this is actually so devastating😭

There’s literally no one I would rather hang out with than my own children. They’re the best people I know. I think she might be doing it wrong.

i’m on both sides of this argument i fear , like you should find a way to love your children since you decided to have them but also at least she’s warning people so there’ll be less “uninterested” moms😭

@BlondeBigot11 You’re talking to someone who identifies as a bigot and says she’s raising her children to be bigots, btw

@beyoncegarden Cry about it. I’m raising my children to practice in-group preference, as they should.

She is overwhelmed and undersupported.

Women love playing the victim. I feel sorry for these kids.

maybe it’s not “playing the victim” let’s maybe celebrate her honesty & vulnerability as she could’ve done something worse…

All I see is an overwhelmed mom with an unsupportive partner, no help, & probably hasn’t had an hour to herself in months or years. Praying 4 her

It woulda been great if she had this revelation BEFORE having children

how could she have it having never had the experience😭 … ?

I feel sorry for her children. Fat, low-IQ women should not be allowed to procreate!

that second sentence wasn’t necessary like you people are evil😭

What has happened to women?! Like, wtf? I had my first child at barely 19. My second at 22. I was so happy to be a mom! I loved it so much!!!

1. This is a cry for help. Someone please help her. 2. Postpartum depression is real, get some help for that 3. Those days won’t last forever. They will be gone before she knows it. 4. She’s probably doing something to make life harder than it has to be. 5. There’s not enough help and support in this society for new mothers and families.

I have been a single mom for 18 years now. I became a mom as a teenager, and not once have I cried about having kids. Parenting is not for everyone. Once you decide to become a parent, say goodbye to your sleep, your freedom, your friends. You become responsible for little people who can’t fend for themselves, and when they hit their teens—baby, that’s when you really have to parent. Then comes college. I’m already looking to relocate so I can afford college for my oldest. Parenting is far from keeping a place clean or being “happy.” It’s all about the responsibility of building the men and women of tomorrow.

Take her kids away. She will be happy. The kids will be safe.

She is behaving like a spoiled brat. As parents we sacrifice for our children, but it can be overwhelming. I put my children over my own needs when they were little. Children are beautiful symbols of Gods love. So Put your selfish ego down and go have some fun with your kids.

Back in the day when people had backbones, moms would vent to themselves and carry on. These weak mf’s think everything is worth picking up a phone over. I have so much respect for my mom, I never saw her detest motherhood of 4, while inside I know she struggled. These bitches have weak character.

Lazy people who do not implement structure into parenting are generally miserable and have miserable misbehaving children. Children need schedules and structure and to be taught to manners and self-discipline. Without that it is chaos.

She's sooooo depressed. She needs someone to help her.

My child is the light of my life, she saved my soul. I’ve never been happier. Before her life was ok. I mean, I thought life was ok. After her the colours of the world shone brighter and my heart was finally whole. Now that she’s a teenager, it just keeps getting better, our relationship shifts through the years and one day when I don’t need to “mother” her, she will be my best friend. 💙💙💙💙

She’s so weird for this… she’s the one who chose this. It’s giving ungrateful. Also she’s the one who’s supposed to teach her kids how to be organized.

Lady, this is called post partum depression. You need to see someone about it. Talking helps, but you need to seek a professional therapist.

Some people need more help and support. It’s sad to see a mother like this.

It’s one thing to be overwhelmed and tired, I completely understand. But telling other women to not have children because you’re drowning in it does not make you a hero. This is honestly pathetic because her kids can obviously hear her saying this

all of this is common knowledge about child rearing lol you have to RAISE kids to be considerate and clean. they aren’t just going to be that way.

That’s because you don’t have love in your heart. If you did you would get so much joy from your children, the laughter, the hugs, the kisses, watching them learn & grow & teach. All the things that are hard such as a messy house wouldn’t matter.

I wonder if older generations had breakdowns/feelings like this but just had to bury them and deal with them because they didn’t have social media to express these thoughts.

Never know happiness again? wtf?

How sad. It is not normal to feel this way so often. She needs support.

Pathetic! As her children are heard in the background and can hear this. Liberals can't handle daily showering let alone motherhood!!

This is because she puts herself above everyone else. Her needs and her wants. That’s what’s sad. She’s selfish and undeserving of children which by the way makes a person’s life have meaning.

$20 says the father is neither white nor in her life

This is why communities are so important. This is why they have destroyed communal living. Nobody knows or gives a shit about more than 1/2 of their neighbors. There are hundreds of people in a neighborhood and we know 1 or 2 maybe, 3 or 4 if we are social butterflies.

CPS needs to check in on her. Because being a mom shouldn’t suck every day. It is exhausting and she sounds like she needs a break. But something is wrong if every day sucks for her. This is def a distress call.

She’s mentally ill going in or is suffering untreated PPD. For the sake of her kids I hope she either gets help or leaves them, the father(S) need to take over

If you’re a fat miserable slob who is so self centered you can’t appreciate a healthy child giving you unconditional love….. don’t have children. To this person “Get over yourself hogzilla.”

Sounds like she genuinely hates her kids.

I fully understand and feel so bad for her. I pray she gets the support and help she needs soon before she offs herself her children or both. Postpartum is one thing but no one explains that sometimes the postpartum just grows to pure depression and can take over your life.

What an absolute loser of a person. I hate life because of my kids?! You’ll never know happiness? Lol How fucking stupid. She needs to seek help. Give those kids a chance at life.

Suck it up and speak positively about your life. It’s only rough for a little while people 🤦🏼‍♀️ Cry and move on because if you keep talking about how much you hate your life, guess what? You’ll never grow as a person!!!