THIS YOU MUST LISTEN TO

Is it better to buy a child from the bank than have a child with a man who wouldn’t be present in the life of the child. If the child asks for their father tell him /her, they are miraculously born through surrogate simple.

I’m a very independent minded person and normally don’t go with cultural norms but this I agree with and this is beyond culture, identity connection is from the soul and like the Rev said sense of belonging is one of the most important needs in the hierarchy of needs and until one knows where they’re from, something will always seem missing, children deserve to know both parents

I got my first dollar because a black American woman thought I was her brother from Nigeria 🇳🇬 she said the resemblance between me and her late dad is impeccable…he only mentioned that he traced his ancestral roots to Nigeria before he died ..

I'm someone who's very realistic.Had a convo with a friend who said he never knew his Dad frm childhood,he said he dsnt care,when I asked him where he thinks he's frm,d prblm came,he kept going in circles,I jst tld him to try knw his roots even if he wishes nt to identify with it

It happens because people don't know God. Even that so called pastor is very ignorant of the issues in this regard. God is our Father. We didn't know that fact until Jesus Christ showed up. He commands us not to refer to any man on earth as father because ONLY God is our Father even though many people do not know. So, a man is never the father of his wife's children. The best he could be is guardian! Traveling across the world in search of your so called roots is ignorance on parade. Your roots are only in God and your brothers are the believers in Christ. Note very carefully. However, women should be faithful to their hubbies, regardless of the challenges involved as long as it's not life threatening. In God's kingdom, three things matter most: mercy, justice and faith or faithfulness. Women be faithful in your marriages. Scattering children here and there isn't the will of God.

The western have destroyed the family, replacing the man with the state and constantly brainwashing the woman she don’t need a man

@Igbo_Gustin Susan theres literally a catalogue where you can choose from at a sperm bank. However, the pastor is right. According to Abraham Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, the need to belong is at the top of the pyramid. We cannot deny that part of ourselves.

I don't see a problem here. Tell the child the whole truth and everybody move on. Because of this and this, I got you from the bank. Qed

Our ancestors used law to owe women in check for a reason but today society dont know how dangerous a woman can be said to women take freedom.. women re danger to themselves..

Raise a child with love and the rest is history

This is very ignorant

You are talking like this because he do not know how much damage that toxic and selfish man can cause his children. Do not talk about what you have not experience. It is best to have a donor than to have a wicked man!

She should rest abeg So she shouldn’t bear kids because she couldn’t find a man ? If she is barren the world will still have something to say

Very Ignorant woman

There are topic a lot of people have been avoiding and it's time to talk about them and deal with them thoroughly.

What about men that buy egg or surrogacy with women they don’t know or see?

The same black Americans who claim that they are not Africans 👀

Why buy from a bank when you can cook noodles and two eggs for Kunle 😏

They won't know until issues like blood donation or transplant that requires from the family that is not her. Ie the father. 70 percent of rapist boys in African American homes come from where fathers are absent or non visible. Same with the Baby mama syndicate. It is well.

The subject of the topic went from black to yellow, did bbl and used a sperm bank. Isn’t it obvious the subject isn’t mentally unstable?

Stupid stupid stupid

This is so accurate. Selfishness has destroyed this generation.

Most people have identity issues or childhood trauma. Best if she heals her own wounds instead of moralising from her high horse abt others life choices. If a child born via sperm donor complains or objects to it then I’ll pay them fullest attention and respect their viewpoint

That language, “over American 🇺🇸 passport” because they’re not denouncing their American citizenship for Ghanaian citizenship.

Key Phrase- ‘The average modern woman is selfish’

It’s always the old women deceiving young women.

She nor go care for herself before? You nor care about yourself? Na your collect all their money with style no plans for them . Rubbish Care about yourself my dear No one can love you like you do . Put yourself first because regret bad Don't listen to that woman

God is our father madam,mind ur business

She’s just talking trash

@DONNADIMS

A average modern women is very selfish

I trust my Igbo people, the day they will share village meat, you will be told that your mama got you from the bank, The person will forever blame his mother

So single motherhood isn’t same as single fatherhood, am I right pls ?

This is a very important topic to discuss among men and women because it is causing a devastating impact in our society today. 😢