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THE CONDITIONAL PRIVACY: WHY YOUR SECRETS ARE A RED FLAG A subscriber recently pointed out a massive double standard on Pattaya dating apps: Girls will refuse to meet at their place, but if you say you don't have a room either, they instantly interrogate you. "Do you have a... girlfriend? Who do you live with? Where?" Why is her privacy respected, but yours is treated like a crime? It comes down to the unwritten rules of the city. Her Room is a Sanctuary Her place isn't a private bachelor pad. It’s a cheap room shared with three other girls from her village. It’s the only place she is "off the clock." Bringing a date there shatters her only boundary. Your Room is an Expectation In this ecosystem, an expat is expected to provide the logistics. If you say "I can't host," it instantly triggers her risk-assessment algorithm. To her, a Farang without a room means one of two things: You are completely broke (crashing in a hostel). You are hiding a Thai wife (and she absolutely does not want that drama). It’s not about fairness; it’s about survival. She doesn't have to explain her living situation because she's a local navigating a tough industry. But a Farang without a private room? In Pattaya, that’s not a secret — it’s a walking red flag. Follow Pattaya Unfiltered #farang #walkingstreetpattaya #bargirl #pattayalife #pattayanightlife #pattayabars #Pattaya #Pattayathailand #ThailandLifeshow more

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We are supposed to validate her and affirm that she is a woman. If you see her in the Ladies room, give her a warm welcome.

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This chick is doing her best to explain an important phenomenon to men. Unfortunately she is using 2020s chick-speak about ‘boundaries’ and ‘respecting yourself’ and other such buzzwords, which make the message nigh incomprehensible. So here is how I would put it to you, as a man: ➡️ No girl wants to be with a dude who is going to make pleasing her his life mission. The behavior screams ‘simp’ and makes her feel like you are beneath her, which makes her not want you. No chick wants to be with a man who is beneath her. ➡️ No girl wants to be with a dude who will let her run all over him in conversation, talking about things that he doesn’t want to hear about, controlling the flow of the conversation. That screams ‘weak dude’, who is either afraid to take control or does not know how. What should you do instead? ✅ If you are hooking up with a girl and she says, “I’m not looking for a relationship right now,” you say, “AWESOME. ME TOO.” And now all of a sudden she is confused and beguiled because you are not chasing her for the relationship. Why aren’t you chasing her for the relationship? Do you not WANT her? It will drive her crazy, she will start thinking about it over and over again, and she will desperately work to try to get you to want the relationship with her. If you keep just banging her while acting like you don’t care, eventually she will want the relationship with you so bad herself it will drive her crazy. ✅ If you are talking to a girl and she is talking about some other dude she was dating, then unless you are actually curious about that (and if she is a girl you are sleeping with, it is worth getting to know some about her prior relationships… you will learn her behavior patterns, why she broke up with exes, plus any obvious red flags that can let you hit the eject button before you get in too deep), all you have to say to get off that topic is, “Yeah, that’s cool and all,” and act really bored and start looking around. (If she can’t take a hint then you just tell her, “Don’t you have a girlfriend or someone you can tell this to?”) The basic frame is “I’M JUST HERE TO BANG YOU AND HAVE FUN.” It doesn’t matter if you secretly want marriage with her and 15 babies. You want to let HER chase the relationship and fall into YOUR frame. If she starts going off on conversation you don’t want to hear about, act bored or change the topic. If she starts trying to say she doesn’t want a relationship, get out ahead of that frame and own it yourself (“Me neither, we’re in accord”). Women want your attention. Women who are sleeping with you IN PARTICULAR want it. If she feels she is losing your attention, that your interest in or commitment to her is waning, it will cause her to go nuts trying to get it back. And, in so doing, she becomes more invested, and falls in love. The peculiar ways of women!

This chick is doing her best to explain an important phenomenon to men. Unfortunately she is using 2020s chick-speak about ‘boundaries’ and ‘respecting yourself’ and other such buzzwords, which make the message nigh incomprehensible. So here is how I would put it to you, as a man: ➡️ No girl wants to be with a dude who is going to make pleasing her his life mission. The behavior screams ‘simp’ and makes her feel like you are beneath her, which makes her not want you. No chick wants to be with a man who is beneath her. ➡️ No girl wants to be with a dude who will let her run all over him in conversation, talking about things that he doesn’t want to hear about, controlling the flow of the conversation. That screams ‘weak dude’, who is either afraid to take control or does not know how. What should you do instead? ✅ If you are hooking up with a girl and she says, “I’m not looking for a relationship right now,” you say, “AWESOME. ME TOO.” And now all of a sudden she is confused and beguiled because you are not chasing her for the relationship. Why aren’t you chasing her for the relationship? Do you not WANT her? It will drive her crazy, she will start thinking about it over and over again, and she will desperately work to try to get you to want the relationship with her. If you keep just banging her while acting like you don’t care, eventually she will want the relationship with you so bad herself it will drive her crazy. ✅ If you are talking to a girl and she is talking about some other dude she was dating, then unless you are actually curious about that (and if she is a girl you are sleeping with, it is worth getting to know some about her prior relationships… you will learn her behavior patterns, why she broke up with exes, plus any obvious red flags that can let you hit the eject button before you get in too deep), all you have to say to get off that topic is, “Yeah, that’s cool and all,” and act really bored and start looking around. (If she can’t take a hint then you just tell her, “Don’t you have a girlfriend or someone you can tell this to?”) The basic frame is “I’M JUST HERE TO BANG YOU AND HAVE FUN.” It doesn’t matter if you secretly want marriage with her and 15 babies. You want to let HER chase the relationship and fall into YOUR frame. If she starts going off on conversation you don’t want to hear about, act bored or change the topic. If she starts trying to say she doesn’t want a relationship, get out ahead of that frame and own it yourself (“Me neither, we’re in accord”). Women want your attention. Women who are sleeping with you IN PARTICULAR want it. If she feels she is losing your attention, that your interest in or commitment to her is waning, it will cause her to go nuts trying to get it back. And, in so doing, she becomes more invested, and falls in love. The peculiar ways of women!

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According to Zulu tradition, when a woman passes away and she is an adult (over the age of 21), she is not buried at her father's family home, but rather at the place where she got married (her husband's family home). If she is unmarried, she is buried far away from the graves of her family members. A woman must marry in Zulu culture because if she does not marry, many bad things will happen to her. You will be treated like a girl even when you are 45 or 50 years old.

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You go to visit your grandmother in the hospital and she’s got a shared room. The other woman in the shared room keeps throwing the curtains at you. Whether it’s funny or not it begs the question why hospitals make you share a room at all. Would you want to deal with that and have you had similar things happen.

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Woman in her 30s and not married is a red flag. As a man, it’s not advisable to settle down with a woman in her 30s. Ask yourself, when she was in her prime, why didn’t she settle down? For you to get that kind of woman, it usually means you’re with someone who is heartbroken or someone many others have been with before. The pain is still inside her, so she might vent everything on you. I’m 31, and I can’t marry girls at 30 when there are 18, 19, 20 year olds.” — GehGeh

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FREE TRIAL EXPIRED: The Cost of Breaking Up in Pattaya One of our readers recently shared a story of a successful transition from the "industry" into Pattaya's "civilian life." The setup is a classic one: he lived with an ex-bargirl for two months. However, after landing a job at a real estate agency, he met a colleague and decided to change his course. The most fascinating part of this story is the exit process itself. When he announced the breakup, the girl didn't process it as the end of a romance. She saw it as a breach of an unspoken contract. She started screaming and demanding money, explicitly stating that he had "used her for free" for the past two months. For him, it was just a failed relationship that didn't work out. For her, it was a loss of commercial revenue and wasted time. It’s a perfect case study of two entirely different worldviews colliding in the exact same city. Today, he’s living with his new office girlfriend, enjoying the peace and a completely different relationship dynamic—one where his mere presence doesn't come with an invoice. We can only be happy for a guy who found his comfortable scenario and managed to unplug from the matrix with minimal casualties. Follow Pattaya Unfiltered #farang #walkingstreetpattaya #bargirl #pattayalife #pattayanightlife #pattayabars #Pattaya #Pattayathailand #ThailandLife

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Pattaya Unfiltered

94,187 views • 1 month ago

Most guys do not realize how dirty, naughty, and sexual women are. The average woman is way dirtier than the average man. I don’t think I’ve ever met a woman who wasn’t turned on by public sex, for example. Very few men are as into it as women are. As a guy, when you’re about to get it on with a girl in public, she’s there moaning, telling you to “put it in”; meanwhile you are looking around to check if anyone else is nearby while positioning her in this uncomfortable public position in the dirt, in the cold, and telling her “all right, hold on, I’m working on it, let me just get it up here, give me a second, sheesh!” If you read a woman’s romance novel, there is so much ink spilled on teasing, build up, this sex act, that sex act, the other sex act, that it’s basically unreadable if you are a guy. As a guy, you just wanna get your hot dog in her hot dog bun. But women want to do all KINDS of stuff. There’s a million things sexually these girls want to do. So why aren’t girls jumping at the chance to go to bed with every guy they meet? ✅ She needs to TRUST a guy first. Trust that she is safe with him. Trust that he will not judge her. Trust that it won’t affect her reputation. Many men aren’t good at building trust. Trust is KEY. ✅ She needs some degree of attraction to the guy. Not NEARLY as much as most guys think. She does NOT need to be wild with desire for you to sleep with you. It is even possible to sleep with women who really are not attracted to you at all, but who are just bored (and horny) and you did the moves right. (Or, bonus round, you just offered her an experience she has always fantasized about, so even if you are not her dream guy, she nevertheless says fine, let’s do it.) ✅ She needs to be aroused. You know the whole “women’s arousal is like a dimmer” thing… it’s accurate. You need to ramp her arousal up with touch, teasing, flirtation, innuendo, sex talk, etc. ✅ She needs to be ALONE with you. If she trusts you enough, you can get her alone with you. Once she’s alone with you, if there is trust there, and there’s arousal, and maybe a bit of attraction, you will get her clothes off. Yes… even if she is a ‘good’ girl. ‘Good’ girls did not manage to pass down their genes by hating sex (they are just a bit more selective about the men they have it with, is all. They need more TRUST!). Also: don’t be UNNERVED by female sexuality. Every girl has a tigress inside her waiting for the right guy to unleash it… a guy who makes her trust him, arouses her, gets her alone with him, and maybe creates some attraction with her. Women’s romance novels are ALL about this. Women’s romances in real life are as well. In fact, in real life, women often settle for far less ideal situations: men they don’t completely trust, aren’t that attracted to, are only partway aroused by, who get them alone somewhere. The better a job you can do approaching her sexual “Platonic ideal”, the more reliably you can bring out that sexual tigress lurking inside of EVERY woman (even the ‘good’ girls).

Most guys do not realize how dirty, naughty, and sexual women are. The average woman is way dirtier than the average man. I don’t think I’ve ever met a woman who wasn’t turned on by public sex, for example. Very few men are as into it as women are. As a guy, when you’re about to get it on with a girl in public, she’s there moaning, telling you to “put it in”; meanwhile you are looking around to check if anyone else is nearby while positioning her in this uncomfortable public position in the dirt, in the cold, and telling her “all right, hold on, I’m working on it, let me just get it up here, give me a second, sheesh!” If you read a woman’s romance novel, there is so much ink spilled on teasing, build up, this sex act, that sex act, the other sex act, that it’s basically unreadable if you are a guy. As a guy, you just wanna get your hot dog in her hot dog bun. But women want to do all KINDS of stuff. There’s a million things sexually these girls want to do. So why aren’t girls jumping at the chance to go to bed with every guy they meet? ✅ She needs to TRUST a guy first. Trust that she is safe with him. Trust that he will not judge her. Trust that it won’t affect her reputation. Many men aren’t good at building trust. Trust is KEY. ✅ She needs some degree of attraction to the guy. Not NEARLY as much as most guys think. She does NOT need to be wild with desire for you to sleep with you. It is even possible to sleep with women who really are not attracted to you at all, but who are just bored (and horny) and you did the moves right. (Or, bonus round, you just offered her an experience she has always fantasized about, so even if you are not her dream guy, she nevertheless says fine, let’s do it.) ✅ She needs to be aroused. You know the whole “women’s arousal is like a dimmer” thing… it’s accurate. You need to ramp her arousal up with touch, teasing, flirtation, innuendo, sex talk, etc. ✅ She needs to be ALONE with you. If she trusts you enough, you can get her alone with you. Once she’s alone with you, if there is trust there, and there’s arousal, and maybe a bit of attraction, you will get her clothes off. Yes… even if she is a ‘good’ girl. ‘Good’ girls did not manage to pass down their genes by hating sex (they are just a bit more selective about the men they have it with, is all. They need more TRUST!). Also: don’t be UNNERVED by female sexuality. Every girl has a tigress inside her waiting for the right guy to unleash it… a guy who makes her trust him, arouses her, gets her alone with him, and maybe creates some attraction with her. Women’s romance novels are ALL about this. Women’s romances in real life are as well. In fact, in real life, women often settle for far less ideal situations: men they don’t completely trust, aren’t that attracted to, are only partway aroused by, who get them alone somewhere. The better a job you can do approaching her sexual “Platonic ideal”, the more reliably you can bring out that sexual tigress lurking inside of EVERY woman (even the ‘good’ girls).

Girls Chase 🏃‍♀️💨

34,136 views • 8 months ago

You’re set up on a blind date by a friend. The date goes really well, great conversation, vibes are high, attraction is there, so you go back to their place. During the tour, they show you their “playroom”, except it’s not what you expected. 😳 Is a room like this a dealbreaker?

You’re set up on a blind date by a friend. The date goes really well, great conversation, vibes are high, attraction is there, so you go back to their place. During the tour, they show you their “playroom”, except it’s not what you expected. 😳 Is a room like this a dealbreaker?

Blonde of War (JJ)

11,837 views • 2 months ago

This tiny New York City apartment, 80 x 150, goes for $650 a month! 🤯 She has no oven and her bed is up a ladder and there is about two to three feet of space from the bed to the ceiling. Her bathroom is actually outside the apartment down the hall. She has to walk past her neighbors to get to it. She goes up on the roof outside to get some space, do some work and maybe a little yoga. But get this, she has a dog! She said she sometimes leaves the dog in the apartment or she takes him to daycare. 🤔 I could not live like that. I could not sleep like that and I could not shower like that. And, I could not have a dog in such a small space. Many, many people said that she should not have a dog and should not be allowed to have a dog in such a tiny apartment. Do you think it is cruel to have the dog with her? Or , do you think that if the dog is getting love and fed, cares for and taken out, that’s her business? Have you ever seen a smaller apartment than this? Could you ever live like this?

This tiny New York City apartment, 80 x 150, goes for $650 a month! 🤯 She has no oven and her bed is up a ladder and there is about two to three feet of space from the bed to the ceiling. Her bathroom is actually outside the apartment down the hall. She has to walk past her neighbors to get to it. She goes up on the roof outside to get some space, do some work and maybe a little yoga. But get this, she has a dog! She said she sometimes leaves the dog in the apartment or she takes him to daycare. 🤔 I could not live like that. I could not sleep like that and I could not shower like that. And, I could not have a dog in such a small space. Many, many people said that she should not have a dog and should not be allowed to have a dog in such a tiny apartment. Do you think it is cruel to have the dog with her? Or , do you think that if the dog is getting love and fed, cares for and taken out, that’s her business? Have you ever seen a smaller apartment than this? Could you ever live like this?

👉M-Û-R-Č-H👈

1,863,158 views • 3 months ago

Cops have to leave the room to avoid laughing, upon listening to a woman share the reason her boyfriend told her that he was only able to contact her via WhatsApp. She says it’s because they entered into a long distance relationship upon him moving “overseas to Connecticut”. Do You Think She Knows Connecticut Is A State, Not Overseas?

Cops have to leave the room to avoid laughing, upon listening to a woman share the reason her boyfriend told her that he was only able to contact her via WhatsApp. She says it’s because they entered into a long distance relationship upon him moving “overseas to Connecticut”. Do You Think She Knows Connecticut Is A State, Not Overseas?

Harri

39,785 views • 4 months ago