This is 100% true!

My father was not absent in my whole life, but I'm present in my kids all day everyday My best friends, my pillars of strength, my everything 🫶🏾👌🏾🥹

The Pedi men are without a doubt number one on the list. Majority of them are allergic to raising their children, I will never understand it.

Pedi men catching strays 🤔😬

Calling them Pedi doesn’t make sense anymore because they are nothing like their ancestors! They don’t even know their history ai, embarrassing 😡

Eish my sister I can sense your anger

They anger me, they have mines, but 95% of them won’t tell you what those mines produce 😂😡 academics don’t get employed, only the dacha men who don’t know that their profession is actually called Underground mixers. They are convinced that they are better than graduates!

While it is true, but it's also shallow in thag it does not take into consideration that economic upheaval and colonial effect the ANC government had sustained are the core matter at issue that give rise to so called absent father's.

Sex before marriage is a sin. Do we get it now

Not a single command from God is harmful to us. Drinking alcohol is nice but getting drunk causes fights

I agree with him BUT he will not say anything about the workplace that deliberately put Black Men under poverty, they hire their kids into positions, they dont want to give "equal pay for equal work". This is 1 of the contribution to the problem!

@Zitholakele_K Instead of listening to such an important message, they are saying they can’t listen to a white man. The mind of a black man is scary place.

He is trying to lump everyone in. Emakhaya they are still polygamous and kids grow up with dads. Nami I grew up with my very traditional and strict dad. This worked even though we weren’t living emakhaya but the family did carry a little bit of western influence

Thats very true. Emakhaya actually the households are much better at raising children by the father. Elokshini on the other hand 💀💀💀

I actually relocated to eMakhaya instead of buying in the burbs or elokshini. The worst part is our kids grow up not speaking the native tongue. One of the other fatherless/leaderless degenerate traits our black society is ignorant too. Breaks my heart. ilokishi is a fat No!

@zabediela Lol! Maybe they will listen to a white man because black San man think telling telling black woman they were raised by single mother is an insult while themselves were raised by single mothers, they always have excuses why they deadbeat generally hate black woman.

True, but they really don't care. Many only want the pride of having their seed somewhere out there without the responsibility of shaping how that seed grows

Absent father issue I agree but throw aprathied out off the mix. As a white man you have the benefits of generational wealth, access to best schools, nepotism, common good reputation in society, and large discounts with banks. White ppl own 77% of the economy as 7% of the popula

Just excuses to be victims in the comments, it’s like an addiction to victimhood. This is part of the reason ppl treat us lower.

But brother. Yaz we cannot listen to a white man ngalento. emandulo or sisaphila impilo yakqala indoda yay’lobola imthathe umfazi umdeni uphill ndawonye even if the man had 5 wives. With the introduction of Western cultures and Christianity our ways changed.

Why is he making @GodPenuel the poster boy for absent fathers movement.

@GodPenuel Coz Penuel is a loser who openly talks badly about those 6 women he impregnated. And makes excuses for not supporting his children the way he should

This is a hard pill to swallow

So Penuel is the example of absent fathers?

This is facts unfortunately

They will blame foreigners for impregnating their women and running away🤞🏾

@danny_wadiLion Awume kancane malume 🙏🏼

I'm with you 💯

I'm with him on this one, that's why some of us don't have kids we don't want to have kids with ramdom baddies. We want to have a family, I don't want to send money for pampers I want to see that pampers is running out. Guys please take care of your kids, be part of their lives🫶🏿

You just see the results of a System that made a black man broken go to the stats S.A and you will be amazed how many black men are actually taking care of their children it is not political it is systematical

Not just in South Africa, this seems to be a world wide problem.

It's also got to do with how our women are business people in relationships than mothers and lovers. You cannot stay for the sake of kids with a woman who can sleep with another man while you are in the picture then turn and use the legal system to vilify you and win.

You can never preach that now. I always tell my friends ukuthi if you knock her up do the honorable thing. This was a norm bk in the old traditional days. If you knock her up her family would run up on your family and the marriage would be arranged. If that were the case manje

I used to speak like this, and the grootmans would laugh and say, laaitie wait till you have incosi. And I'd be like heeeh heeh mina I'll never, I know what it's like to grow up without a father, mina ngeke. Jikijiki- I'm fighting left right and center just for access ye ncosi.

People would stop and think before having kids.

Faaaacts!

You told not one lie. I’ll add to that, it’s also the reason why there’s a surge of effeminate men. The father was not there to teach them masculine traits so they adopted their mother and grand mother’s traits.

What about the South African who tries very hard to support his children & yet is denied access to them ?? I wish people like u can STOP GENERALISING !! Do u even know how many of us are out there ??

I’ve been saying this, absent fathers are the root causes of the crime issue in South Africa. The government & the police are secondary causes

Pilgrims wanna talk about morality even though they are the biggest pedophiles on the globe. This stupid bitch, wants to talk about everything except giving men the means & opportunity to create & take care of their families. And his ppl created the problems in the first place.

Talk about the injections allowed rather than the dad who worked away.

Agree 100%. Along with this goes love. Most people misbehave because they have simply never experienced love from especially a father.

South Africans should never listen to these kind of white people. These people delusional as f*ck. What they say, do or view is what their parents fed them. There is a reason why segregation happened. You can tell this dude knows nothing about black struggle.

Facts

@_qutnosity Facts 🔥 🤞🏾