so it’s not just me who thinks this 😵‍💫

Aaight so the women that’s starting to get it need separate themselves so we can know who’s who

It be giving they get that mindset from social media, it’s forced😵‍💫

the new women are taking the FUN out of dating just vibing and getting to know ppl like girl PAY UR BILL!?

@galactamelanin the annoying thing is it stems from protecting personal interest, the same way men do with sex. It’s getting ridiculous now though as the girls are not applying critical thinking and don’t realise their normalising escort/sw culture in dating.

Why do we care about the standards other women set for themselves? If she wants him to pay a bill fine! If she wants nothing fine! Who cares? & y?

Women don’t know how to take their autonomy back for being swindled into marital activities before marriage by men so the first attempt is demanding husband activities before marriage to even the score instead of demanding marriage

She dont know the h3ll that girl been through to even think she deserves standards& I know she’s Black bc if Becky said she wants a horse & a carriage delivered it would be OH how cute & princessy. FOH policing Black women’s standards. If I want a castle go get the damn castle!

I completely agree with her. But, there are still men who want to have premarital sex with no/ not -ready for commitment, -no loyalty, -expect you to cook and clean. -go 50/50 -can’t provide to start a family Men should be marrying women before having sex with them. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Being properly courted is one thing, needing/wanting a random man to pay your bills is bum behavior. I say this as a woman who hates men 🤣

Now hear me out! If they go on the date, there's a 92% chance he'll be looking to crack eventually. He may have enough couth not to ask that night. But he will want to crack within the month or less - nontheless. So ... I meannnn.... 🤣 if that's the lady requirement so be it!

It’s gross. That’s the exact word.

"He gotta pay my rent before he take me out on a date"

"i'm still 4 the girls but" "as someone who really believes that women are worth their weight in gold" There's her problem right there. Until women unlearn the idea that all of them are inherently "golden" it's only going to get worse.

Every time women do things like this I wonder if they’re escorts on the side or something because why are you speaking to me as if I’m one of your clients??

@galactamelanin Literally been baffling me since 2019

many women don’t know the art of buttering up a man anymore.

How little does she think of that man that he’d have to put a deposit down for the opportunity to take her out? I’m glad I’m out of the game, because situations like this sound insane. That’s an immediate “she’s not for you let her go” to my younger brothers if they came to me with this scenario.

Never thought I’d say a woman being accountable not for just her self but her gender . I see good times ahead

Honestly.. its not how women are today.. Men just dont see you guys as life prizes. Its actually fun being single without having you guys as leeches.... woman need a reality check and time is about to serve it up

And this why men are confused as to why everything is “objectifying or sexualizing” when yall are clearly saying “i cost to be with”….like that’s the objectifying, “i ain’t fuckin no broke Nigga” is sexualizing yourself

@kidswithcrwns Lmao i think women realized this is actually prostitution and escort culture instead of “baddie culture” and they definitely don’t want to associate with that so dating is returning back to normal for some

personally i am like 25% attracted to men anyway, so if they’re not paying for my time I don’t want to be around them at all. i am also a sw so maybe our standards are higher than others lmao

Fellas they’re finally coming back to their senses we might be able to find wives again

There are always Women that will try to finesse the situation as "anything but". The problem is that you have many that are indirectly casting dating as transactional and get upset when Men call it out.

I honestly never understood that. you can’t pay your own bills? Why are we using people? The only way that would be understandable to me is if you guys are married so you pay the bills together or however you choose.

@NanaChief Yeah that was a bit much. A whole bill? What if he doesn’t like you after the date now he’s out of date money and bill money. Bitch please.

No shes right it’s boarding prostitution… the thing is the whole providing thing will naturally come with time and trust…

But this isn’t a “we” or “women” thing this is one fringe person with their specific beliefs and standards like why are we now trying to preach to all women based off that

She and you are pick meisha s. A man can hear a guy say that he’s just tryna crack a billion times and never come to the web to criticize.

She bad … I ain’t heard nothing a damn thing she was saying …

Ion think most women/the average woman is saying this stuff…. and also I mean that make it easier on women who don’t want this stuff and filter out men that she don’t like

lol why girls be so afraid to not be a girls girl 😭

Mf say they 4 the girls but yall don’t even like Eachother in real life 😂

this why it be so hard to really be w someone these days bc the men are scared of us wtf 😂