Simple je content, but cery deep meaning. Bila fikir balik….

unspoken burdens. i doa future suami will be opened up about his emotions & comfortable to share anything. my father used to be pendiam but now bila anak dah besar, he tried to be more open up and i wish he did that earlier sebab struggle seorang ayah jarang kita hargai.

Semoga para suami/ayah kekal tabah dan dimurahkan rezeki. Saya sendiri pun banyak kali lalui, bila dah kerap, tiada duit pun boleh chill je 😂. Kadang2 rezeki ni datang tak diduga, macam tak masuk akal, tapi itulah yang selalunya berlaku.

And when he talk..

unspoken burden. no one would even care if they start talking. so they just move on, do what the best they can do to put a food on the plate for the family. instead of questioning them for being like this, just go and talk to them. at least don’t make them lonely

Despite people telling guys to open up more, its instilled in the majority of women that lelaki yg byk sgt luah tends to be seen as more dependent on others, and therefore payah nk jadikan as leader. Klau dh kahwin nk luah semua, lantaklah, but prior to that, luah = lemah

ya benda ni orang dah kawin n ada anak akan rasa. kdg2 lpas anak bini tido, boleh duduk termenung kat meja makan dlm gelap. xtau la.

alhamdullilah dapat bapak talkative and open. hal gf boleh citer, hal politik leh citer, hal jiran leh citer, hal sukan leh citer. perli perli tapi ada batasnya. semoga papa saya terus sihat dan kuat menghadapi kehidupan ni..

Having kids now is a luxury. M40 pun boleh jadi B40 nak besarkan anak.

Why? Because men don’t matter. Lelaki tk lyak utk bersuara, ada perasaan, nak tnjuk emosi pun tk boleh. So, apa masalah dorang pendam sendiri. Sbb tu lelaki lagi rmai commit suicide dri perempuan.