She is literally saying she needs a man is able lower himself when it needs to be, it’s not about killing a cow!

I respect her. She is not into the man "must be monied, dark, and tall" stuff. She wants a humble man from the rural areas who can be there for her in times of need and is able to slaughter a cow 😊 🙂

The song was so unnecessary, my lady is into man who are able to be useful as men in the society especially in rural areas. You can tell she grew up in rural unlike other people who never saw a goat or cow let alone being slaughtered.

What she is saying is very true and real... You can try twist her words and misinterpret what she's saying, but she's right... Many of our present day problems are due to lack/loss of cultural values. We substitute those with economic stability and think that's end all be all

Women love patronising us shame

its also not about "lowering himself"... its simply about being able to be a masculine man period.

Just let certain posts you don't relate to go, you don't get it you'll never get it.

I’m not going to be a millionaire and be busy slaughtering cows 🐄

Fvck this bxtch,if you can pay people to do that, why must I prove to you that I can do it myself ? TSEK!! and you guys still pay ilobolo for these H03s and still be treated like this?

One thing I say for Free is that Women don't know what they want...If she wants that kind of man why does she yes to a Dr who wont even get a chance to wear Overalls... she should go date in Construction once!

Free advise. The emphasis on the importance of showing up as a person, being present, and being generous, rather than just focusing on professional or wealth status is special. ​Value in a man is about how he shows up, not just his status or possessions.

No, you misunderstood and misquoting her. Those who get it, get it.

Not every man grew up in rural areas and they know how to slaughter a cow and not every family will require Makoti to come and chop vegetables on Friday before funeral, people can pay for those kind of services

As for killing a cow

@ChristinaM58236 A man must be useful

Isn't our culture mostly us as Zulu tribe doesn't lay us a foundation to be come "IZINKABI" & murderers of our beloved women & kids she must be very careful of what she wish for, she might be looking for someone who will kill her if she cheats, trained from killing cows and goats

One must Billionaire and still dig a toilet pit to impress a woman!🤔

Love don't cost anything

who is this lady? i can't leave without her

How old are you? Where did you grow up?

Lowering yourself is key but a smart woman can easily identify a humble cultural man BUT , this girl has a sister with a rich husband and uyamzonda but secretly wants him 😂😂😂

These girls, in their delusional minds, think that we are desperate for them. They think that they are the ultimate prize ne. Sorry girls, you are delusional.

She has the most useless standards ever but it’s her Choices . I am yet to learn how to slaughter a goat or a cow but I don’t see it as a need .

I respected what she says...she doesn't want a man's assets...she is different...she is a wife material...I like her...she is remind us of botho ...thanks girl

@SabeloMkhwanaz1 Totally understand this sister, i thought she said something wrong reading the caption Kanti she just got people in their feels. 😂😂 indoda vele engakwazi ukuhlaba nokusebenza ekhaya or ikhulume emsamo yenziwani? 😂😂

Some of us can relate, no issue on our side. We can move between modern & traditional depending on the moment: eating at the table one day & standing with the elders around the fire during a slaughtering ceremonies or actually being able to skin a beast with other men the next.

Coming from that sort of upbringing where my folks had that sort of relationship, I understand where she is coming from. A man and a woman who are present for one another are such a blessing, unfortunately we have become too jaded.

Lol what’s with this song? Are we supposed to feel something?? 😂😂

It's also important to note that not everyone not working is actually someone who doesn't lend a hand. Sometimes we do what they do when they also come through. 🤭🤭🤭sharp-nose shoes and sh!t...

Kanti women like this are still around?

Mad

@Fakade_C Ubani igama lale ntombazane @grok?

Wow, cultural values🤞🏾she just makes my day mara we know a lot is gonna go after her because they scared of the truth, that so powerful from her🙏🏽🙏🏽

Hard to satisfy a woman for real