Soft domme, anyone?

I personally do not understand the Dommes that think they need to be mean. I look towards D/s as means for personal growth. I cannot see offering my submission to some that is not better than me. Being mean already makes that person less than me.

I wasn't even aware of the idea of a "Soft Dom", until I was RPing with someone and she just exclaimed out of the blue that is what I was doing with her. After a bit of research, I had to agree. "That's My style, I guess." 😋