The community is cooked as a whole…

can’t even lie, I kinda get what she’s saying.

Black People and their tight grip on conversations/topics like this. <<< We gotta switch this bs up. Pronto.

Lord…..why did she think this was a good argument?!!! You paying yourself back for a child you helped bring into the world? Okay heaux🙄

The lady with the Afro said no, so there is some hope.

Why are you paying yourself back for a child that’s yours though? Why can’t that extra money be invested into the child’s future? I’m just so confused by this mindset😔.

It's not about you paying yourself back it's about the father contributing to the child what did he do for his child if you used his money for a fucking wig.. nothing ..then you can still turn around and say he don't do shit for the kid well you not applying his money to the child you buying wigs that's not fair to the kid or the dad

That’s crazy you rather take the extra income for your child and spend it on a wig? That’s why these babies don’t be having no money left over to pay for college or to help them get their first car for graduating high school. $500 a month for 18yrs is well over 100k.

I understand exactly what’s she’s saying. Y’all think mothers wait for the child support to hit to do what needs to be done? Nah lls So yea, that child support just paying me back for the things I couldn’t do for myself while I was holding it down 🤷🏽‍♀️

This is the majority