So black people this is how y'all think?

She ain't wrong

We black people bruh

She actually made sense. We are just not ready for this uncomfortable conversation.

The destruction of the african family unit has left us lost and unknowing comparing ourselves to euro centric ways. There are many mis-interpretations

She's talking about signing paper at court, whereas our African way doesn't recognize court

I've never had anyone explain ilobolo (incl umembeso etc.), but from my perspective, it's meant to acknowledge and thank the girl's parent(s) for raising her, to show commitment, and that money is meant to assist with the wedding costs. Remember she's leaving her house/family.

And recognition of ancestors

She earned herself a VIP seat on men's conference sitting next to president

@Mkhathini_03 You can tell she's been through a lot😂😂😭

@mngomezulu_welz She makes a lot of sense!! Black or not !