Should men pay 100% for the first date? Or should it be 50/50? 🔊

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What about the other hundred genders?

A man should pay for the first date. If she hates that or is combative about it, at least he's purchased the knowledge to not pursue a second.

I don't date women who look or act like her. You shouldn't either.

Cool, but don’t come out with that “I’m an independent woman” energy after.

They are not looking for a relationship, they are looking for a sugar daddy, not real

Women are so lazy and ungrateful

You ask, you pay It’s that simple

Her justification was if she’s having your baby, you should pay for her dinner. 😆

Ok but, at some point she's gotta grow up and realize she's not that special. Right?

If she is liberal, she has to pay 100% of it, and if she is not, let the man pay.

She makes sense as long as she is the full package, in shape, loyal, respectful, and low or no body count. She is requesting a high value man and she will get that, as long as she is a high value woman. The problem is low value woman expecting high value treatment. It doesn’t work like that.

Depends on how the date goes 😂 I would say. I’m $FINE with everything

If the man invited you, he should pay. Problem is when I was single I encountered women who thought it was wrong for me to open the door. You didn’t always know what type of woman she was until you got to the date. Lol

Change the argument. If I pay for everything and the woman sleeps with me, does that make her a prostitute? Whats the difference of paying for her services through direct cash payment or goods? Y'all women want to create arguments to have something to create drama with. But if you want this argument, understand it will end will feminists demanding you to pay half of everything cause no man "owns" you.

I think the guy should pay for the first date. However, if the girl knows she doesn't want to talk to him again, she should pay for herself. That's about the only exception I can think of.

So gender is a spectrum, women should be treated exactly like men, and smash the patriarchy... until it comes time to pay for the date, determine who gets which assets in a divorce, do a dangerous job, or get drafted. Got it.

…….botox…….long nails……no go, or… future OF starlet

In the era I grew up in, yes, if you asked a girl out, you paid for everything.

Men should most definitely pay 100% at a place they can easily afford. If a woman is unhappy with where a guy has taken her then she is NOT the one. Save money on the boujee locations for special occasions after you got the girl

My first dates were always more low brow to hedge the risk. Pizza / street tacos. If you don’t have $50 to spend on a date with a potential life partner, just stay on the bench.

Her mom gave birth to a whole ass human

It entirely depends on the circumstances. If a man makes the invite, I’d say it’s polite, but with progressive views demanding full equality, perhaps 50/50 is appropriate? Can’t always have your cake and eat it too 🤷🏼‍♂️

💯 all the time...

She is giving birth in the first date?! 😂

Who ever asked pays for the date.

Ah yes, conform to your assigned gender role while I do not.

I say this as a woman - if women in general would stop giving it away in the first 15 minutes of a date, you probably wouldn't have the issue. If you want old fashioned standards (he pays) then the modern feminism bs really hurts your case. You want equality - here you go.

Pretty soon we will be going back to arranged marriages. Women with social media won’t be able to get a husband of any value. Parents who refuse to take care of their daughters forever, will be making arrangements. Daughter doesn’t like it, hit the road. Good luck.

I mean… when she looks like a man 🤷🏻‍♂️

It’s not “should” you. It’s will other men in the market do it, for the woman type you desire. If the answer is yes, declining to pay can easily make another man a better option to a female. They care about ability to provide, idc what common trend says, so saying you need 50/50 is a 🚩