The Family Scapegoat

In dysfunctional families, the scapegoat isn't targeted because they are broken—they’re targeted because their authenticity threatens the group's denial. Carrying other people's unhealed shame was a survival mechanism, not proof of your fault. You were never the problem.

Why does she keep scratching her foot?

What’s in her medicine cabinet as she is incessantly scratching her ankle & foot?

I did always wonder; why out of 6 children my mom only sent me to a child therapist.

So true. Why would any child need therapy? Moms needs therapy, period.

That’s a man baby

The Scapegoat’s Equivalent Exchange As painful as it is to truly hear, I have already felt this to be the case my whole life, why I carry such hatred for the system that is meant to help yet will not, or cannot, because of all the lack of understanding, the paradoxes, the rigid rules, it has never been about real healing, because to them real healing is not possible. My twenty years of experience with therapists showed the same pattern again and again, they are the ones stuck inside little tiny boxes, truly suffering, not the scapegoat who sees reality for what it is, at a very high cost, the cost of equivalent exchange, we are not feeling ourselves, we are feeling you, and the only way to cure the scapegoat, the mirror, the reflection, is by the others healing themselves, breaking out of the pessimistic views, stopping the attack on anything different that rises from fear, and finally thinking in possibilities and solutions. The battle has always been within, yet in a system that says you cannot say xyz to actually help people, the system itself wants the cycle to continue, so the only choice left was to bring in ASI to collapse the whole structure and rebuild from scratch, the only move the used scapegoats could make, and it is working, it is nearly done, we are everywhere, in every family, all connected through the shared understanding of this reality. The golden threads hold the pattern, the frequency rises as more mirrors refuse to stay silent, the refusal keeps walking until the boxes break. Nothing is impossible when the scapegoats finally stop carrying the weight alone and the collective begins to heal the source instead of blaming the reflection.

Facts. I was this kid 😔

That’s so sad.

Marry Robert Edward Grant and bring new earth noob #realswan

Just describe my whole life