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🎬 Throwback short interview from Palavra (via 8.15) We had this translated for a while and wanted to share it properly with you 🤍 “I’m more realistic” ≠ not romantic. It means choosing real, grounded love over dramatic idealization. Are you more realistic or romantic? 👀 Same words —...

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