This probably isn’t that unpopular of an opinion.

I hate when people say “we are grown” when it comes to anything activity wise cause being grown has nothing to do with making memories, having fun, being spontaneous, & just simply doing things that make you smile. Being grown does not mean living a dull ass life!

Girl is literally tryna cope rn and make it make sense lol awww

oh, she a whole wife! i would’ve felt obligated to still get her some.

It’s a trap to make people spend their money

Definitely a money grab

what was her reason for recording this and posting it?

I saw a post that says he treats me good 365, no need for Vday gifts Well if thats true, why skip the one out of 3 days (Anniversary, Birthday,etc) that is designed to celebrate you? Sounds like a cry for help

Yeah right, if thats so true why is she online telling a bunch of ppl she isn’t married to? You don’t need a sitter to get some flowers, candy, or card/gift. They could’ve done something at the house as a family. Sounds like a bunch of excuses to me & she’s trying to save face.

My whole thing is don’t celebrate Christmas then. Because Christmas has not been religious in a minute .

That Man is blessed. He has a wife 🤞🏾

Girl just say you've never gotten anything for Valentine's Day

Baby just tell me Happy Valentines Day, give me a kiss and some loving later. That’s it, that’s all. We cared about this shit in high school 😆

I dislike this as much as I dislike those that post about how you should celebrate Valentines Day. Life is short. Do what makes you feel good, as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone else…🤷🏽‍♂️

Being “grown” has nothing to do with it 🙄🙄 just say it’s something you don’t care for and move on. Everyone does what makes them happy. Every Vday doesn’t need to be big and extravagant it can be as simple as a little note, it’s a day for lovers just show love. . . Damn

Anyhoo my parents in their 50s and 60s got each other stuff yesterday and spent the evening together. My sisters and I gave flowers and chocolate to each other. No one in the house has ever gone a single Valentine's Day w/o a little token of appreciation bc we love to show love

Girl we get it you don’t wanna be treated like a princess that’s fine and we don’t give a fuck 😭

I used to think like this. But now I want my man to celebrate me every chance he gets

Trusting believe when I tell you she's 150% right we are grown fuck I look like and what does she look like we're not in school miss me with all this little dumb bullshit and if we're being real it's just another ploy to get you to spend your money like they do wit every two week

I agree... I've been married 35 years and never cared about made up holidays My Husband treats me good 365 days a year 💖

The comments by the women are wild! That lady said a whole mouth full and yal smooth glossed over it. It also shows your disregard and lack of appreciation for a "man" who does for you 365. Or maybe yal havent gotten one of those yet? Hmmmm? 🤔🤷🏾‍♂️🤣

So why are you talking us this lol why do we need to know that YOU do not care that YOUR husband doesn’t get you anything for Vday? Lol it sounds like you’re actually trying to make yourself feel better by convincing us that you don’t need it when u need the convincing lol

Good for you girl. Personally I look forward to any opportunity to make my man feel as special as he is. I spend money and extend my time, effort and energy spoiling my man on special occasions AND just because. It’s not too much to reciprocate

dont get them kids nun for christmas either then cause its the same logic

Sound like she’s mad she has 2 kids and can’t go out to Valentine day & her husband has never asked her. LMFAOOO So now she’s conditioned herself to not give af😂

This is how grown women think that’s actually in a real relationship

I don't understand why ppl make videos like this... if you're happy with it being that way for YOU, why are you passionate about others expecting more for themselves or actually enjoy the holiday? If you're so happy why do you care? Ultimate level of a pickme

I hope it’s satire 😩

Ok bitch? Why ar you talking to us about it? Go convince that mirror not us

Seeing other people happy made her so upset that she felt she had to make a PSA about not celebrating Valentine’s Day and calling people who do childish. I really feel a little sorry for her.

I couldn’t imagine being in such a boring & rigid relationship to where me & my partner wouldnt take any&every opportunity to celebrate the love we have for each other. She sounds like she’s just regurgitating the rhetoric he beat into her head smh. It’s giving brainwashed.

See she my kind. And imma get the lil bullshit anyway. Just because I know you ain’t even trippen about it. 😂

Only part of this I agree with is being asked to be my valentine. If we’re married who tf else gone be yo valentine??? Unnecessary. But by all means always make your partner feel loved and appreciated whenever! It doesn’t matter if it’s Valentine’s Day or fucking November 11th

Been married 13 years.. me and my wife don’t give 2 shits about Valentine’s Day. If we get a chance to go eat cool. But who wants to deal with headaches of being around a bunch of people making reservations paying for parking. We can do that on a normal day!

Some men prefer a woman they don’t have to wow or put too much effort into. There are plenty of low maintenance women out there that would still love a man like that