She’s right being baby-mamed twice is crazy work 🤣

@slickMills0 All the single mothers with more than one baby dad are in the comments pissed tf off

The “wife value” thing is silly, but for the most part she’s right.

Here's the thing if your spouse leaves you with that child, you too will be a single mother. I have been married for almost 30 years. Nobody starts of saying when I grow up, I want to be a single mom. We got married young and grew old together. Be careful what you speak into the atmosphere it has a certain way of making us look foolish at times.

I agree with her 100%. We have all been young and naive at some point in our lives and made mistakes; that’s life. But, continuing to make the same mistake that not only impacts you but your innocent children and then in turn the community they go into is the problem. Women are the gatekeepers and we need to start feeling perfectly okay with ignoring the males that don’t cut it….

No being a baby mama the first time is fucking embarrassing. You can’t even get a man to commit to you legally and you’re gonna risk your life to have his baby. It makes no damn sense. You need to want more for yourselves.

Agreed yes men are performative but you gotta take accountability ladies

Thank you!!!!!! You can either be Summer Walker or Ciara . . You decide lol

Wake it up!!!! Being a baby mama twice is a choice!

Can someone explain to me this genre of black media where a lighter skinned or mixed woman is lecturing black women with niggaa talking points? Not sure why BW are so tender headed to the scams.

Mfs be 20 & married baby at 22 & divorced at 22 😂 yall way of thinking is dumb AF! Being a husband or wife is pointless if you lack discipline, communication skills, & not willing to compromise or sacrifice & innerstand ppl grow & change & not always for the best! Shit happens

I’m sick & tired of this bitch

Let me get this right: you can't get married if you have multiple baby daddies, but men can? Oh, alright.

I guess I’m too woke because fuck men and marrying them.

Girly u so loud on the internet, we shall remember

BINGO BINGO BINGO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Many of us learned a long time ago that the race will die out without us taking responsibility for continuing 2 birth& raise the babies. I don't blame young ladies 4not wanting 2do it. But if we didn't most of y'all wouldn't be here. I love Black babies. Best part of my life ❤️

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I mean what if my baby daddy/husband died? And I wanna move on with my life??

Having my kids is worth being a baby mama.

Women can choose to be a mother or not. Men are the only ones forced into parenthood! NOT WOMEN!! All children born in the west is 1000% the mothers choice! SMFH

no the issue inherently is rooted in beliefs. Not in people themselves but in the fundamental, foundational beliefs that they were conditioned with. Beliefs are not the people; they are the conditioning of the minds, the thing that sets the idea of a foundation in which one will experience a relationship. If those beliefs are not met then people would say that the relationship was bad but in fact that's not the case at all. The beliefs were never guaranteed to succeed. They are not founded in reality. They are not fundamentally supportive of human nature itself. They are a framework of control. They are a framework of behavior patterns and that's it. Guess what happens when humans encounter reality versus what they believed it should be? They seem to somehow continuously obscure the reality that they're facing and blame the other person, forgetting that they too had a fundamental belief that was wrong. Here's an example: you can't commit to forever without understanding what forever is because guess what? Reality changes every single moment, every single day, every single iteration of existence itself. It's a forever changing thing. Commitment can never be expressed. The idea of committing to a belief system that is not yours is inherently going against yourself and most belief systems came from somebody else. They come from religion. They come from somebody else's idea and it doesn't inherently allow for an individual expression to choose. This is the common issue with society and their common beliefs. They all get the same experience, they all get the same results, same issue, same blinding ignorance, and they all point the finger at someone else for not holding up the flawed beliefs The beliefs are the root of the issue Not the people Women have historically claimed commitment swarm commitment then didn’t commit because of conditions Maybe humans should start telling the truth about their conditional commitment and the fact that it is contingent upon a certain performance Then humans can all be performative just to get what they out to hide the conditions

Being BM’d twice by the same man is not the same as being BM’d twice by 2 different men.

So we are going to take advice from a worthless black animal I don’t think so

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Talk to em

Black american women do not want to be wife Women who want to be wife. Do not go on girls trips and have whore phases

It’s very fool me once shame on you but fool me twice…

I know women who did it 3 or more times.

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Idk I was a baby mama. Got married later on, ended up divorced and became a baby mama again. Sometimes you can’t control how life plays out.

having a baby out of wedlock is YOUR. CHOICE. allowing a second men you know you’re not going to marry to get you pregnant is YOUR. CHOICE. being a baby mother is not appealing. power to yall but that’s not the goal

As a single mom since 21, i agree. Experience is the biggest teacher. As much as I want more kids, not happening until marriage.

That hit dog started hollering stop pacifying the issue