don’t care about me. See, all I want is to work hard, do great heroic things, and probably die... but I wanna die with my brothers, FOR something, FOR someone. And I’ve had a hard time lately because it seems like the rule is, YOU want me to die alone, FOR nothing, FOR no-one. So I’m not really happy with you. Seems like you’re not happy with me. I don’t know why that is—I could HELP you. So I’ll make you a deal. I will make you a DEAL: You don’t gotta tell me I was right. You don’t gotta tell me you’re sorry. The words I need to hear from you are, 'Brad… I NEED YOU. I need you for something GREAT. I need you to build something GREAT. I need you to CONQUER something great. I need you to be great, Brad! I need you to help ME be great.' Now if you tell me that, and you really MEAN IT? I will give you VICTORY, and happily sacrifice, give all that I am, FOR YOU. And after I do that, I’m gonna need you to reward me for it, and tell the other bigshots and the world about how I came through when you were in a tight spot. That’s all. If you need to reach me, I’m in the book."

"My name is BRAD or at least, that's what YOU call me. And you think I’m young, that I just got here. But I didn’t just get here. I’ve been here since the dawn of TIME. I hunted mammoths. I wandered from the steppe to the forest, then to the coast. I built your greatest cities and cathedrals from the ground. I built boats and crossed the great oceans. I explored and conquered the whole planet. I haven’t been to the Moon yet, but the guys who did wouldn’t have gotten there without me and my guys. Now I wanna clear some things up, between us-- You think I’m lazy, you think I’m afraid, and you think I don’t care. But you see, I LOVE doing hard things, impossible things, dangerous things. I love building things, I love destroying things. I love getting together with other guys (named Brad) and doing things that would frighten my mother. So I’m NOT lazy, I’m not afraid. I’m actually not afraid to DIE, but I want to die WELL. And it’s not that I don’t care, I care DEEPLY. But it seems like nobody cares about me. Seems like YOU don’t care about me. See, all I want is to work hard, do great heroic things, and probably die... but I wanna die with my brothers, FOR something, FOR someone. And I’ve had a hard time lately because it seems like the rule is, YOU want me to die alone, FOR nothing, FOR no-one. So I’m not really happy with you. Seems like you’re not happy with me. I don’t know why that is—I could HELP you. So I’ll make you a deal. I will make you a DEAL: You don’t gotta tell me I was right. You don’t gotta tell me you’re sorry. The words I need to hear from you are, 'Brad… I NEED YOU. I need you for something GREAT. I need you to build something GREAT. I need you to CONQUER something great. I need you to be great, Brad! I need you to help ME be great.' Now if you tell me that, and you really MEAN IT? I will give you VICTORY, and happily sacrifice, give all that I am, FOR YOU. And after I do that, I’m gonna need you to reward me for it, and tell the other bigshots and the world about how I came through when you were in a tight spot. That’s all. If you need to reach me, I’m in the book."

Tuor Eladar

15,239 views • 3 days ago

#ลีน่าหมิว #LenaMiu #lalinalena #ลีน่าลลินา ‘You deserve to be loved the right way…if they don’t love you it’s okay, but the artist loves you’ – Lena Lorena Lalina Schuett 🦋: I want to thank everyone for buying me various gifts. I’m so happy every time I open the gifts and also when reading the letters, it makes me very happy. Some people have made cards as if I was their gf/bf. I feel like I want those who have made me these cards and given me these things, to really have a gf/bf! Because if I was their gf, I’d really love them like omg like ohho! I’m someone who’s really into things that are diy (handmade) or if it’s something that I know they have really made for me. Something that they really put thought into buying or made for me. So that’s why I want to say to all the fans that you deserve to be loved the right way. Please remember that. If they don’t love you it’s okay, but the artist loves you. Genuinely. When I opened the card, there was this to pull here and there – hey guys, I know how hard it is to make these sort of cards because I also like to write cards and do diy stuff. I’m not great at doing them but I always try. But yes, thank you so much everyone for putting your thoughts into doing them for me.

#ลีน่าหมิว #LenaMiu #lalinalena #ลีน่าลลินา ‘You deserve to be loved the right way…if they don’t love you it’s okay, but the artist loves you’ – Lena Lorena Lalina Schuett 🦋: I want to thank everyone for buying me various gifts. I’m so happy every time I open the gifts and also when reading the letters, it makes me very happy. Some people have made cards as if I was their gf/bf. I feel like I want those who have made me these cards and given me these things, to really have a gf/bf! Because if I was their gf, I’d really love them like omg like ohho! I’m someone who’s really into things that are diy (handmade) or if it’s something that I know they have really made for me. Something that they really put thought into buying or made for me. So that’s why I want to say to all the fans that you deserve to be loved the right way. Please remember that. If they don’t love you it’s okay, but the artist loves you. Genuinely. When I opened the card, there was this to pull here and there – hey guys, I know how hard it is to make these sort of cards because I also like to write cards and do diy stuff. I’m not great at doing them but I always try. But yes, thank you so much everyone for putting your thoughts into doing them for me.

Shez.

36,057 views • 9 months ago

ex-Amazon VP (Ethan Evans): "One of the hardest things for people to understand is I've identified a legitimate weakness in my boss. I go to my skip. Why doesn't he do something? Well, if you come to me with a weakness in one of my employees, there is subconsciously this process that goes on that says, I have two choices. I can believe that you're overly sensitive and high maintenance. In which case, I don't really have a problem. You are the problem. And you know, you're two levels down for me. So if you quit, well, the manager has to do the backfill. And I can tell the manager, you know, Ryan was here. He said this, that and the other. Maybe you can work with him. And that's exactly what you don't want is me ratting you out. But I can make it my manager's problem. On the other hand, if I agree with you and I'm like, you know what, this manager I have really isn't that good. Now I have three problems. This is really bad for me. One, I have to decide what to do with my manager. Maybe I have to manage them out. Two, if I do manage them out, I have to hire and train somebody else. And three, while they're gone, I have to do all their work myself. So you can see why, even if it's subconscious, I have a lot of reasons not to listen "

ex-Amazon VP (Ethan Evans): "One of the hardest things for people to understand is I've identified a legitimate weakness in my boss. I go to my skip. Why doesn't he do something? Well, if you come to me with a weakness in one of my employees, there is subconsciously this process that goes on that says, I have two choices. I can believe that you're overly sensitive and high maintenance. In which case, I don't really have a problem. You are the problem. And you know, you're two levels down for me. So if you quit, well, the manager has to do the backfill. And I can tell the manager, you know, Ryan was here. He said this, that and the other. Maybe you can work with him. And that's exactly what you don't want is me ratting you out. But I can make it my manager's problem. On the other hand, if I agree with you and I'm like, you know what, this manager I have really isn't that good. Now I have three problems. This is really bad for me. One, I have to decide what to do with my manager. Maybe I have to manage them out. Two, if I do manage them out, I have to hire and train somebody else. And three, while they're gone, I have to do all their work myself. So you can see why, even if it's subconscious, I have a lot of reasons not to listen "

Ryan Peterman

1,249,200 views • 7 months ago

"ไม่มีอะไรที่จะหยุดให้พี่ตั้งใจทำงานให้ดีที่สุดเท่าที่จะทำได้” อิงฟ้า วราหะ ---- This isn't the first drama that happened to me. Actually, it's quite often that I have to keep explaining things that I believe I've said it clearly. Anyhow, getting to see you all today makes me happy. I want to tell you that I see/feel the positive energy from you. Some might not express it on social media but they come to see me and make me feel it. That includes those who are now in front of me and those who are watching the live. Thank you so much. I know that you have to be strong too. Nothing will prevent me from putting my best effort into my work. I'll continue being Engfa who will do her best no matter how hard, tough or difficult the job is. And I want you to know that I'm still the same Engfa, the same person. Maybe some people might need to ask themselves if they are still the same. #อิงฟ้ามหาชน‌ #EngfaWaraha

"ไม่มีอะไรที่จะหยุดให้พี่ตั้งใจทำงานให้ดีที่สุดเท่าที่จะทำได้” อิงฟ้า วราหะ ---- This isn't the first drama that happened to me. Actually, it's quite often that I have to keep explaining things that I believe I've said it clearly. Anyhow, getting to see you all today makes me happy. I want to tell you that I see/feel the positive energy from you. Some might not express it on social media but they come to see me and make me feel it. That includes those who are now in front of me and those who are watching the live. Thank you so much. I know that you have to be strong too. Nothing will prevent me from putting my best effort into my work. I'll continue being Engfa who will do her best no matter how hard, tough or difficult the job is. And I want you to know that I'm still the same Engfa, the same person. Maybe some people might need to ask themselves if they are still the same. #อิงฟ้ามหาชน‌ #EngfaWaraha

Me_Myself_and_I

33,679 views • 1 month ago

“You're not entitled to get what you want. I love you. You're entitled to earn what you're willing to go work for. And that's true in our families, in our parenting, in our marriage, in our companies, in society. If we want it, go earn it. If that's positivity, have positivity. I think and I am a positive person. I am jacked. I am excited. Obviously, you can feel my energy through technology here, I hope. Frankly, think positive people just need to get a lot stronger. I really do. I mean, I don't want to call them weak because people hear that differently but it kind of is. Look, if you want that positivity to stick, you’ve got to get tougher. Not sacrifice your love and your care and your empathy, but you got to get tough. And then we have to figure out how to love the people who are cynical because I don't think there's a ton of bad people in the world and I don't think there's a ton of bad people on teams. But I do think there are people who've been burned out. I do think there are people who have been through things in their lives. They've been through things in their company. They're experiencing stuff somewhere else. For whatever reason, they just kind of got run down and cynical and negative, or whatever. Or they're just wired a little different than we are. And I don't to hate on those people. I want to win those people. They don't have to be like me. They don't have to have my energy. But I want those people on my team. I want to love those people. And if eventually they choose that they don't believe in the same things that I believe in, I want to make it really clear and obvious that they don't want to be on this team because we're not about that. You know what I'm saying? I want it to be very easy, obvious, that, ‘Hey I should not be on this team. Because this team is full of very positive people who have great energy and talk to people, not about them.’ And we solve problems. We don't complain. We don't get defensive. We're real. I recognize I'm imperfect and I'm vulnerable to show you that about me. I want to be on that kind of a team. And if there's somebody who doesn’t believe in that stuff, I want to make it really easy for them to say, ‘Look, I don't want to be on this team. I don't wanna live like you guys live. I don't want do what you guys do.’ And then I really hope that that person leaves us and goes and joins our competitor.”

“You're not entitled to get what you want. I love you. You're entitled to earn what you're willing to go work for. And that's true in our families, in our parenting, in our marriage, in our companies, in society. If we want it, go earn it. If that's positivity, have positivity. I think and I am a positive person. I am jacked. I am excited. Obviously, you can feel my energy through technology here, I hope. Frankly, think positive people just need to get a lot stronger. I really do. I mean, I don't want to call them weak because people hear that differently but it kind of is. Look, if you want that positivity to stick, you’ve got to get tougher. Not sacrifice your love and your care and your empathy, but you got to get tough. And then we have to figure out how to love the people who are cynical because I don't think there's a ton of bad people in the world and I don't think there's a ton of bad people on teams. But I do think there are people who've been burned out. I do think there are people who have been through things in their lives. They've been through things in their company. They're experiencing stuff somewhere else. For whatever reason, they just kind of got run down and cynical and negative, or whatever. Or they're just wired a little different than we are. And I don't to hate on those people. I want to win those people. They don't have to be like me. They don't have to have my energy. But I want those people on my team. I want to love those people. And if eventually they choose that they don't believe in the same things that I believe in, I want to make it really clear and obvious that they don't want to be on this team because we're not about that. You know what I'm saying? I want it to be very easy, obvious, that, ‘Hey I should not be on this team. Because this team is full of very positive people who have great energy and talk to people, not about them.’ And we solve problems. We don't complain. We don't get defensive. We're real. I recognize I'm imperfect and I'm vulnerable to show you that about me. I want to be on that kind of a team. And if there's somebody who doesn’t believe in that stuff, I want to make it really easy for them to say, ‘Look, I don't want to be on this team. I don't wanna live like you guys live. I don't want do what you guys do.’ And then I really hope that that person leaves us and goes and joins our competitor.”

Brian Kight

38,105 views • 2 years ago