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This started like a normal dating story… and turned into something nobody expected! She made a New Year’s resolution: say yes to more dates. No overthinking. No backing out. Just show up and see what happens. So she agrees to a first date with “Matt from Hinge.” At first?...

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Culture is genetic because behavior is genetic. This beaver never saw a dam in its life. No beavers or anything else ever taught it to build a dam. It wants to build a dam because it is a beaver. Many beavers together build a big dam. That is beaver culture. Humans are not different. Nothing is different. This is what life is. This is how life works. Your body is your mind. A caterpillar wants to build a chrysalis. A bee wants to build a hive. A lion wants to build a pride. You are not special. You are not above your nature. you are INSIDE of it. The thoughts that we think are genetic thoughts. The crimes we commit are genetic crimes. The art we create is genetic art. Just like this beaver, you can give the animal different sticks and it will build a different dam, but it will always build a dam. And you can give humans different "education," but the human will always use it to do what its genes tell it to do. This is the first big answer that you need. This is the biggest piece of the puzzle. This is how to understand people 90% of the way. You just... notice what they do, and get out of the way, and watch them do it. And if they need sticks, you give them sticks. And if you don't like what they do, you have to get away from them. You cannot train dam-building into them or out of them any more than you can with a beaver. A beaver wants to build a dam because it is a beaver. Whatever you see people build, that's what they wanted to build from the sticks they got in the river they were in. Stop pretending you can change it.

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To guys who are struggling to close (i.e., bed) the girls they take on dates, this girl highlights legitimate issues that you will see dudes doing when inexperienced, clueless, or bad date planners: 🆇 Poor directions to the date location (chick had to walk 5,000 steps to find this guy) 🆇 Lack of expectation-setting for the date (did not set any expectations for her what they’d be doing or check to see whether she was okay to walk or had eaten) 🆇 Failure to take hints from the girl (girl told the guy she’s not much of a walker but he still persisted with his walking date plan — FYI, walking dates are great but the girl’s got to be cool with walking… also: you need to text her beforehand “Hey, wear shoes you can walk in” so she doesn’t show up in heels) 🆇 No actual date plan — this dude just walked in a circuit with her, came back to the start point 90 minutes later, then asked her “What do YOU want to do?” This is why I tell you to spend 30-60 minutes planning out your date in advance. A good walking date ends at a DESTINATION (such as… your place? If you’re good at turning her on during the date and want to CLOSE that is!). You always need a PLAN — and also a backup plan (for instance, if she shows up to your walking date and mentions she isn’t a walker). Chicks hate being asked what to do, btw. You’re the man; you must lead! (unless you’re gunning for the friend zone, that is. In that case, sure, let her lead) 🆇 Took her to the supermarket then let her go off by herself while saying he was gonna do his own shopping. Lel. Is it a date or not? Why not just TAKE HER with you while you pick up your stuff? What this dude SHOULD HAVE done was say “Oh wow my bad I assumed you ate — let me make it up to you, I’m a great cook. Have you ever had pollo piccata? Let’s scoop some ingredients and I will whip you up a restaurant-tier meal; all on me since it’s my fault you didn’t eat.” That’s how you make amends + get her back to your place in style. Not whatever this guy did (“let’s just each go buy our groceries separately then meet back up”) The whole meta frame here was wack, really: Going on a date is about taking leadership with a woman and bringing her into your world & frame. If you are just meandering around, asking her what to do, ignoring her state, ignoring what she is saying, sending her off to go off on her own so you can meet up with her later, that is not a date. That is two people just sort of hovering around each other with no clear leader. Women go to bed with men who lead them. They friend zone or ignore men who don’t. Plan your dates properly. It takes a little extra time but makes ALLLLLLLL the difference!

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