She literally explained When people exclude you, remain excluded.

literally is a superfluous word to use all…the…time imho

Protect yourself.💯

Ẹni tí a ò fẹ́, áló̩ ò kàn án. A person whose company is not desired gets no turn at riddling. In other words… A person not wanted in a group should not press his or her rights. As an African woman of Yoruba bloodline, I have experienced many situations in America 🇺🇸 that reminded me constantly that I was not wanted in particular groups. At first it hurt, but instead of sulking about it, I asked myself A) What am I being protected from? B) How can I use this delineation to lean deeper into my gifts, talents, strengths and abilities and thereby build an architecture that people need? Now these same family members, cousins and so-called friends desperately want access to what I’ve built which requires an expensive price tag to access. Lesson: Don’t force your way into being accepted by the Black community or any community for that matter. Stand firm on your square. Lean deeper into your gifts, align with what is yours by birthright and the very people who shunned you, bullied you, pushed you away or tried to exploit you and take advantage of you, will very soon start looking for you. Then you have the power to decide where you want to go from there.

She’s abit slow to be only realising this now…

People needs to understand that, you don't need someone's validation to live or do things. If you're not involved stay out

I’m excluded because I’m exclusive 😛