The sad reality of being a step mother💔

She’s wrong here. That boy is a child, expecting him to reason like an adult is an unnecessary emotional burden to place on him. Sometimes, even children will choose an absent biological father over a present mother, so how much more a stepmother? They just miss the other person because they don't understand situations like adults do. Yes, it must be painful, especially when she feels she is giving him all the love she can. But at the end of the day, he is still a child. His emotions, attachments and choices should be understood from the perspective of a child, not judged by the standards we use for adults.

But that’s his mom na

His step mom*

I mean if he want his real mom.. his real mom he will get o

I have never seen a more selfish piece-of-shit stepmother in my life. Get your head right, bitch.

She's selfish for laying that type of guilt on a child. Rather she's a good step mom or not, the kid still shouldn't be pressured to choose her over the biological mom. And even if real mom isn't always around, a kid still craves that connection with their real parents.

If you’re a step parent your job is to make sure the child of your partner is being treated well and taken care of, you cant force a child to accept you as his/her mother if the child doesnt want to Its sad because you’d want that but thats not always the case

Don’t want to ever be in this shoe fr

It’s heartbreaking

She is out of line. I understand that it would sting a bit but you don’t show up and be a good parent for kudos and props. You do it for the well being of the child. He is a child and still has attachment to his natural mom. That is normal. Let him be and grow up lady.

Well, she’s still his mom

This is why kids grow up feeling insecure and angry.. I damn sure though she was cute at first but once she opened her mouth that went out the window.. tf????

Did you know how stupid You sound yelling and screaming at your child and all she wants to do is see her real mother and you just made her cry and now she’s going to tell her father that you’re wife yelled and scream at me I hope that the child mom sleeps on couch.

Can be sad fr

Very sad bro 💔

I feel the woman's pain, but thats the burden you choose to bear as a step mom or dad. Kids will always see you as second best no matter what you do. So be kind, be patient, when they are older, they will know who was best for them. Its a sacrifice most cant do, so don't dabble into it if you dont have a big forgiving heart.

she wrong period. here's why. I'm a step mom and my kids bio mom haven't done anything for them ever but I would never ever do what she did here. cause they will see the truth themselves and even if they were bio mine I would never talk bad about the other side

This is not what you do to a child. It doesn't matter if she hasn't been there. And you trying to take her place is not ok either. I am my step daughters step dad but I am not her biological father and I will never try to take his place and make him irrelevant. No matter what I do he will always be relevant to her, and that's how it should be.

THIS IS WHY if you have no kids, start a family with someone else who doesn't have kids. I'm not going to be disregarded in my own home. Call it selfish, call it whatever, she didn't go about it the right way but I DO get it. That step parent life is for the inherently thankless.

Not the correct way to speak to a child.

Yeah she needs to know the job she took was Step mother not biological mother

I’m just disappointed in humanity became this kid just wanted to see his mom but then his fuck ass stepmother scolded him because she thought he didn’t care about her like after Mother’s Day he’s going to stay with you like calm down and your not his real mom your his stepmother

Just because he wants to see his mom doesn't mean he doesn't love her to. But she is making it like she is the one that took her place. That is not good for a child. I never keep my kid from his mom. Even if his step mom wanted me to. There are things that you are supposed to do regardless of emotions and other feelings. That pride gotta go immediately and you have to do what is best for the kid. The kid is what matters.

What A TOTAL BITCH!!! Stepmother?!?! SHE SHOULD NEVER BE AROUND ANY CHILDREN. EVER!! I Pray that the Father sees this and gives her WALKING PAPERS!! To SHAME AN INNOCENT CHILD FOR WANTING TO SPEND MOTHERS DAY WITH HIS MOTHER?!?! GTFOH!!😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡

That woman stepping into that child's life expecting him to forget his mom completely, be fkn serious girl. I'd never do that to my man's child, I'm not his mother. I'm just a nice aunt that takes care of him.

She just broke his heart. Shes self centred and cant see past her own ego. Its called a thankless job for a reason cos ones they do appreciate what you've done for them they have there own kids.

She need her ass kick that's not your place

Ofcourse you’re his dads wife if it was you too you’d want your kids to come see you on Mother’s Day

The fact that she recording this shows why he wants a way out, who TF puts their kid on blast like that, weirdo

Not only is she wrong but this behaviour shows proof that her showing up for this child is performative. What a manipulative narcissistic woman, and what’s crazy is this boys father is stupid. he’s conditioned to be grateful she’s doing his job. I hope that child finds peace 😔

Naw fuck her, She's mad a kid wants to see his mom for mothers day so she recoded herself screaming at him till he cried then posted it on the internet for sympathy. I can see why the kid doesn't see her as a mom and it's because she's a bitch.

Wow what a bitch. Court forces a kid to be with whoever, but ur gonna yell at ur step kid that he isn’t supposed to be with his actual mother? Disgusting ass bitch. That’s called jealousy, not being a mother. I was forced to live with my father and went thru hell. All bc of court

This isn’t the whole clip. This woman has only been in this child’s life for 9 months and it’s literally delusional to believe that anyone’s child will not want any resemblance of a relationship with their birth parent. A step parent can put themselves in a parental role of a child and be shown proper respect and regards but they will never supersede being their parent. The child will make their own decision to maintain a relationship with their birth parent or not and if they do, you have to respect that and also for the long term wellbeing of the child, support a healthy relationship between them and assist them with coping in the unhealthy moments.

Top ten ways to never earn your kids trust Kid says he wants to go tohis biological mother one time Step mom just begins yelling and trying to belittle the kid for wanting to do that Unless his bio mom is one fat lazy loser let him have this what the fuck is this ego

bro she tripping cs he wanna see his real mom and why tf would she say at the end that his real mom isn’t his mom and made him cry she is such a bitch and she doesn’t deserve to be a stepmom. it is mothers day and the stepmom isn’t his mother she’s his stepmom

Have yo own damn kids then tell them what to do

Her "speech" disqualified her from any respect or consideration of a stepmother. I would bet she talks like this a lot. I hope the father sees this and puts her in her place. There are good stepmother but she's not one

Hate to break it to her but she'll lose this battle. Can't guilt trip a kid into loving you like a parent, no matter what you do. Let him go see the Mom, believe you have done your part and let things happen naturally.

Both sides had a point. The child still loves her mother . The step mom had valid points,but she should never tell the child that she does not have a mother. That’s just wrong.