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THE CONDITIONAL PRIVACY: WHY YOUR SECRETS ARE A RED FLAG A subscriber recently pointed out a massive double standard on Pattaya dating apps: Girls will refuse to meet at their place, but if you say you don't have a room either, they instantly interrogate you. "Do you have a...

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THE INVISIBLE WOMAN: PATTAYA’S GREATEST PARADOX We received a message from a 33-year-old Thai woman living in Pattaya: "I am not a bar girl. I have a normal job. I want to build a future. Why do foreigners ignore women like me, but easily give all their money to girls who lie, cheat, and use them? Why are you so stupid when you want to seem smart?" It is the ultimate foreigners hypocrisy. Western men write endless complaints online about how they just want to find a "good, honest, traditional woman." Yet, when Friday night hits, they walk right past the hardworking bank teller and the office worker. Instead, they march straight into the neon grid and throw their life savings at girls who view them entirely as walking ATMs. Most of these foreigners don't actually want a real relationship. Real relationships require compromise, mutual effort, and boring Tuesday evenings. A normal, self-sufficient woman won't stroke a 55-year-old man's ego and treat him like a superhero just because he bought her dinner. The Farang doesn't want peace. He is addicted to the performance, the drama, and the toxic rollercoaster of the nightlife matrix. The normal Thai woman isn't invisible because she isn't good enough. She is invisible because she is offering a quiet reality to men who flew across the world specifically to buy an illusion. (The full psychological deep-dive drops tomorrow). Follow Pattaya Unfiltered #farang #walkingstreetpattaya #bargirl #pattayalife #pattayanightlife #pattayabars #Pattaya #Pattayathailand #ThailandLife

Pattaya Unfiltered

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This chick is doing her best to explain an important phenomenon to men. Unfortunately she is using 2020s chick-speak about ‘boundaries’ and ‘respecting yourself’ and other such buzzwords, which make the message nigh incomprehensible. So here is how I would put it to you, as a man: ➡️ No girl wants to be with a dude who is going to make pleasing her his life mission. The behavior screams ‘simp’ and makes her feel like you are beneath her, which makes her not want you. No chick wants to be with a man who is beneath her. ➡️ No girl wants to be with a dude who will let her run all over him in conversation, talking about things that he doesn’t want to hear about, controlling the flow of the conversation. That screams ‘weak dude’, who is either afraid to take control or does not know how. What should you do instead? ✅ If you are hooking up with a girl and she says, “I’m not looking for a relationship right now,” you say, “AWESOME. ME TOO.” And now all of a sudden she is confused and beguiled because you are not chasing her for the relationship. Why aren’t you chasing her for the relationship? Do you not WANT her? It will drive her crazy, she will start thinking about it over and over again, and she will desperately work to try to get you to want the relationship with her. If you keep just banging her while acting like you don’t care, eventually she will want the relationship with you so bad herself it will drive her crazy. ✅ If you are talking to a girl and she is talking about some other dude she was dating, then unless you are actually curious about that (and if she is a girl you are sleeping with, it is worth getting to know some about her prior relationships… you will learn her behavior patterns, why she broke up with exes, plus any obvious red flags that can let you hit the eject button before you get in too deep), all you have to say to get off that topic is, “Yeah, that’s cool and all,” and act really bored and start looking around. (If she can’t take a hint then you just tell her, “Don’t you have a girlfriend or someone you can tell this to?”) The basic frame is “I’M JUST HERE TO BANG YOU AND HAVE FUN.” It doesn’t matter if you secretly want marriage with her and 15 babies. You want to let HER chase the relationship and fall into YOUR frame. If she starts going off on conversation you don’t want to hear about, act bored or change the topic. If she starts trying to say she doesn’t want a relationship, get out ahead of that frame and own it yourself (“Me neither, we’re in accord”). Women want your attention. Women who are sleeping with you IN PARTICULAR want it. If she feels she is losing your attention, that your interest in or commitment to her is waning, it will cause her to go nuts trying to get it back. And, in so doing, she becomes more invested, and falls in love. The peculiar ways of women!

Girls Chase 🏃‍♀️💨

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Most guys do not realize how dirty, naughty, and sexual women are. The average woman is way dirtier than the average man. I don’t think I’ve ever met a woman who wasn’t turned on by public sex, for example. Very few men are as into it as women are. As a guy, when you’re about to get it on with a girl in public, she’s there moaning, telling you to “put it in”; meanwhile you are looking around to check if anyone else is nearby while positioning her in this uncomfortable public position in the dirt, in the cold, and telling her “all right, hold on, I’m working on it, let me just get it up here, give me a second, sheesh!” If you read a woman’s romance novel, there is so much ink spilled on teasing, build up, this sex act, that sex act, the other sex act, that it’s basically unreadable if you are a guy. As a guy, you just wanna get your hot dog in her hot dog bun. But women want to do all KINDS of stuff. There’s a million things sexually these girls want to do. So why aren’t girls jumping at the chance to go to bed with every guy they meet? ✅ She needs to TRUST a guy first. Trust that she is safe with him. Trust that he will not judge her. Trust that it won’t affect her reputation. Many men aren’t good at building trust. Trust is KEY. ✅ She needs some degree of attraction to the guy. Not NEARLY as much as most guys think. She does NOT need to be wild with desire for you to sleep with you. It is even possible to sleep with women who really are not attracted to you at all, but who are just bored (and horny) and you did the moves right. (Or, bonus round, you just offered her an experience she has always fantasized about, so even if you are not her dream guy, she nevertheless says fine, let’s do it.) ✅ She needs to be aroused. You know the whole “women’s arousal is like a dimmer” thing… it’s accurate. You need to ramp her arousal up with touch, teasing, flirtation, innuendo, sex talk, etc. ✅ She needs to be ALONE with you. If she trusts you enough, you can get her alone with you. Once she’s alone with you, if there is trust there, and there’s arousal, and maybe a bit of attraction, you will get her clothes off. Yes… even if she is a ‘good’ girl. ‘Good’ girls did not manage to pass down their genes by hating sex (they are just a bit more selective about the men they have it with, is all. They need more TRUST!). Also: don’t be UNNERVED by female sexuality. Every girl has a tigress inside her waiting for the right guy to unleash it… a guy who makes her trust him, arouses her, gets her alone with him, and maybe creates some attraction with her. Women’s romance novels are ALL about this. Women’s romances in real life are as well. In fact, in real life, women often settle for far less ideal situations: men they don’t completely trust, aren’t that attracted to, are only partway aroused by, who get them alone somewhere. The better a job you can do approaching her sexual “Platonic ideal”, the more reliably you can bring out that sexual tigress lurking inside of EVERY woman (even the ‘good’ girls).

Girls Chase 🏃‍♀️💨

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