There’s a lot to unpack here

It is one thing to train children. It is another thing for them to accept the training

Yea

This is pretty much 🥺. Parenting is a course that one cannot predict how successful it's going to be.

Honestly

Suffice to say “Olorun lo nbani to omo”

Beeni

While his father was toiling to make his future bright, he was toiling to frustrate that man. That future has arrived, he's still an apology. I hope he understands now.

I don’t think he understands anything yet

I just pity for the father, a son that's supposed to be your strength at old age is yet to crawl.

And this happens till date

May we not labour for such useless children.

I am just thinking bout the two staffs that was sacked.

And the guy that was killed

Yahoo took so many brights minds from being actually productive. One day we will have this conversation.

I think everyone here don’t get that his father had forgiving him for theft The accident was what finally changed his trajectory totally

After serving time? He said they used all the connections. After that, why did he go outside?

Yeah. He mentioned why. Spent 3 years. His mate at Babcock had graduated… the omes studying law were already in 500L… Don’t forget he had wasted like 3 years earlier I felt he just couldn’t handle the disgrace and still took another wrong step I wish him the best

@TheQueenAminat It's ok to get lost on the journey of life. One thing is to learn the lessons, another is to retrace ur steps. Despite what he went through, "disgrace" is his problem- What will his mates say? Ran away from the one person who cares to help. It is an individual journey.

@TheQueenAminat Your view

This is why it is always wrong to blame the misfortunes of children on their parents sometimes. Most of the time our personal actions are the result of our inability to achieve some things. The father did all he could but he made sure to work against his father at every opportunity.

Tbh! I don’t think he’s learnt his lessons.

That’s my sentiments too

This is touching, i hope he finds his way back home to his parents. That’s the only way he can unlock his blessings.

I hope so

You see friends… friends… friends… as parents, examine your children’s friends with all diligence; if you look closely, you’ll find that everything begins with the company they keep.

Sometimes parenting scares the hell out of me. At the end of the day, may our children not be the weapon fashion against us. The man tried his best for him but see how he ended up

Omo, this is sorry is touching , but there are many questions to be asked , I pray he find a way back to his family and make learn from his past and mistakes

That’s why I said it’s a lot to unpack

Running away from home will not solve his problem ... He should have just go home , bcos staying in Lagos is like looking for another problem again all over

@TheQueenAminat Nothing like family

A prodigal son that needs to find his way home. His father will accept him and be willing to help him change his stories as always. No father will want his son to end this way. I'm really sorry for the troubled father.

I realize the individual may never come across this message, but I feel compelled to share my thoughts. My advice would be for him to return home. Sometimes, it's essential to address issues at their source and rebuild on a solid foundation. He might believe that staying out here until he succeeds is the answer, but what are the odds of achieving that without resorting to illegal activities? If I were to predict his future, it doesn't seem promising unless he chooses to go back home and start fresh. Just think about it, if he hasn't heard from his parents in ages, what if he continues to wait and finds that they are no longer around when he finally decides to return?

Pray you don’t end up with the wrong set of people at the growing phase of your life, because no matter how much you want to try you will definitely regret some decisions

All these Nepo baby too do,most of us wey be lapo baby see ourselves through higher institutions

The one who has head didn't have cap and the one who cap didn't have head. He has learnt the lesson in hard way, but I don't think he's ready to change with the way he talks.

One thing I’ve realized is that you can give your kids the best training and upbringing to ever exist and they’ll still turn out like this. Once the child can decide to either take the training and live a decent life or ignore the training and be a nonentity. The responsibility to be a better person rests on the shoulders of the child, not the parent but the parent has to play their own part.

Yahoo yahoo is online robbery and real life effects of it on victims cannot be fully expressed nor understood. Now a curse is operating in his life, the negative impact of destroying people’s life to build yours is affecting him now. Every action gives birth to a reaction!

There is one video of @FemiLazarus_ I watched talking about children,teenagers, growing up,a scenario like this and Grace. It's only GOD who can help.... even a disciplined disciplinarians can be disgraced when they realized they "ve been raising an undisciplined wards.

This guy is still around his mid thirties from all he’s said, there’s still a lot of time to turn things around.

Why is no one talking about the person he murdèred? So he spent just 3 years for the murdér of an innocent person? Omo, don't let anyone kîll you oh😭

It’s not too late. You can always start again. I am very sure he isn’t even 35 yet. Man go back home. This time fast and pray harder. Be determined not to be distracted again. Sure you’ve seen it all now. Pick up the pieces.

My heart breaks for this father! This guy must forgive himself & go back to his father. Popsie suffers everyday he is awol. Lastly, he should forget his supposed mates. They aren't his mates anymore. He should adopt tunnel vision, pay the price & get back on track.

I believe if many of us had the privilege you enjoyed, we will be weighed good, if I mistakenly venture into anything bad now and arrested or charged for any case, omo I de on my own oooo.. So anyone reading this please manage the blessings God gave you through your parents care

I really feel for the guy. That’s why money is not enough to raise children. Parents need to be present in the lives of their children at all times

I wouldn't say the young man is an unfortunate being. I also won't blame the parents. However, there is something I suspect to be behind his current state. I think he has parents who gave him everything he wanted and overlooked his excesses without caution or discipline.

Aje I sabi this guy for Ife back then

His problem emanated from his roommates when.... Peer group.

I will lose count if I start to count numbers of lives ruined by bad choice of friends in the Uni... His real shii started right from uni. The issue of giving independent to young fellaz who knew little about life. They want to live a very big lifestyle...

Please go back home! Dont wait till they die or something before you see them again. Im sure to them, youre more important than the money. Please go back home. He might still have plans. Maybe not education but there are surely other things you might be good at. Please go back.

Speaking from my Yoruba/Nollywood experience… e fit be the atrocities wey the papa don commit when he dey find money, nah hin he dey reap on his own son now…. Or nah him papa use him glory🤣🤣🤣

If you are sentenced to a prison in Nigeria and after being released, you still remain a criminal, then you are FINISHED, COMPLETELY FINISHED!

Time is not a friend of anyone. He better go make peace with his dad now before it’s too late. It’s never too late to pick up the pieces and move on.