Thoughts...🤔🤔

Most men are broken now because they sharpened an arrow that wasn't theirs.

I understand him fully. He is talking facts. A girlfriend must afford their own lifestyle. I don't have to sponsor it.

Been there, never again

This includes giving her money for being with you

Women must afford their lifestyle

This knowledge just reminded me of a high school Xhosa book where the main character Sash Bethinja also sharpened a spear that doesn't belong to him. To cut the long story short, she graduated and became a teacher nge minimum salary ka Sesh Bethinja "the petrol station attendant" and she later said that petrol and cholk don't mix.. & the rest was history...

This brother is correct. There are things you shouldn't do for a woman. It is not your responsibility nor duty.

My uncles best friend took his girlfriend to law school on his security guard salary and she left him for another lawyer once she graduated. He still works as a security guard, bitter, hates women and drinks a lot💔. His life is work and alcohol that’s it💔.

Even in marriage the husband is not related to the wife by blood If they are not your blood relatives don't bleed or sacrifice for them in a manner that their own families should Problem is relationships in SA are based on you being her father

This is why having an active Father Figure is very crucial because half of these ninjas have been manipulated into thinking girlfriend allowance is Romance 😂😭