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This is the normal evolution of human attraction over a lifespan. Most men do not spend their entire lives looking at women through the adolescent lens of “hot, want sex, must act.” Physical beauty may initiate attention, no one argues against that, but mature attraction becomes increasingly selective, contextual,... and integrated with compatibility and trust. The human brain evolved far beyond a simple stimulus response mating system. Men are capable of discernment, pair bonding, devotion, and long term preference formation. A woman’s appearance does not exist in isolation from her character, intelligence, temperament, behavior, or the meaning she holds in his life. In an emotionally developed man, desire becomes organized around the whole person rather than endlessly triggered by every attractive female body in his visual field. A man who remains permanently governed by novelty and immediate visual appetite is not displaying some profound truth about male nature. He is displaying weak inhibition, poor psychological development, or a deliberate refusal to evolve beyond its most primitive layer. I’d seriously caution anyone against listening to men who claim men continue behaving like lustful bots after 25ish. Most psychologically healthy men mature out of chimp mating behaviors because engaging that way requires them to keep choosing the chaos and immaturity, long after they have enough life experience to know better.show more

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If you want to know which men have the most success with women, you might be better off ignoring women and asking men instead. Researchers recorded videos of 157 different men. Next, a different group of men watched these videos and responded to a question about each of the men in the videos: “How likely is it that this man would win a physical fight with another man?” They used a scale ranging from “extremely likely” to “extremely unlikely.” A group of women also viewed the videos and responded to a question about each of the men: “How sexually attractive is this man?” They used a scale ranging from “extremely unattractive” to “extremely attractive.” Eighteen months later, the men in the videos completed a questionnaire asking about their sexual history over the 18 months. The shocking result: how tough a guy looked to men predicted his mating success better than how attractive he looked to women. The researchers concluded, “Men with higher physical dominance, but not sexual attractiveness, reported higher quantitative mating success.” Reference: Kordsmeyer, T. L., Hunt, J., Puts, D. A., Ostner, J., & Penke, L. (2018). The relative importance of intra-and intersexual selection on human male sexually dimorphic traits. Evolution and Human Behavior, 39, 424-436.

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Muscularity is a huge predictor of romantic appeal. One study of more than 7,000 men found that muscle mass was associated with more sexual partners in the last year and more sexual partners overall. A study on males aged 18 to 59 found that muscularity is significantly positively associated with the number of total sexual partners and total partners within the past year. Handgrip strength is correlated with self-assessed happiness, health, social confidence, overall physical attractiveness, and overall number of sexual partners. To me, the most interesting finding in this line of work is that how tough a guy looks to men appears to be a much stronger predictor of mating success than how attractive he is to women. Researchers recorded short videos of 157 different men. Next, another group of men watched these videos. Researchers asked them a question about each of the men in the videos: “How likely is it that this man would win a physical fight with another man?” They used a scale ranging from “extremely likely” to “extremely unlikely.” A group of women also viewed the videos. They responded to a question about each of the men: “How sexually attractive is this man?” They used a scale ranging from “extremely unattractive” to “extremely attractive.” Eighteen months later, the men in the videos completed a questionnaire asking about their sexual history over the 18 months. How tough a guy looked to men predicted his reported mating success better than how attractive he looked to women. The researchers concluded, “Men with higher physical dominance, but not sexual attractiveness, reported higher quantitative mating success.”

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19,156 Aufrufe • vor 5 Monaten

This video clip, which has surfaced on a Ukrainian Facebook page, is most probably of some members of the Russian forces captured by the Ukrainian army. The captured men are identifying themselves in the video. Most or all of them are not Russians. In the video, one captured man is saying that his name is Rana Mohammad Jewel and he is from Bangladesh. A Bangladeshi who joined the Russian army died in the war with Ukraine some time ago. It is apparently becoming clear that at least some Bangladeshis have landed in the Russian army against their wishes and got trapped in the war with Ukraine. There is a high possibility that these Bangladeshi men were enticed by human traffickers in #Bangladesh and/or the Middle East and ended up joining the Russian force. The government in Bangladesh should swing into action, track down all Bangladeshis trapped in the #Russia-#Ukraine war and make arrangements for their safe return to their families at home. The government should also launch an investigation to hunt out the agents or human traffickers who lured the Bangladeshi men and forced them to join the Russian army. The government should also launch an awareness campaign to warn the vulnerable young men in Bangladesh about the life-threatening risks of joining the Russian forces. One more thing: Does anyone recognise this Bangladeshi man named Rana Mohammad Jewel? Could you arrange to send this video to his family? Could you also let us or me know if he has contacted his family back home and is safe now?

This video clip, which has surfaced on a Ukrainian Facebook page, is most probably of some members of the Russian forces captured by the Ukrainian army. The captured men are identifying themselves in the video. Most or all of them are not Russians. In the video, one captured man is saying that his name is Rana Mohammad Jewel and he is from Bangladesh. A Bangladeshi who joined the Russian army died in the war with Ukraine some time ago. It is apparently becoming clear that at least some Bangladeshis have landed in the Russian army against their wishes and got trapped in the war with Ukraine. There is a high possibility that these Bangladeshi men were enticed by human traffickers in #Bangladesh and/or the Middle East and ended up joining the Russian force. The government in Bangladesh should swing into action, track down all Bangladeshis trapped in the #Russia-#Ukraine war and make arrangements for their safe return to their families at home. The government should also launch an investigation to hunt out the agents or human traffickers who lured the Bangladeshi men and forced them to join the Russian army. The government should also launch an awareness campaign to warn the vulnerable young men in Bangladesh about the life-threatening risks of joining the Russian forces. One more thing: Does anyone recognise this Bangladeshi man named Rana Mohammad Jewel? Could you arrange to send this video to his family? Could you also let us or me know if he has contacted his family back home and is safe now?

Pinaki Bhattacharya

12,415 Aufrufe • vor 1 Jahr

Men are intimidated by a baby mama who has hit the wall, lost value in the dating market, reached menopause, an evening newspaper and is close to her 50s? Women do overrate themselves. "I'm not necessarily available or out there for you to see and approach." Now, the question you should ask is does she still have sex? Definitely YES! But obviously with men she doesn't consider as prominent enough to be proud of and call her man outside. She's still single because no high value man wants her. At the end of the day, she's single by circumstance and not by choice. But since women don't like rejection or the feeling of being undesired by men, she had to create a coping mechanism to make herself feel better for still being unmarried in her late 40s. Despite her beauty and wealth, she's still considered low value which is why men don't approach her. Why exactly will men go for a woman in her 40s when we still have 18 to 23 years old years in their prime in the dating pool? No wonder she's one of those feminists who hate men because they don't want her. Women shouldn't hate the player. Hate the game! The game might be brutal but it's still fair.

Men are intimidated by a baby mama who has hit the wall, lost value in the dating market, reached menopause, an evening newspaper and is close to her 50s? Women do overrate themselves. "I'm not necessarily available or out there for you to see and approach." Now, the question you should ask is does she still have sex? Definitely YES! But obviously with men she doesn't consider as prominent enough to be proud of and call her man outside. She's still single because no high value man wants her. At the end of the day, she's single by circumstance and not by choice. But since women don't like rejection or the feeling of being undesired by men, she had to create a coping mechanism to make herself feel better for still being unmarried in her late 40s. Despite her beauty and wealth, she's still considered low value which is why men don't approach her. Why exactly will men go for a woman in her 40s when we still have 18 to 23 years old years in their prime in the dating pool? No wonder she's one of those feminists who hate men because they don't want her. Women shouldn't hate the player. Hate the game! The game might be brutal but it's still fair.

KING CHIDI

30,992 Aufrufe • vor 6 Monaten

I can’t believe a person you would put your trust into, marry them, have kids with them and they can do this to you! And then have the nerve to get mad when we choose the bear. It’s really sicko and weird. Would you want this to happen to your daughter or sister or mother? I’m at a lost for words. For the men who say they are our allies, you have a lot of work to do. Men who get offended by this it’s because you know what men are actually capable of. Either you are them or so ashamed you don’t want to admit it. But it doesn’t stop it from happening. Damn damn damn. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ I just wish we had the same strength as men cause this would be a different story. And for the ones who think “not all men” you are a very big part of the problem. You definitely know a man who is. Talk to the women in your life they will tell you or like he said they may not cause they just don’t trust you enough to do so. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

I can’t believe a person you would put your trust into, marry them, have kids with them and they can do this to you! And then have the nerve to get mad when we choose the bear. It’s really sicko and weird. Would you want this to happen to your daughter or sister or mother? I’m at a lost for words. For the men who say they are our allies, you have a lot of work to do. Men who get offended by this it’s because you know what men are actually capable of. Either you are them or so ashamed you don’t want to admit it. But it doesn’t stop it from happening. Damn damn damn. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ I just wish we had the same strength as men cause this would be a different story. And for the ones who think “not all men” you are a very big part of the problem. You definitely know a man who is. Talk to the women in your life they will tell you or like he said they may not cause they just don’t trust you enough to do so. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

Leslie Jones 🦋

262,085 Aufrufe • vor 1 Jahr

She's right and wrong. Yes most women 'settle' and marry the best they can get, which often isn't her first, second or third choice. But the guy she 'settles' for IS in fact the best she can do. Everything trades for fair market value on the sexual marketplace. Women like this are delusional. The pressure IS real. Women are on a timeline, their value does go down after their early 20s because women are beauty and purity objects to men. Men are success objects to women, which is why men peak in their late 30s But everyone lies to women and tells them they can do better, or that they should wait for a better man, as if there is an army of them out there to be found. Top shelf men are rare, but few tell women the truth, and fewer women are worthy of them. I guarantee no married man in history every said "I'm glad my wife fucked 50 guys, and found herself before I married her at 35." Women that want families would be wise to ignore the advice of women like this, and prioritize finding a good man when her value is highest in her early 20s. I'll say it again, nobody hates women more, than other women.

She's right and wrong. Yes most women 'settle' and marry the best they can get, which often isn't her first, second or third choice. But the guy she 'settles' for IS in fact the best she can do. Everything trades for fair market value on the sexual marketplace. Women like this are delusional. The pressure IS real. Women are on a timeline, their value does go down after their early 20s because women are beauty and purity objects to men. Men are success objects to women, which is why men peak in their late 30s But everyone lies to women and tells them they can do better, or that they should wait for a better man, as if there is an army of them out there to be found. Top shelf men are rare, but few tell women the truth, and fewer women are worthy of them. I guarantee no married man in history every said "I'm glad my wife fucked 50 guys, and found herself before I married her at 35." Women that want families would be wise to ignore the advice of women like this, and prioritize finding a good man when her value is highest in her early 20s. I'll say it again, nobody hates women more, than other women.

Richard Cooper

59,084 Aufrufe • vor 8 Monaten