These are the issues

Why always the BLACK AFRICAN WOMEN with this kind mindset???

Nigerian men are the unluckiest bastards on earth We are born men 1-0 Born in Nigeria 2-0 Mostly born into poverty 3-0 Have to deal with Nigerian politicians 4-0 We have Nigerian women 7-0 God really gave us the leftovers from Eve

The way their skin tone seperateted them at that third question says a lot about the society and values they were raised with. 🌚

It’s always the single ones with ridiculous standards learned from TikTok. She wasn’t even listening to herself 🤦🏽‍♂️

There’s a reason why they are the least cuffed demographic. Always tight with their finances but will ravage through a man’s own.

Have you had any financial dealing with an Indian? They won't make any decisions without consulting their wives/husbands.

Exactly my thought, if you still have to blur some parts of yourself out to your partner, why dating/getting married in the first place?

& this is why black women will forever be the majority of non married.

The difference between Indian women and Black women. One is selfish and the other is selfless and loyal to her marriage and husband.

Women should always have their own money. It doesn't matter how happy, married, in love, whatever you are. Period!

unfortunately that black woman has just never felt safe enough to share those details, she can’t even fathom having that, the way she answered seemed as if it personally went bad for her or someone she knows that shared those details, was open once but was hurt from it

Anything but a black woman for me, I don't care

If I can’t reveal my entire networth to my husband, there is no need getting married. Reason I have left some relationships, their behavior around little money shows what they would do around so much, so I leave in time.

You see black women bro they are ruthless not gain saying that is a fact

If you will end up keeping secrets, then why marry the person?

I have had several conversations with Nigerian women, I have come to realize that contingency mentality is woven in the fabric of their existence. Anyway, this is a nuanced conversation with grey areas.

Notice the race of women that want to keep financial secrets from their partners. It’s ironic cause that’s the same race that expects more financial responsibilities on their men

One clear reason why marriages in some cultures do well than most African or Black marriages😂

Don’t marry who you can’t entrust financial decisions to or with.

Culture plays a role in marriage, the issues that we’ve been discussing for years now om social media resurfaces in the GenZ generation, one wonders what more they were told by the ones that raised them, the Indians in my view places more value in family/ marriage compared to…

"Probably make sense" 🤦🏾‍♂️ I pour am spit

The mentality is not the same bc most African ladies want to keep money away from their husbands then it means, African men are not meant for one wife. U want western treatment w/o shared finances but don't want African men to marry more than one 😂

It’s always the 🌚ones

Black men are cursed with these counterpart how can we create new black women?

Both groups viewed the same issue from different perspectives. Dating, it's not wise to bare all. Married, it's not wise to keep any secrets. The problem is behaving married while dating and vice versa.

The lady in the front makes so so much sense!! That’s the kinda mentality young girls of today are lacking!!!! Shoutouts to her parents They trained a reasonable girl

I’m glad she agreed when the married lady explained to her.. she’s still very young and dumb. For real, why get in a marriage if you can’t fully trust and open up to your partner, isn’t it better to just stay single 🤷🏾‍♂️

Where is that tall empty head from please?

Just embarrassing our race every time they get

I actually agree with the first lady.... As far as there's proper communication about our bills and home expenses, they really don't need to know how much I've got. Money brings out the worst in people sometimes

Hear me out. This is yet another example of a child raised by a woman and a child raised by both parents with proper upbringing. U can’t trust your partner with your finance in relationship but worthy of being in a relationship sharing your body. Winch 😄