This was a painful watch

this is so annoying. we’re all gay. we all suck dick. we are all black. what’s the problem?

This isn’t colorism. So let’s start there. But I do think (just my opinion) that they associate lightskin with being more feminine and darkskin being more masculine/ more of a man. I think that’s the real conversation.

The way they are saying light skin and dark skin like it’s a type of shoe or something 😭

Men are overly absorbed in preference of skin color

Dating in the community in 2025 … if it’s not about sex it’s giving…🙃

“I’m not a colorist” but you are lol. You backtracked because the person next to you ate you up 🤣

I think it’s so weird to date based on skin color as a grown person that should know better. Give me a black man I don’t care if you light or dark

the fact that skin color was even coming up that much was very telling lol those men’s complexions ain’t have nothing to do with what they brought to the table and how they carried themselves. Priorities all fucked up in 2025 😂😭🤏🏾 yikes.

All the work around 🫩 just say yall prefer darkskin men as opposed to lightskin men because you because you have a shitty, stereotypical way of thinking darkskin=masculine

he was comedy

As a dark skinned person:

I swear the black community is so fixated on skin complexion it’s the new top/bottom convo…………. The skin complexion narrative is typically rooted in hypermasculinity 9/10. And viewing lighter complexions as softer. Please grow up

Dark skin this.. light skin that..

Whats all that movement back their 😂

BAWDY REAL TEA THO

But he……… is dark skinned

I’m dating him because he made the most sense.

Idk why but it really bothers me to see black men actin gay. I dont have any hate for the gay community or anything like that at all but when I see black men I expect them to look and act strong. Like a Lion in the zoo when their like this its sad

It just doesn't make any sense. How do y'all not like your own people? We come in all different shades. Smdh.

Black people are are so ignorant and obsessed with skin color. They need to get it together. Almost all of them said something stupid about skin color

Is I bad that I understand them cus darkskins be sexyyyyyyyy

Painful to watch, but definitely a real look at the current dating pool within our community..

cringe, tone-deaf, ignorant, embarrassing, and internalized self-hatred. i swear being black and gay is EXHAUSTING. we gotta deal with bullshit outside and WITHIN our own community. diluting someone’s worth down to the complexion of their skin is the very definition of bigotry.

wtf is this ?

Such weird behavior. So “colorism” is ok when it’s against light skin. Totally normal

"I don't do light skins" is the new "no fats no fems" 🤣 Finally getting a taste of your own medicine 🤣

Priorities folks! Who cares about complexion like that’s gonna help you get to know somebody 🤦🏽‍♂️ hate colorist black people.

Being gay is exhausting. Just a bunch of colorism & femmephobia I see it on the TL everyday. This why none of them ever married Chile

It's unfortunate to have to say this but they dodged every bullet by getting rejected by that line of.....bagetts

y’all have limited understandings of colorism. lightskins given social meaning of being feminine, selfish, or dogs is what “affirms” darkskins being aggressive, masculine, etc. it’s a system that gives power to one end, but works together to hurt everybody.

Notice how if the roles were reversed everyone would’ve been outraged talking about “colourism” but now all of a sudden it’s “preference” 💀