this diva literally explained it so well like it’s not hard to understand😭

i'm sorry but if you're a man and you are offended by this in ANY way, YOU are the problem you are not a good guy and you should definitely not think of yourself highly

@rhennsy clock THAT😭

I mean, she’s not lying. Men, we know we let some bs slide and it’s ok to admit we make mistakes. To be a better society, we have to be better people.

it’s this simple😭

As soon as she finished that line and explained the first part of it, she lost the argument. Men could say the exact same thing about women. But let's do this instead. Men and women are not perfect, never will be, and there is no such thing as a man or women who is going to be flawless on this scale. It is literally impossible. If her own metric is simply how men treat women, she needs to fully understand how women treat men as well to make this scale more honest. Some men, as in the low 10% of men, are horrid people. Yes, we ALL agree. But the exact same is to be said about women. But there is a glaring issue. Why? Why is this scale the way that it is, and why is it so broad? Why are so many modern men not "perfect" and "protecting of women" 24/7? Simple. Because of women. This woman, by her own description, wants a traditional and chivalrous, but clearly doesn't have the qualities or virtues to warrant getting such a man. Back when Chivalry was the way knights were, and men in general, women were chased until marriage, and were loyal to their husbands. Men had someone worth fighting for, worth pampering and doting on. Their beliefs and morals were aligned, and their future and goals were generally the same. Men would open doors for LADIES, women of respect and considered high in virtue or moral value and standing. Men would court women, treat them with respect and dignity. But at the same time, women would remain virgins until marriage, respect men for all they did, and shared their moral values and admired their virtues as men. Modern women, and sadly also more and more modern men, are losing all of that. Why? Virtues, Values and Morals are so royally fucked that every woman wants a traditional man, but aren't traditional themselves. Women want the WHOLE package, without barely offering a percentage of the package to the man in return. Time and time we see this play out, which drive men to stop caring, because there isn't anything worth fighting for or defending. This leads to men not getting up for women on trains or buses, no held doors, no pulled out chairs, turning away from high body counted women, and not wanting to be around women who think they are hot shit when they aren't. Now men have their own collective issues, but chivalry isn't dead in them, it's dead in women, and men have reacted to this in a way that displeases women. Tough shit. If there isn't anything worth fighting for, why fight for it? If a woman isn't honorable, loyal, morally ground, level headed, humble, and holds high to values and virtues, why should a man hold the door for her, or a chair, or lift heavy things, or drive her around everywhere, or marry her? When you don't get what you dish out, eventually you will turn away. This applies to both sexes, and thus should not be a surprise to anyone when shit goes south. Her standards are WAY too damn high, when she wouldn't even date someone who was exactly like her in a man. She needs to look in a mirror first, and ask herself brutally honestly if she lives up to the standard she herself is placing on men. If not, then her standards are too high, and she isn't worth the effort.

@gauged_honor baby i’m not reading all this either stfu or keep spilling😭😭😭

I mean idrc. Sorry your boyfriend beats you I’m not breaking into your home to stop him.

& you’re disgusting for that😭

@GloveAcademia Where’s the accountability when you keep going back to get beaten?

@beyoncegarden She really think men bout to do something too fr 💀 yeah hold up let me get my crowbar, crouch at your doorstep, and listen through the door, and wait for the exact moment DV is happening so I can burst in and defend you 😂💀 tf is men supposed to do?

real men don't listen to women.

Someone tell this hoe to make a sandwich

only if you walk into traffic first🙂‍↕️

Fair enough, I don't like, I mean, really donc like 95% +/- 5% of women. Vain, futile, not witty, self centered, narcissistic, manipulative and so on.

sorry , you can’t spin this factual narrative - you’re just misogynistic like there’s WAY more bad men than women i’m crying😭

The “they don’t confront or stop them because they are obsessed with male validation” is SO CORRECT That young women are highlighting this male centered fragility where man are obedient to men *they* inexplicably view as having more power but truly powerful men WILL speak up .!

All valid points. I It’s something I’ve learned over the years…we don’t consistently call each other out for creepy shit. We don’t consistently consider making spaces safe for women. And when we don’t call each other out…none of us learn that it’s not okay to do that shit.

Enjoy your cats.

And which type these women are having babies with?

I have a friend (29) who found out her oldest friend (same age) is dating one of his high school students. She immediately cut him off, and all of her male friends who were living with him got new housing because their morals are that strong. Need that level or I don’t trust you

I’ll only respect this opinion if she keeps the same energy with her woman friends as well. If she’s not applying the same standards to her woman friends as she wants the guys in the top category to apply to their guy friends then she’s just being hypocritical and biased

absolute queen

Everyone is flawed. Humans aren't perfect. Expecting it is lunacy. In either sex, by either sex. "if you're not here (points to 10/10 best), i don't like you" She's ignorant. As is any who agree with her. She's rocking a 5/10 herself for this video and take.

I stopped watching at 23 seconds “men who advocate for women/ men who confront other men for women” people who say stuff like that are beyond manipulative they want you to be under them. It’s always “I dislike people who don’t do blank for me”

I mean if you’re somehow offended by this you’re outing yourself. She explained it fairly well

I’m not cutting my boy off for cheating on his girl that’s his business same way you guys wouldn’t do it if your girlfriend was cheating and majority of men don’t tolerate sexual predators.

Honestly, the worse they are the crazier and hard headed they are. I’ve spoken to tons of my friends about bad behavior but in the end of the day, I’m unable to force them to change. And definitely lost friendships over them not wanting to hear it.

In what world does the majority of of men, especially good men, excuse rapists and men who beat women? Literally even other criminal men see them as scum. My bet is that you actually talk about men who don’t text back immediately, play mind games etc. But you go for those men 🤷🏻‍♂️

It's not hard to understand at all. >Be a perfect human being who does not tolerate any imperfect behavior SPECIFICALLY by men towards women regardless of how small or major it is. >Actively seek to punish, excommunicate, cancel, and potentially even HARM other men who are imperfect towards women & you MAY earn her respect if you're extreme, consistent, and assertive enough in your shared disdain towards any act by any man that does, could, or might negatively impact women. >Ignore the very human inclination to realize that a lot of this behavior is NOT exclusive to men but is somehow being laid exclusively at the feet of men. >Ignore the fact that men are being asked...no, not asked, but being OBLIGATED to do something WOMEN don't even do towards other women since women also don't hold men accountable for how they treat women if the man is attractive enough. Like she literally mentioned Chris Brown as evidence of MEN excusing men when this mf thriving career is BASED 90% on the love he gets from WOMEN. Women who will openly admit to willingly & happily cheating on their man who is GOOD to them given the chance to fuck this man she mentioned as one of the worst types of humans on the planet. >Ignore the reciprocation necessary for this standard to consistent & not just the ramblings of a hypocritical sexist. >Ignore the fact that women ALSO don't hold women accountable for how they treat men. >Ignore the fact that women, herself likely included excuse, tolerate, accept, promote, encourage, celebrate, and ENJOY misandry towards men at an infinitely higher rate men do those things in relation to misogyny towards women. >And do all of this to prove they are an actual "good person" as a man while actively looking at the comparative bar that is on the other side of the coin regarding this type of woman's standard for what makes a "good woman". You are correct. She was very clear in her assertion. I'm sure her point was well received & gave a lot of men a lot to consider.

Women want men to be women stfu . If I see my homeboy cheating that’s his problem TF I don’t cheat that’s all that matters . She want us to care n be women 😂😂 idgaf wat he doing

what an insufferable cunt

Human beings by nature embody a spectrum of good and evil, no one exists who is completely evil or good. So saying she only likes completely good men is saying she hates all men. And if she’s accountable, she would apply the same scale to women which 100% of them would fail too👇🏾

If I saw a man assaulting a woman I would do something about it and that’s why those guys don’t do that shit in front of us.

no volume, no caption. very hard to understand lip reading

then turn the volume up😭 ?

I would have to disagree. She explained this very poorly. She’s saying that you have to be absolutely perfect and we all know no one in this world is perfect. There is no perfect man unless you believe in God and your religion but on this earth currently there is no perfect man

Cool and all but… is she ready to know about the “bitter and opinionated woman to mother material” scale?

I like how her diagram completely neglects that women contribute to her system of oppression, yet she never brings that up because then that would require for her to behave differently toward women as well or believe in nuances above lateral thinking.

Cool, Now replace men with “black people”

she actually explained this so poorly 😭😭 simply put, if you’re saying the words “not all men” you’re actively being a part of the problem. in saying those words you’re announcing that we cannot rely on you by dismissing us. its most men including you. we cannot trust you.

Could make litterally the same gradient on women but include paternity fraudists, mothers weaponizing children, alot more pedophiles and the leading perpetrators of domestic violence.

Just such an insufferable person. She pulled out her phone, got a pad of paper and pen, and then went on some absolutely stupid rant for 4 minutes. People these days - especially women, are fucking narcissistic retards

So, half of all men are bad toward women and the other half are generally good toward women, but tolerate too much bad behavior from others toward women. Is she seriously saying this doesn’t hold true for women as well?