this might just be the most important video you see today. take notes.

"Something happened?" "She said that to you?" "And that made you upset?" "I see... Those who look to the Heavens prosper, those who defy it are no more."

Can confirm this works I've been doing for better half of my life. Once you crack the code it's simple.

Nah you have to give your own opinion as well. My father and mother always tell each other what they're thinking, all the time, whenever it feels like it needs saying, and yet they don't feel the need to argue about it.

That cooking unit looks cool AF! Why can’t we have nice things here?!?

Well... Emotional validation is super important. But if you never give your actual opinion, you are selling yourself out to keep peace. So don't be surprised that 20 years later, your wife is happy, but you aren't getting what you need.

Just listening and repeating like a trained parrot is not the answer. How about actually connecting with your significant other and understanding why she feels and experienced what she did? Who am I kidding, people don't actually connect in relationships.

Basically treat her like a child

taking this to the bank

So your solution is walking on eggshells? Marriage is supposed to be teamwork. That includes solving problems, and having the difficult conversations when necessary.

Smart gentleman

if you marry that kind of woman, just divorce her so you don't have to live that way for the next 22 years.

Terrible advice, not holding your spouse accountable and letting think that they're always right and they don't need to correct their shitty behavior. Scary steps you're taking brother

Nah fuck that life

A woman wants to be understood, no " you will be fine, you should do X, right wrong etc" Usually women are all the time told what to do and what to feel just just having someone that tries to understand you is his tip. You arent a parrot, you are there for her, her shelter.

He’s giving us that incredible wisdom from beyond THE grave.

i took notes but all i wrote was invite me next time