This. She said it all for me.

The people who don’t need to be married/parents are often the ones making marriage and parenting seem insufferable I just refuse to let their experience with marriage and kids be mine

@FatBlackLuxury Bc baby 10 years is a long time to not like your spouse. If I dislike you for 10 consecutive minutes, we over.

I’ll just say making it to 30 without any kids puts a lot, and I mean a lot, into perspective.

She said me, I, me and y’all taking it personally. If you aren’t who she is talking about, why are you upset?

She’s absolutely right. I’m genuinely happily married and a mom to a 3 year old. Those were both choices I was 100% confident in. I know for fact I don’t want another child and that should also be okay but folks always try to convince me otherwise.

Sigh. Can’t believe y’all have me outchea defending marriage but this is such a gross oversimplification. Relationships in general require a certain amount of work. Don’t matter if it’s your husband or your sibling or parent.

As she wears those contacts she wishes people took life decisions more serious🥴

What is “hard?” The use of that word dictates what you think. Marriage isn’t hard. It’s easy. People are stubborn & stuck in their ways. They make marriage - hard. Check the people, not the idea of marriage. Anything that’s an inconvenience, ppl don’t want to do it.

As someone who wants to get married is dying to have kids, I’m with her 100%. I’ve known literally my entire life that I want to be a mother. So I know for damn sure people on the exact opposite side, and who are we to make them feel guilty. Don’t have kids if you want them.

Marriage is hard if and when you married someone you shouldn’t have married. Parenting is hard when you have kids by someone you shouldn’t have had kids with 🤷🏽‍♀️