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They are misrepresenting this tension. It's not "enbies didn't suffer enough" or "aren't trans enough", but it IS "you aren't qualified to speak on that". If your struggle is lesser, and you get up there, present your own experience, and say "this is what it's like, that's the whole...

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Stef Girl 🏳️‍⚧️vor 2 Monaten

They're doing the thing

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"The dolls have a bone to pick" with flawless timing and cadence. 💕🙏

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It’s weird bc are there people who say yes you’re not trans enough. For sure. Kept me from coming out for a sec too. But at some point you gotta realize you and trans women have completely different experiences and chill tf out. That’s completely separate from not trans enough

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Stef Girl 🏳️‍⚧️vor 2 Monaten

Yeah, like, why is he placing that unrecognized expectation of emotional support on this poor trans women because some people on tumblr were mean to him

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I’m himvor 2 Monaten

Prolly not a lot of support n all from other trans people including trans women. I started being more normal when I realized yeah some random girl on Facebook being mean to me wasn’t exactly the same as like. Systemic discrimination. It’s unfortunate and shitty but not the same!

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I hate the way twitter fucks pretend like we are at the oppression Olympics. It doesn’t feel like advocacy it feels like performative nonsense meant to protect your pathetically fragile ego.

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Stef Girl 🏳️‍⚧️vor 2 Monaten

Interesting number choice on your user

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I wish it wasn’t just the right that’s this fucking stupid. It would be nice.

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Reloaded.Againvor 2 Monaten

Effeminate men who get boob jobs are not women. They are just autogynephiles.

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Reloaded.Againvor 2 Monaten

What a bunch of wankers!

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You're embarrassing yourself

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No. YOU lot with your pretentious identity bullshit are an embarrassment the sane people in society. Nobody is non-binary and nobody is the opposite sex. Sex is binary and mammals can’t change sex with verbal declarations, drugs and/or cosmetic procedures.

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Naval Ravikant: "You're going to die. It's all going to zero. What's there to stress about?" "Stress is when your mind has two conflicting desires at once. You want to be liked, but you want to do something selfish. You don't want to go to work, but you want to make money. You have two conflicting desires, and that's stress." Naval explains the difference between stress and anxiety: "Anxiety is this pervasive, unidentifiable stress where you're stressed out all the time and you're not even sure why. The reason is you have so many unresolved problems that have piled up in your life, you can no longer identify what the problems are. There's this mountain of garbage in your mind. A little bit is poking out the top like an iceberg; that's anxiety. But underneath, there's a lot of unresolved things." He shares his personal anxiety resolver: "One big anxiety resolver for me is just ruminating on death. You're going to die. It's all going to zero. You cannot take anything with you. If you can keep that idea in front of you at all times, what's there to stress about?" Naval reframes what "wasted time" really means: "What is wasted time? Everything is wasted time in a sense because nothing matters in the ultimate. But in each moment, it's the only thing that matters. So if you're doing something you want to do and you're fully there for it it's not wasted time. If your mind is running away, wishing you were somewhere else, anticipating the future, regretting the past, that's wasted time. That's time you're not present for." He concludes: "People get worried about dying and no longer being here. But they don't realize that so much of their life is spent not being here in any case."
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Naval Ravikant: "You're going to die. It's all going to zero. What's there to stress about?" "Stress is when your mind has two conflicting desires at once. You want to be liked, but you want to do something selfish. You don't want to go to work, but you want to make money. You have two conflicting desires, and that's stress." Naval explains the difference between stress and anxiety: "Anxiety is this pervasive, unidentifiable stress where you're stressed out all the time and you're not even sure why. The reason is you have so many unresolved problems that have piled up in your life, you can no longer identify what the problems are. There's this mountain of garbage in your mind. A little bit is poking out the top like an iceberg; that's anxiety. But underneath, there's a lot of unresolved things." He shares his personal anxiety resolver: "One big anxiety resolver for me is just ruminating on death. You're going to die. It's all going to zero. You cannot take anything with you. If you can keep that idea in front of you at all times, what's there to stress about?" Naval reframes what "wasted time" really means: "What is wasted time? Everything is wasted time in a sense because nothing matters in the ultimate. But in each moment, it's the only thing that matters. So if you're doing something you want to do and you're fully there for it it's not wasted time. If your mind is running away, wishing you were somewhere else, anticipating the future, regretting the past, that's wasted time. That's time you're not present for." He concludes: "People get worried about dying and no longer being here. But they don't realize that so much of their life is spent not being here in any case."

Jaynit

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