😳 Team Grandma or Team Momma? 🤔

I’ve been in “time out” for goin on 4 yrs. My DIL shut me out of their lives…and my son, my only child, backed her up. I’m DEFINITELY team Grandma

Sorry to hear that. Is there any resolution in sight?

Thanks, sweets❤️. Gods timing. His will be done. I’ll keep praying!❤️

Team grandma all the fucking way, dude must be a real pussy

So happy wife happy life is fake news? IDK which would be/is worse for him. A disgruntled post party possible partner, or a broken hearted moms..🤷🏾‍♂️

“Postpartum, not party” 🤦🏾‍♂️

Respect and empathy is a two way street not a dead end

I like that…😎👍🏾

As elders we are often called to show grace. The culture sells our young so many silly ideas. Go babysit your grand baby.

I like that perspective. Time is short as the days pass so why let such a grudge linger past the task and memories at hand? 😎👍🏾

Team Grandma - I’ll help and sit and be the on call nanny but not if I get treated like that first.

If this is their first child, they might need a bit of understanding. If you want a relationship with your grandchild, be the bigger person and enjoy the time you spend with them.

Team grandma.

Where is her son in all this?

Probably backs up his wife…who unless moms is toxic, may feel some kinda way about his mom…always such an odd dynamic when women beefing with each other in the family…nuclear or extended.

Grandma reminds me of that old saying, cutting off her nose to spite her face.

I like seeing more people say for her to put their differences aside and live/love while the days permit 😎👊🏾

Grow up grandma, I get the selfishness in the beginning, but it was their thing, it was only 3 months and it’s not your baby. who knows you might be a little too controlling. 🧐 You got the chance to meet your grandchild, which should be more important than your pettiness. Meet that baby, the baby will never be 3 months old again. What a gift you just denied.

I think she learned her lesson quick when she realized she needed help. I would give her a break and forgive her. All new parents have grand ideas that don’t work out.

Maybe your daughter-in-law doesn’t like you because you’re a gossip and you get on social media strange stories about his son and his wife and her family

She put you on a time out because she thought she had it all figured out. She had to learn the hard way. Don’t be so hard on her but don’t let her bend you over too much either. Hmmm!

Dang! My mom told me she was not going to be a grandma kind of grandma for our daughter… then she met her. 😁 She was the grandma-ist grandma who ever grandmaed. I am Nonnie to three, I’m kinda great at it. lol Can’t blame this woman. I hope they work it out. Their baby can learn a lot from this wise lady.

I'm with you Team Grandma - In-laws the baby is all about them. OK Own it In=laws. Don't complain to me, I have care of my 95 yrs mother & the families dogs.

There’s a lot of hurt and pain here. A baby deserves a loving family 😢

My Mom always said, “A daughter is a daughter for life. A son is a son until he takes a wife.”

Hating ass grandma

LMA🤣!!! Definitely the minority opinion, but it’s noteworthy and noted 😎👊🏾

I actually do agree with the grandmother’s point, but it’s a matter of “would you rather be right or happy?” I can’t answer that for anyone else, but she seems to be happy choosing to be right, at least for now. Also, she raised a weak son who’s bossed around by wifey. Sad.

Be prepared for a blue haired grandchild. Parents sound like a nightmare

Good for you and SHAME ON YOUR SON FOR.ALLOWING IT! WHAT WEIDOS!! POOR KID!

You are supposed to be the mature one here. How petty and gross. I guess you don't want to be a part of your grandchild's life. I NEVER say no to babysitting. What a precious gift to spend time with your grandkids. You should be there for support not holding grudges. Gross.

Love this woman

Team grandma!

Yes. grandma

I'm kinda with the grandma on this one ngl... It's totally understandable for the parents to want quality time with their child, but only letting the grandma come see the baby solely cuz they don't wanna deal with the baby anymore is kinda insensitive and dehumanizing.

100% Team mommy. I respect them. That means no illness for the baby and rest for the family. Allow them time.

I’m sort of with grandma on this one.

Respect to granmaa😶

I’m sorry, what is she saying? I’ve been looking at her gross bottom teeth the whole time.

Gramma wants to give Mama a little payback for missing out on the first 3 months, but her approach is a little too ham handed. Gramma has to be a little more delicate and devious in her payback gesture.

A majority of women born after 1990 were raised and are awful and extremely entitled. Every women thinks they are Cinderella in some way. It's not their fault. George Orwell predicted this in the 1940's but people are too stupid and lazy to read books anymore...

Well played Grandma for not getting played😎👍

Team Grandma.