Thoughts… 💭

The difference is that she asks about things she doesn't know occasionally. He asks about basic, everyday household chores.

Fun fact: men can live just fine alone, often times we ask questions we consider you better at then ourselves because we value your opinion more than our own on those matters. It’s a partnership, let him use what he’s good at to help her, and her what she’s good at for him.

It is just as bad to treat a spouse like a child and do everything for them. If they are interested in doing it, I am going to make sure they do it right, but I'm not going to make them feel useless.

I would do a horrible job if I went to my husband's work and tried to do what he did all day. He does a horrible job doing my job. Of course I'm an expert at what I do. I am happy to answer questions and help him figure things out when needed

Thank you, I get flowers regularly ❤️

How many times a month do you change oil? Or assemble furniture? Now how about DISHES? Or LAUNDRY???? This is not the same workload and if your partner doesn't contribute? Maybe it's a sign to find someone who will.

The difference between him NOT knowing Amir everyday regular tasks and her asking about 1 off occurrences of things that aren’t day to day is completely different

Minor PTSD watch those scenarios. That was me and my ex exactly. And that’s why she’s my ex.

Differences also...she taught him... He never taught her. I.e. the soap, she told him which soap, he didnt show her which drill bit. He acted like she couldn't be taught.

Both should show the other how to do something just once, after that they need to get on with it. He shouldn't rescue her, same as she shouldn't do things for him. Empower one another. Works with kids too. Also, his questions were daily tasks. Get a grip, you're an adult ffs

I see exactly why God put Man In Charge in the relationship. A woman emotions make her too much of a bitch doesn't make for good reality only fantasy

I have started writing in every wedding card I send: “Remember that you fight for each other, not against each other.” Lessons learned the hard way.

Yeah no. Dishes and laundry are daily, building furniture and changing oil are like biannual. It’s not the same! Lmao

Thank feminism and the anti man rhetoric spread all across women’s social media feeds. It’s a mind virus.

In other words women use the opportunity to look down on & belittle men when men ask for help to look & feel superior while men use the opportunity to earn points to look & feel valuable to her with each instance. Men strengthen relationships & women tear down relationships.

👍🏽 Absolutely—relationships thrive on teamwork. Teaching each other tasks that come naturally to one but not the other builds connection instead of resentment. From the start, choose a partner who views your lack of familiarity as a chance to support you, not a burden.

Perfect example of thoughts creating feelings. She thinks he’s slacking/lazy etc…she feels slighted/taken advantage of. Unfortunately if you discuss it with her you’ll get “You MAKE me feel…” No, honey…you make you feel. Try giving me the benefit of the doubt sometimes.

You see people that are trying to equalise man and woman by force, they are the problem. "What a man can do a woman can do better" thats a big lie. And vice versa. Men and women are not the same. We do not focus on same activity, and our brain does not connect in the same way

yes bro we get it men are more logical and women are more emotional this is shit that everyone with a father figured out when they were ten When is everyone gonna stop regurgitating the "men and women are le different" line and actually figure out what the differences are #darkmg

This is the reality of many homes and relationships. Somehow, some partners have found solace to think this should be okay. Lots of people are suffering tho

Good message passed across.

What weaponized incompetence is to me is carrying two bags of groceries and pretending to not be able to open the door. Which has happened more than a dozen times with the men in my house.

All the women say he should know daily things.. but yet those things the man knows are daily things to him.. so shouldn't she know as well?😂😂

Maybe instead of the wife being an asshole, she would answer the question respectfully because sometimes people ask a clarifying question just to be sure they don’t fuck something up

This the typa shit that made boomers hate their wives

Electric......LAWNMOWER?! 😂

This is a very present attitude that women need to get rid of.

Uhm, like if u don’t see the drill bits every day, u wouldnt know which one. But u would go to the sink every day, n u would see the dish soap every day, so not to be able to recognise which dish soap is just 🤦‍♀️ n as a matter of fact, why not teach eo n swap jobs 🙄😒

Why is she so rude to him? He is so nice.

This is just sexist lmao

Everything she asked about seemed like a trick to get him to do something right then and there. It still wasn’t asking for help.

100% true. If you do all the chores the woman will turn you into her slave. If its her chores, pretend you dont even have arms😂. If its your chores, like fixing the bed, show up and do your thing

My husband did cleaning dusting cut the graß. I did shopping cooking anything in kitchen laundry maintenance. For 20 years. Both happy. We divorced but still friends. He doesn't cook hates laundry. I hate cleaning and dusting. 😂🤣😂

EVERY DAY TASKS...to once in a while tasks...

Women's next move will be "weaponized infantalization"