This is a very disgusting take. Terrible example to use in teaching financial independence.

These are the kind of doctrines making Nigerians wicked and Selfish. Why did you marry her if you can’t take of her ehh. If the wife had to beg him for money for sanitary wares he is a wicked Man. See them rejoicing at the wicked message.

It is gaslighting women. Pretending the problem is an opportunity of self development. The financial abuse is most likely going to continue even after the wife starts to make money. He will abandon his responsibilities claiming she has money. Mammy pastor can’t address this.

I get the point she’s trying to make (although came with harsh tones). But why’s the husband threatening to throw his wife out cos she took 2,000 from his wallet to buy sanitary pad? Also, why’s the woman not able to afford her own sanitary pad? Is she broke at that moment or that’s just how she asks every month and the man is probably tired already? It’s indeed a wake up call for the woman tbh. If he’s threatening to throw her out because of 2,000 then it’s time to actually begin to look inward and see how you can become useful for yourself… that’s not the life she should be living.

Sorry, if it was 50k or 100k, what would have happened?

Her point of view is perfectly valid, and I respect it. However, as a woman, you have failed if you cannot afford basic necessities.

I’m all for Women having their own money but if it angers a Man that you asked for money for just sanitary pads, please get up, that Man is not for you.

Imagine what this woman is saying? How does taking 2k justify being put out from your home

Really but men can ask for submission based on the fact that they are providers ? But the woman should go and work for her own money and still come and submit to an abusive & non-providing man ! These religions were made by men for men !

She is actually true, he might have been a little bit harsh but before a husband can react that way, that means she has always been depending on him for everything. No partner wants a liability unless he tells you he want to be the giver of all to you. She should get a job

What many won’t say is that the Husband Asked her, or even Begged her, not to work. And that he’d provide all that she needs. Only for the man to scream at her for taking 2k from his wallet for pad. See, women should go for kind men. A kind man won’t limit you or deny you freedom

Nigerian girls, this is what feminism is all about. You are able to afford your basic needs. See them hating...

It’s the women laughing for me. Very disgusting take

Some men get irritated when women are not self sufficient regarding basics. Other men find it disgusting when their partners don't have money for the littlest of things. That said...The Proverbs 31 woman was not asking her husband for 2000 Naira Sha Cos she worked hard, was self sufficient and was her husband's help mate.

I see no wisdom in this message. Who sends a woman packing because of sanitary towel of 2k? Secondly, some men are so insecure they don’t want their wife to work just to make her completely dependent on him. He wants it this way to be able to control and cripple her financially.

Maybe he's a loser. Men show love and commitment by sharing our attention and resources with the people(especially women) that we love/care about. So, if he's bugging out over 2K, he either a. doesn't really like her or b. she's done something wrong that she's not saying.

burden how? what if he is the one that asked her not to work. some of these women just come here and tell the world how they are being abused but noone pays attention.

I agree with her, No woman deserves that kind of treatment. Marriage is partnership, not punishment.

No man or woman should marry a liability, if you can't buy Pad of 2k for yourself then she's not worthy to be in a relationship.

Granted it’s great to encourage your wife to earn an income but I do not agree with him asking her to “leave his presence” simply cause she asked for money for sanitary towels. That is his wife! He should provide for her regardless. The story should not have even become public knowledge, the only person that embarrasses is him. If your wife doesn’t earn an income or enough yet (and even when she does) you must have an account she has access to via a card that you fund for contingencies. Who is raising these men?

Ati husband o, ati wife o both of them are mentally wretched, not having money to buy ordinary sanitary towel for yourself as a woman is so ridiculous and threatening to send your wife out because of ordinary 2k is so disgusting

Period.

It's her opinion oo. Abeg make them leave me, na money wey i go use do December i dey find. 🤣🤣🤣

I don't even listen to some of these things.

We accept what we think we deserve

If you have a man that buys you sanitary towels you don't know what God has done for you

I support Pastor Naomi's take! Harsh though 🤣 On the other hand, the husband shouldn't threaten the wife. 🤣🤣

I don’t think anything is wrong with what she said though, I really understand her point.

Sometimes it seems paul was right🤦🏾‍♂️

As for the man, didn’t you see and know her before you married her? Sending her out of the house is outrageous. As for the woman, is you are asking for a common 2K for ordinary sanitary pad, it means you are not responsible to yourself or the household. That’s a big shame o

Just imagine

By the way, I think if people’s traumatic experiences keep being used as examples in church sermons, we will find that fewer people will trust church counselors. Imagine the subject of this “example” being in the congregation that day!

There has to be more context to this story because only this makes no sense. How was the woman financially before you married her?