The worst nightmare.

I hope you know you’re so beautiful and you’re doing the right thing. You will be surprised how things will come together for you when you take a chance on yourself.

He's still talking to her! You've answered your own question. I know it's hard but it's time to move on.

He was still talking to her in July he didn’t repent.

Don’t move out! See a lawyer and get your financial ducks in a row! Then cut the cord!

I went apartment hunting, for him. Picked out an apartment, wrote a deposit check, and sent him there to sign the lease. The lady thought I was crazy. She found out I wasn’t. Don’t leave the house with those kids. Make him leave. He has an air mattress. He’ll be fine.

FOLLOW GOD, 1st !! Don’t look back, he made the choice for you. Yes, never go back! Learn to be friends, & the children will always will be the priority. That doesn’t mean that you have to suffer. You be you & let him be him, that doesn’t mean you don’t love him. That means you think enough about yourself to move on. You r not a comfort for him. Always follow your intuition. You r beautiful & you deserve it all!! Don’t settle!! GET the book Women who love to much. It’s a good read!! God bless and if you’re not right the kids will not be alright. Get the place and begin the life you deserve. You love him, but deep down you can never trust him. Besides what if he brings you something you can never get rid of.

Stay in ur house so it does not interrupt the kids schedules. Make him leave!!

Really hate that you posted this woman’s personal story from TikTok on here for engagement, but didn’t even give her TikTok handle so that people could engage with her directly. It’s very evil.

Leave, he will never change

1995 happened to me after 22 years. YOU stay in house. Sue for alimony and child support to help with house payments. Get a quit deed transfer. Best decision i ever made and I had to find a job. You are already employed. Married now since 1998 to the love of my life.

Always a cheater, leave start your own account, deposit your paychecks into it minus your part of the bills, get a good attorney.

If a man cheats once he will again, I have never cheated on anybody only been cheated on. I’m sorry he ruined what you have, but take that and make something beautiful for you and your children!

As a man who’s gone through a similar situation I took her back more than once and she cheated again. You will always suffer the trauma behind being cheated on even if you move on with your life it’s hard to trust someone new. There isn’t a right or wrong answer.

This sucks but it’s best to leave. That sick feeling will never go away and you’ll resent yourself for staying and feel that you’ve wasted your time staying. I’ve been there. Some people are just shitty. Lean on your family and friends right now.

Man,that stinks. I’ve never regretted giving anyone a second chance but the third chance is insane. You are too good for this,we all are. Get a good lawyer. No,get a great lawyer. Good luck. He’s a loser.

Lmao the dude wants the family life with the wife and kids while also porking his mistress at the same time. Should go to court and take him to the cleaners.

He, my husband, was cheating while I was pregnant with our son. He finally confessed at my 7th month point. I was crushed, but I was done. I forgave him because I’m not carrying around that anger and hurt all my life and because God says we need to forgive, but I never trusted him again. At first it’s incredibly hard, so it’s okay to cry. REMEMBER, you are teaching your children what is and isn’t acceptable in a marriage. You are teaching them how to adult and what type of person to choose for a relationship. Sounds like your spouse lied, connived, cheated on you: meaning he took what is the most physically intimate moments in marriage and gave them to someone outside your marriage. He brought someone else into your marriage, your bed, without your knowledge or consent.

My husband cheated. He might again. It is not what I thought I was creating when I married him. I Will never give him my heart again. My heart belongs to me. If he cheats he is a cheater and my respect for him is gone. A second chance is always my way. I will always have a plan B. from now on. I will know when it is time to leave. I still love him but now I know him better and I can not live with a habitual cheater.

Once a cheater always a cheater. You and your boys deserve better ❤️

Their marriage is broken. Too damaged to repair because he kept right on cheating. I don’t see how she can continue in it under the circumstances. She’s a really nice lady, and I hope that whatever she chooses to do will be the right thing for her.

Don't see why you & your boys should move out the family home... It will be too disruptive for your kids. You have evidence of his infidelity so kick him out. Take him to the cleaners. Make him beg for your forgiveness. He needs to work very hard to earn back your devotion.

I didn’t give him a second chance to hurt me. He cheated after 21 years. This isn’t baseball, you don’t get three strikes. You get one and you’re out!

Don't believe him, any man that can do this and not own up to it as his own fault will never change..move on find a man that will know your value..It starts with you knowing your value and living yourself first.

Cows are around $90.00 a pound these days, don’t forget that in the divorce process.

Look, cheating is not about you, its weakness in the cheater. And, no, once a cheater is bulkshit. If one cheats & does not do the work, then cheating will continue. But, he’s a liar & has not done the work. So, sad to say, you will never forget & unlikely to forgive.

I’m so sorry this happened to you. Once a cheater always a cheater. Don’t leave your house!! Make him leave. There is life after betrayal just not with him. It takes some time but you’ll be happy you left. You deserve the very best! Take care of the boys and YOU! God bless. 🙏🏻

You will always love him. It's a matter of physical hygiene safety. The glass has been broken and things will never be the same. He is still talking to her. It's hard to envision right now, but you will be happy as a single mom. You have many happy years ahead of you. He is to be pitied, and you will pity him at some point, when you are healed. The Lord will heal you, count on that.

So sorry, but the very second he broke your trust , your vows & the sanctity of marriage it was over. HE WILL NEVER CHANGE . It WILL happen over & over & over again. Do not stay , it is unfixable & the sooner you accept this the faster you’ll heal.

He moves out not you! Then HE can spend time to repair this damage

Wait she said she’s reading a letter but then says she hangs up the phone. 🤔

I’m 64 years old I stayed after my husband cheated more than once but only admitted to one 8 years into our marriage It was hard but I stayed 31 years worth… he passed away 14 years ago and no I would not have stayed with him if I had it all to do over again!

Contact a lawyer for guidance. Leaving your home could have serious financial consequences, and also emotional repercussions for your children. A trial separation, with him moving out and you both going for counseling, might give you more clarity if the marriage is salvageable.

So posting this out to the whole world while you’re supposedly trying to work, it out is not a subconscious sabotage? People know who you are clearly some people so they know who he is and you just outed him which what he did is horrible. I understand it happened to me so I know, but to say you’re trying to work it out and then post this to the world does that not seem contradictory to you?

Leaving him will send your sons a powerful and positive message that cheating men don’t get a free pass.